KRPKAB - Trying to make sense of the current track!

Kuch Rang Pyaar Ke Aise Bhi - KRPKAB - Making sense of the current track!😊

My previous blog on the show had a totally cynical tone and this one is going to be totally calm and introspective - which is an irony! How I change so quickly, I indeed must have been a chameleon of the first order in my previous life or in one of my previous lives! Well, let me stop myself there - a chameleon changes colors to suit the environment and to protect itself rite... Thinking back, I change, not to protect myself and to suit to the environment, but I change when I feel more enlightened and better informed, and better understood the person and the perspectives! So a chameleon is a wrong comparison! I think it is just human to judge, then analyse, then understand and then make sense of all that is happening and unfolding so quickly around! And that's exactly what I am - human! And I am happy about myself! 😛😆

Well coming back to my perspective on the current track in KRPKAB! All fans are upset with Eshwari ma, she is selfish, she needs to consider her son's happiness, Sona is the best bahu, she has lost it, she has gone mad - and so much more abuses and frustration shown against Eshwari ma! Well - everyone has a perspective... But let's put ourselves in Eshwari ma's shoes...😳

Is Eshwari ma selfish? Definitely when it comes to Dev's happiness, we have to admit that Eshwari ma is not selfish as all along she would do anything that makes Dev happy and when Dev is happy his happiness will reflect on her face! Let's analyze this a little more to see if we can come to an agreement.

Well some have the perspective the she is possessive of Dev and does not want to share his love with anyone! Mama ji also told Eshwari that the reason she is unable to be happy is because for the first time she is in a situation where her son's love is being shared with someone else.😊

Neha has also accused Eshwari Ma that she does not allow Dev to get off her godhi' or arms and any girl who comes in Dev's life - Eshwari ma will have a problem with her.

But all are forgetting that just a month back, Eshwari ma swallowed hard and was willing to accept Natasha as a daughter in law. She was all set for the engagement and she said many times that Natasha is a good girl and a good match for Dev! So this rules out the fact that Eshwari ma will stop any woman from entering Dev's life! Agreed?⭐️

Now it feels like it would have been good for Dev if he had let the marriage happen with Natasha. They could have divorced later in case he could not make the relationship work with her! Well - I am not a fan of divorces and I am surprising myself by making this statement here... But the point is atleast everyone would have seen how Eshwari ma would have interacted with a bahu whom she accepted and will not comment anymore that she will have a problem with any woman who comes in Dev's life. Neha's statement will be proven false and also Mama ji's statement.😉😆

So Eshwari ma is not selfish or possessive about Dev is my conclusion and hopefully you guys agree with me.👏

Now coming to why Eshwari ma is unable to accept Sona! Before that a big question that everyone has raised is how can Dev break-up with Sona for the sake of his mother and that is so rude of Dev. This angle needs to be analyzed deeply as well.🤢

Let's analyze the Dev angle quickly so we understand Dev. Dev told his ma that she always loved Sonakshi like a daughter and that was Dev's assumption that since Eshwari ma already likes Sonakshi or even loves her in his perspective like a daughter, that Eshwari ma will not have any issues with him choosing a girl that Eshwari ma already likes as his life partner. All along when Sonakshi asked him, is he afraid that his mother may not like her, he always said with confidence why do you think my mother will not like you, Everyone like you already and I am sure they will like you as my partner' - that was the point! Little did Dev realise that like a person in their current role is totally different and perspectives change when the same person is put in a different role! Dev failed to realize this point!😡😭

Like lets say I like an apple as an apple and then I decide to dress the apple as an orange and expect someone to like the apple as an orange - it does not happen rite! Well, agree the example is a bit silly! Maybe lets say I like a person as my mentor and then the person introduces him to me as a step brother, it takes a jhatka to change planes and suddenly look at the person as a brother instead.😳

A scene that comes to mind is Hrithik in KKKB where he gets introduced as a friend of his sister-in-law and later gets introduced as his brother and it was a emotional and a positive scene. In reality I wonder if would have been that way - when a guy comes in as a stranger and later says he is not a stranger but really related. For a movie that scene worked well, but in real life - sochna padega how I would react. Initially thoda frustration aur anger tho hoga zaroor I think.😊😆

Well lets come back to our complicated case at hand! Dev knows his mother likes Sonakshi as a doctor, and he thought she will like her as a daughterin law as well, but in Eshwari's mind she has certain expectations for the girl who will be in Dev's life! Firstly she does not want any of Dev's employees to get promoted to be his wife! Aisa thodi hota hai yaar ki kahi pe kaam pe join kar lo aur boss se pyar karo. Boss is a boss and I would dare not think of falling in love with my boss I think.😆😳

I had a very handsome boss - he was already married and I used to think that in case he was not married and in case I was not married and in case I had met him earlier, I probably would have fallen in love with him, and then my mind automatically stops me and says Idiot, who bosshai tumhara, and then the respect angle kicks in!😆😆😆

I agree there have been movies like Two weeks notice where what is that handsome guy's name - the lead... he starred in Notting Hill with Julia Roberts! Gosh! I remember the names of women and not the men! I am such a feminist! Well in that movie, he falls in love with his secretary. And similarly his secretary falls in love with him first and later he realizes he has also fallen in love with her and finally they become a couple! In that story - set in a western setting, there is no mother who comes in with her third perspective to influence the son's choice - so that guys was spared and he managed to choose his secretary as his wife! Happy Ending!😃😆

Also the movie where Sandra Bullock travels to sitka and marries a guy who is a US citizen just to save her visa status The Proposal' - there it's the other way round - the guy is the employee and he admires his boss and they by chance fall in love during their marriage. Their parents are americans and obviously in America tho kuch bhi chalta hai yaar! India is not there yet... 😃India is getting westernized for sure, but Eshwari ma abhi bhi purine kyaaladh se hai na, so Dev is the victim here. Maybe Dev will allow his children to fall in love with their employees for sure and he will understand - now that he has gone through the scenario himself and can relate to such a relationship!😆😛

So Dev bhi actually bechara hai. In this scenario he is the victim who is punished. It is self inflicted punishment, it is selfless punishment, and he is suffering! He broke-up once he realized that his mother did not approve Sonakshi as his life partner. He did not even want to have a conversation for her, as he knew all along that his mother does anything and everything for his happiness and if his mother felt someone is not right for him in life then his mother is most certainly right!👏⭐️

How amazing it will be if all sons felt this way! I have to mention that I have a brother who fell in love with his college-mate in similar scenario as Dev where the girl offered emotional support to my brother and my brother felt that was life changing and that made him successful in life and the person he was and he did not want to let her go - but my mother did not accept to the relationship and my mom had a valid reason (in my perspective) and now my mom has still not accepted the relationship and in a few days they will be celebrating their 2^nd wedding anniversary! I got angry with my bro for breaking my mom's heart! He was the only son and he had no right to make mom sad for the sake of his love! Mom had a valid reason and when the reason is valid and mom feels very closely and passionately about the decision then the son's should understand the mother! After my fight with him he has blocked me on whatsapp and this year I did not even send him a rakhi! It is a broken family I live in and I guess that was what I am destined for. I am not depressed as I have learnt to accept the happenings in life and understand. Life has made me calmer and peaceful, although at times I loose my cool in twitter on certain issues, I eventually calm down and see through the situation and then correct myself. It takes time but I try.😳🤢

Well enough about myself! I truly applaud Dev for his decision and his total confidence in his mother's choice and feelings for him. He feels closely for Sonakshi for sure. He felt the emotional support with Sonakshi, he felt he could share anything with Sonakshi and their wave-lengths matches. But this also cannot be denied that Sonakshi will have to live with him and his mother and if his mother sees that SOnakshi is not suitable for Dev, then Dev marrying Sonakshi and forcing her to live with him will indeed be torturing her to go through the pain Eshwari ma will inflict on her everyday! It is better to break-up now and save Sona of all the pain in future - like lifelong imprisonment in his life just cos of his selfishness that he loved her.😳😕

On the other hand he can choose to leave Eshwari ma and set up a separate life with Sonakshi so that he and Sonakshi can be happy and eshwari ma lives alone (like what my brother did) and that will be lifelong punishment for Eshwari ma to stay away from her son or not live together with him. So ideally a son wants a wife whom his mother can admire and like and love as his wife and not just himself! So Dev did the rite thing to breakup immediately with Sonakshi when he knew his mother did not approve of Sonakshi as his wife! He saved her the heart ache of having to put up with Eshwari ma's attitude which obviously Eshwari ma will only show to Sona and Sona cannot tell Dev as well and she will become the victim and on one side will need to try to make Dev happy and on the side save herself from being saddened by the way Eshwari ma is treating her.😳

Well - now coming back to the first point, why is Eshwari ma treating Sona the way she is treating her! To Eshwari ma, her son is a king and when choosing a queen, kuch rules hote hai yaar! Ek naukarani ko queen nahi banate na? Ok I agree I am being very rude in calling Sona a naukarani'. Maybe I could call her kaam wali'. Well that looks like the kaam wali who comes to do the dishes at home. But what do you call an employee in hindi? Aur koi word tho nahi hai dictionary mei. She is working as his mother's doctor and ultimately she is his employee. And to Eshwari ma, Dev definitely deserves a better girl than one who works under Dev! Anyone who is Dev's ma, just put yourself in her shoes and see if you will be ok with your son who is so accomplished to marry one of his employees. Ofcourse not yaar! So lets be fair and not hate Eshwari ma! She is fair in feeling Dev deserves better!😊😛

Eshwari ma is not denying that Sona is a nice girl! Achi ladki hai! Par phir bhi, ek auto driver bhi acha ladka ho sakta hai, ek naukarani bhi achi ladki ho sakti hai. Ek physiotherapist acha insaan ho sakta hai. Who sab thodi na ghar ki son-in-law or daughter-in-law ban sakte hai!!! Acha insaan hona is not sufficient qualification to become a daughter in law and Eshwari ma has a point. We have to agree to this. If anyone does not, then imagine you have a daughter or a son, I mean someone who is awesome, kingly / queenly and is just the best of the bestest type of son or daughter, ek heera ya mothi types, then what will be the type of partner you will want to choose for them?😛😃

Remember Priyanka Chopra ki papa ne kya kaha about Priyanka's would be husband? I sometimes wish that although Priyanka Chopra is so queenly, atleast the criteria can be a little lesser so she can atleast find a good match. It is hard to find a kingly person who is good and where also the wave lengths match! Par ab kya kar sakte hai? Her dad has already set the standards and she has to look for someone who will meet or exceed her father's expectations!😆

Same thing here! Dev also has to choose someone who will meet and exceed Eshwari ma's expectations! 😉Well we have to see how the show progresses! I have no idea what ending the creative team have planned for the show! Even Sony posted a video asking Dev to re-consider his decision to break-up with Sonakshi! Everyone in the fandom want Dev and Sona to get back together. I can understand that! But Dev is king and he needs a queenly person! Now I am keen to explore a few possibilities where Sona could become queenly in Eshwari ma's eyes! I think definitely Eshwari ma will get a new nutritionist who will not be quite as good as Sona and Eshwari ma herself will decide to request Sona to be her Nutritionist again! Eshwari ma should see Sona working in a big hospital as a senior Nutritionist or something better, something that is highly acclaimed and hopefully she does something where her pic also comes out in the papers or magazines as a successful woman and this will definitely increase the value of Sona in Eshwari ma's eyes! Or she could do something great in the humanitarian front that proclaims Sona as a super awesome woman like the Malala or Mother Theresa types, something totally out of the way to help humanity! All these things could make Sona become queenly!😉⭐️

We all have to admit Sona has wasted like what 6 months? Working at Dev's place? Putting her career at stake and blindly letting time pass by while loving Dev! She better prove her metal and excel in life and surprise herself and everyone else, go with such determination like Dev came up in life, that no one can stop her and then when Eshwari ma realizes whom she has missed, then be humble to forgive Eshwari ma and enjoy the prize money for her effort and determination - Dev! What more can she want in life other than Dev and for this Sona has to work hard, harder and prove she is worthy of Dev in Eshwari ma's eyes!

Well that was a lot of rambling! I hope I made some sense to the readers! And I hope I did not make too many of you angry reading this write-up! No apologies if it was a little or much to lengthy as I did not count the words, I did not even edit it and this is fresh out of the over, just from my heart J😳😃

The beautiful part about the show is how everyone is trying to do the right thing with their own perspectives in life and they only wish for the good and are good people and still things go wrong with them! That's the irony of life! I love watching the show and my sincere and humble and million thanks to the makers for creating such a beautiful concept!👏👏👏

We are looking forward to see how the show unfolds! Fans do show their anger sometimes, even I am a culprit, I have tweeted in anger about some sequences, and we thank you all for humbly and silently considering all feedback and making the show as good as it is today J

All the best team KRPKAB! And my hugs and thanks and best wishes to Shaheer Sheikh who inspired me to watch this show! If not for him, no way I would be watching I guess! #fact 😊😃👏