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Posted: 9 years ago
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@P.D... I'm so sorry at the excitement of proving Dhruv selfish I forgot about ur post...
Thank u and Kar_nan...both said exactly what I wanted to say...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: P.D.Dutta




Part two pura parh liya

lol part 2 me to kuch kiya hi ni mene
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

Ok now I will try to add wat I think abt Dhruv's transformation from DS to Sapola.

Dhruv had been the most coward character of PN. He fell for a girl but had no courage to stand for his love. When Thapki was deceitfully married to Bihaan, he did nthg to claim his love back. He accepted his defeat there and then.

Second act of cowardliness was his getting married to Shradha. He thought he will make Thapki jealous and she will then confess her love for him. Instead he should have clearly told Thapki that he loves her and wants her back but he did not do any such thing. And then made Shradha suffer for sthg she did not need to be suffered for.

He always had very weak nerves and the things that happened with him made his mind go total berserk. Instead of accepting his own mistakes, he put the whole blame on others. If he had any courage, he would have accepted his own faults too. He always blames Bihaan for cheating Thapki and wat abt him cheating Shradha. Did she deserve to be with a man who does not want her as his wife.

I equally blame him for all the bad that has happened in PN. He never cared abt Thapki and weat happened with her in PN. She saw him sweeping the house and raised no voice when he claims to be deeply in love with her. Bihaan never loved her and still he had the courage to stand for her. He fought with every one for her respect. And yes when he started loving her, he made sure that she loves him back. In fact he made her realise her love for him.


And lastly, love is never greedy. DS is greedy in his love. It was okay for him till the time he thought Thapki had a miserable life but as soon as he saw her happy with Bihaan, he made sure her life was a living hell.

If u compare Bihaan and DS, you will understand y Thapki loves Bihaan instead of DS. Love needs trust, reassurance, possessiveness and sacrifice. Bihaan proved himself in all these traits but DS failed miserably in each one of it.

One needs to claim ones love instead of claiming some one else's. Now he has no right over Thapki and he shd let her go. He has lost his chance and he should have gracefully accepted it. Now its not love its jealousy. And his acts r of sheer nuisance





Bold 1.. Could not agree more. Very well explained.


Bold 2... That's where the difference between Dhruv and sapola lies. Bihaan did everything to help Thapki although he was not in love with her but Dhruv did nothing although he loved her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roseymi

@P.D... I'm so sorry at the excitement of proving Dhruv selfish I forgot about ur post...

Thank u and Kar_nan...both said exactly what I wanted to say...


It's OK Rose!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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CVs have completely ruined and tarnished all the characters of this show, esp Bihaan. During the Sapola track, I cudn't relate to Bihaan at all. Felt like he was some other guy in the show!😕.

About Dhruv, I personally never thought Dhruv was a gentleman filled with goodness. As I had mentioned in my other post too, I will just copy paste it here.

To show you are good and to prove you are good by your deeds and actions are two different things. This is the difference between Dhruv and Bihaan. Just standing quiet in the cornor and witnessing things and letting it happen doesn't make you good! Just because you stay away and don't put your hands in the garbage doesn't make you clean and good! You have to grab the garbage and throw it away! Which Bihaan always does!! He acts, whereas Dhruv never did! Only after he had this obsession for Thapki he started to act and we all know in what way he is acting! So I never thought he had that much of goodness in him even earlier! Dhruv has always been in the good books but his real character had come out now, which may be he himself wasn't aware of! In trying to be good and trying to show you are "good" he never let his inner self come out! He always had that in mind "I have to be good I have to be good" cos thats how his family always moulded him! He always showed he was a good human being but he never proved it by his actions!! Just by standing in the corner and becoming a spectator and not speaking anything against anyone does not make you good! Dhruv never acted on anything! Whenever there was any drama in the house have u seen Dhruv speaking or acting on anything??? Ok lets say he was shattered with his marriage dhoka and deeply betrayed so he had no mood to speak ever! But how can his goodness allow him to spoil a third person's life?? How cud he marry Shraddha?? And we all know how he has been behaving after his marriage! For god sake Vasu or anyone never forced him in the mandap and made him put that mangalsutra and sindoor to Shraddha! It was his own choice!! Here his evil ego played the role which made him marry Shraddha u see! Now even after marriage, ok u don't love her fine.. But atleast talk to her be nice to her! You have decided to marry that girl and now she is in your house, in your bedroom as your wife dammit! But this guy even hesitates to talk to her... Why so? Cos he was only thinking of Thapki Thapki Thapki?? If that's the case, the girl cos of whom he was behaving like this and becoming a devdas what happened to him when the family members were accusing and lecturing Thapki one after another and initially threw her out of the house?? In all this phase did he even once bothered to speak? NO! But who did? BIHAAN! Actions speaks louder than words and Dhruv did not even have any words to speak! He always kind of tried to put himself out of the situation.. But by doing this it doesn't make one good!! n terms of goodness, actions and most importantly Humanity, Bihaan always excelled in all!! And I don't have to prove this.. we all know why and in what way! And today if Bihaan was in Dhruv's place, i can write and tell Bihaan would never do anything what Dhruv has done and is doing! Too many betrayals fine, but you become this evil??? Sorry not justified! If so, even Bihaan has never been treated properly since day 1 in pandey niwaas specially from his mother! This could have irriatated him, frustrated him and turned him evil too afterall he was facing so much hatred and was being used all the time! And he knew this!! So this cud have frustrated him and he cud have chose to become evil too! He has nothing to lose anyway cos that family is not even his own family! But did he??? No! Why? Cos his personality, character, doesn't allow him to! He picks up positivity and goodness over any negativities. So personally I never believed Dhruv was a good character! Yes I did feel bad for him cos he was highly betrayed and I also sympathised with him for that but what he is doing now cannot be justified AT ALL!! And even if he had a little goodness in him he wudnt go to an extent of kiling his brother! So I feel the man he had always locked up inside himself in an attempt to show his goodness and be in good books of others have eventually come out! Thanks to ThaHaan for bringing out the true/real face of DHRUV PANDEY, THE SAPOLA.
Edited by Katluv - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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bang on didi
nice post😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks Archu!

Kat..but there was goodness in Dhruv which was solely destroyed

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