The Promo - How will you justify it!?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just saw the new and scary promo.
Since the time I read the WU in the morning, I was so disturbed and kept stay focused on my chores.
Yes , it affects us all that much.
What should I say?
The promo is so disturbing, I least expected this..
But, looks like whenever the story outlines were being sketched, this event, Ishwari's hospitalisation, would still have been the central plot in their mind.
This is how it was going to be, very well planned since Day 1.
I remember Supriyaji saying Ishwari will be shocked to realise that she is not happy with Dev's happiness. . And the extent to which she goes. .to keep it away, will shock her.
This suicide attempt, or a decision taken in panic whatever you term it, it was an attempt to kill yourself.

How will the cvs justify the strong-willed Ishwari who single-handedly sailed through the major crisis of her life with strong determination and faith in God. . To take such a drastic step? Out of emotions of guilt, agreed, but just the realisation of her grey shades. . Makes her forget about her children? How shattered they will be after this?
I thought she loved Dev, doesn't she know Dev will be lifeless after just one step of hers. . That his very existence is related with his mother for him.
Instead of sorting your guilt, trying to accept the relation. . You just take this drastic step.
Suicide is a HUGE step! You can't just think about taking your life just like that. It takes a lot of buildup emotionally to give up your life, with no one to hold on to, no way out of the situation.
But Ishwari had an entire family, who loves her dearly. . Her son who could give up everything for her. . Still she choses to run away, for escaping her guilt.
I always thought Ishwari was strong, I was wrong.

Also, this is like glorifying suicides to an extent. . Rather than facing the problem, you try to end your life and your problem will be sorted. If she dies, she escapes. . If she lives on. .Dev is leaving Sonakshi anyways. Win-Win for Ishwari? Ishwari has never reached that breakdown stage where she just wants to end everything.
Yes, this promo answers all our previous questions. . Dev will undoubtedly give up his love. Only Ishwari's life could separate his love. Ishwari will never say anything even after this entire drama plays out. . But, Dev will understand.
Dev Sonakshi will keep longing for each other. But would mutually be away.
I want to see how CVs justify this extremely drastic turn of events. . I hope this doesn't turn out to be the overly dramatic, less-sensitive take on the issue.
As suicide is a burning problem every where. . You just cannot take it casually, it needs to be tackled carefully.
Too many things going on in my mind right now.
Edited by saumiee - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I didn't look like a suicide attempt... It was a panic attack according to me. Lets see what's in the actual episode.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

I didn't look like a suicide attempt... It was a panic attack according to me. Lets see what's in the actual episode.

Yes, It doesn't look like a planned step. But, even if she takes the pills in the fit of the moment, It will still be a suicide attempt.
She is well aware of the consequences of taking so many pills together, She took the pills with an intention of hurt herself, punish herself . . Because she could not be a good mother.
All we can do is wait.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just saw the promo 😒

Oh yes! It's a very impactful & disturbing promo!... Ishwari is seen holding the photo frame with Dev & Sona's picture, she runs her finger over Dev's image. She wants to be close to him but he's far away from her & he's looking at Sona...all his attention is directed towards Sona. Ishwari is unable to whole-heatedly accept her son's love... She's unable to feel the same happiness that any other mother would go through. "Nahi hoon mein achi Ma"...she keeps repeating over & over again when she realizes that she's being selfish & that she just cannot share her son with anyone else. The reality strikes her... the guilt & remorse is eating her up & she hastily takes this drastic step...and just like in the picture she decides to be far away from her son! Phew! Kya promo yaar!

You know, I feel gutted when I think that Ishwari is capable of doing something like this. She was portrayed as a strong sensible woman & now she's portrayed as a lunatic ... who doesn't deserve any sympathy. All she could think was about her & her love for Dev. The others in her life don't matter & exist at all... If this drastic hasty step kills her...you think Dev will be able to live happily ever after?? Well if he doesn't know what made his mother do this then yes..he might just have a happy life. But if she lives through this, which she will & when Dev comes to know...he will be a dead, wasted, awful, useless, broken person and he will never ever forget this feeling...He will be breathing but he'll be dead...How can a mother who loves her son so much put him in such a situation???? HOW?? And the family that Dev loves the most will be standing in a queue to put the entire blame on him...Didn't we see the love that they had for Dev in yesterday's episode?? This action of Ishwari will hit everyone like a tornado. It will destroy everything that was there initially & they will have to work on every single feeling/emotion from scratch...

Soumya... where is this heading to?? 😭

Will be adding more to this...Need to breathe...

Edited by Buzzinnn... - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...

Just saw the promo 😒

Oh yes! It's a very impactful & disturbing promo!... Even Ishwari is holding the photo frame with Dev & Sona's picture, she runs her finger over Dev's image. She wants to be close to him but he's far away from her & he's looking at Sona...all his attention is directed towards Sona. Ishwari is unable to whole-heatedly accept her son's love... She's unable to feel the same happiness that any other mother would go through. "Nahi hoon mein achi Ma"...she keeps repeating over & over again when she realizes that she's being selfish & that she just cannot share her son with anyone else. The reality strikes her... the guilt & remorse is eating her up & she hastily takes this drastic step...and just like in the picture she decides to be far away from her son! Phew! Kya promo yaar!

It's all about her & her love for Dev! The others in her life don't exist at all.

Soumya... where is this heading to?? 😭

Will be adding more to this...Need to breathe...

Your description of the promo is so😭😭👏
So true, even worse. . It is not even about Dev. . Just the bond between the two. How can a son ever get out of the trauma that his mother could have lost her life because of him!
I don't know Aksh😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am speechless...voiceless...disturbed ...disgusted and what not.


Never expected this coming ... Dev will never ever be able to move on in his life no matter how much it hurts him to be away from Sona!
He has no choice other than this ...his mom simply left him no choice...!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I hope this reply gets posted, I'm having issues with posting on the site.
I'm also quite numb after watching the promo. Don't know how to react. Just heartbroken for both Dev and Sonakshi. Not able to process all my thoughts properly. Will be back to write more.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

Just saw the new and scary promo.

Since the time I read the WU in the morning, I was so disturbed and kept stay focused on my chores.
Yes , it affects us all that much.
What should I say?
The promo is so disturbing, I least expected this..
But, looks like whenever the story outlines were being sketched, this event, Ishwari's hospitalisation, would still have been the central plot in their mind.
This is how it was going to be, very well planned since Day 1.
I remember Supriyaji saying Ishwari will be shocked to realise that she is not happy with Dev's happiness. . And the extent to which she goes. .to keep it away, will shock her.
This suicide attempt, or a decision taken in panic whatever you term it, it was an attempt to kill yourself.

How will the cvs justify the strong-willed Ishwari who single-handedly sailed through the major crisis of her life with strong determination and faith in God. . To take such a drastic step? Out of emotions of guilt, agreed, but just the realisation of her grey shades. . Makes her forget about her children? How shattered they will be after this?
I thought she loved Dev, doesn't she know Dev will be lifeless after just one step of hers. . That his very existence is related with his mother for him.
Instead of sorting your guilt, trying to accept the relation. . You just take this drastic step.
Suicide is a HUGE step! You can't just think about taking your life just like that. It takes a lot of buildup emotionally to give up your life, with no one to hold on to, no way out of the situation.
But Ishwari had an entire family, who loves her dearly. . Her son who could give up everything for her. . Still she choses to run away, for escaping her guilt.
I always thought Ishwari was strong, I was wrong.


Ishwari has been strong as women who fought with everything to survive and she is still the same
but dev is her kamzori..dev ko lekar ishwari has always been different ..
now coming to suicide..suicide kabhi koi right stare of mind mein nahi karta..in spur of a moment one takes such drastic step..what points you have mentioned (kids dev family) are correct but ye sab woh hi soch sakta hai ..one who is in the right state of mind to think ..she will not b in normal condition when she will try to kill herself :(

Also, this is like glorifying suicides to an extent. . Rather than facing the problem, you try to end your life and your problem will be sorted. If she dies, she escapes. . If she lives on. .Dev is leaving Sonakshi anyways. Win-Win for Ishwari? Ishwari has never reached that breakdown stage where she just wants to end everything.
Yes, this promo answers all our previous questions. . Dev will undoubtedly give up his love. Only Ishwari's life could separate his love. Ishwari will never say anything even after this entire drama plays out. . But, Dev will understand.
Dev Sonakshi will keep longing for each other. But would mutually be away.
I want to see how CVs justify this extremely drastic turn of events. . I hope this doesn't turn out to be the overly dramatic, less-sensitive take on the issue.
As suicide is a burning problem every where. . You just cannot take it casually, it needs to be tackled carefully.
Too many things going on in my mind right now.

ye hi dekhna hai what will happen after this promo sequence..i am not thinking anything sab blank hai nd i dont to assume anything 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lets go with the assumption that ishwari has sone physcological issues(mentally unstable) when she thibks of getting away grom dev or not being his top priotlrity.
I think she just over dosed with her medicines and has not tried to commit suicide.
None the less dev will realise that he is responsible for moms breakdown and will try to breakup with sona. Any child would do this for their parents..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Saumiee
I don't know why I was not surprised seeing the promo. I was kind of expecting something so drastic for Dev to decide by himself to stay away from Sona. No one is aware of the level of insecurity Ishwari has. She is not opening up and is going into depression. She is having a reality check that she cannot join her son in his happiness which is impossible for any mother to do. It is shaking her own self made identity as Dev's mother. Depressed people does not think rationally. You will feel like they are selfish but they require more effort to fight their demons than a normal person. It is a moments panic and not a deliberate attempt to hurt her son or to separate them. I do have first hand experience with both suicide and depression in my own family. May be that is why I can relate to her.

The silver lining is that she is going to face this reality of hers and will try to overcome this hurdle for her kids just like she did previously. She is a strong woman I agree. But her love and attachment to Dev is her weakness. She will overcome this and redeem herself . The repercussions of her thoughtless action is going to haunt her forever.

If Dev and Sona had married without her realizing this first herself they would never have had a life. Dev needs both his mother n Sona in his life. For that this heartbreak was inevitable. Just my POV.
Edited by gmgi - 9 years ago

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