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Wow what an episode. Let's start with the start as the mother was elated to find her son performing puja and doing all the rituals as per the traditions. She was happy and excited as her son was performing puja her daughter and son in law have visited her for puja what else a mother can ask for. She blesses the newly wedded couple and asks them for food but not before looking for the apple of her eyes. But she was least aware that a storm was waiting outside to hustle bustle her life without even entering the ishwari niwas. She heard dev and sona's conversation and witnessed the ease and comfort in their body language while talking to each other and Boom a bomb blast took place then and there itself. The impact was so dreaded that it took away all her powers to analyse things and to think rationally. A happy mother a few moments back turned into a woman with the most powerful emotions of anger hatred jealousy and above all insecurity. She forgot that her daughter had come for the first time after hard marriage to her mother's place and her foremost duty was to attend that daughter and the Jeep everything aside but it seemed she was possessed by her insecurities so much so that she became obvious to every other thing.
The main culprit was how come neither she nor time but a girl was able to convince dev for doing puja n all but what she didn't register was it was her happiness for which sona persuaded dev and dev too for making her happy did all what he had done. It is true gussa aapke sochne ki shakti Ko chhin let a hai. She became so mad that she surprised everyone with her rudeness be it her brother son and last but not the least poor soul who is at the receiving end these days Sona.
Again she had belittled the effort of sona in putting the things into place. The way she talked to sona was as if she was talking to a maid and not a doctor.
I truly and sincerely wish sona to look for a job, enough of this insults, indifference and taunts. Beyond anything and everything a girl is known for her high spirits and self respect.
The scene b/w sona and dev was wonderful. It was beautiful not because dev admired her or adored her but for the fact that amidst all this she didn't forget that ishwari must be tired and hungry. She knew her responsibility as a doctor. It was a pleasure to see a woman who loves her boss but takes care of his family and their needs as he would do. But little did she knew that a tigress is all ready to pounce upon her. Today's outburst of ishwari was unjust because it was her son who followed sona's advice. He could have easily ignored that also when she she said bhagwan sadbuddhi de she could have said that with more clarity and authority just to maintain a distance from sona. Both mother and son claims to be two sides of a con but they are two different coinstyles altogether. They are unaware of what is going inside each other. The emotional connect was there till the time of their struggle but now it seems dev is running behind just the material needs for his family and his mother is unaware of his inner turmoils and his happiness.
A mother is always concerned for her daughter once she gets married and to top it all in a family with lesser resources instead of her well being she was mourning over her son's happiness. As a mother I could not relate with her at any level she seemed to me a selfish mother who was and will always remain insecure because she doesn't want to let go of her past and embrace her present. Only change is constant in this world and she should be happy that sona brought the best out of her son but she took it to her ego that how come she was not that push for the change on her son. She wants her son son to flourish to expand his business to be always surrounded by wealth and comfort but little does she know his fears his struggles and his worries to provide all this to them. He cares for theme and wants the best for them but had lost everything of his which has been brought back by sona but she is unable to see that.
Her denial to this change would further enhance her insecurities. She needs to understand that she would be the center of attention for her son always but he has a life to lead for which he needs a soul mate, a person with whom he can shares his worries his insecurities his fears and above Al his life and ishwari for sure can never be anyone of that. Dev needs a shoulder to cry upon, he needs a hand to hold on and move ahead, he needs eyes who can see through his soul and have a deep dive to his thought process and above all he needs a soul who completes him physically mentally emotionally with whom he can break down without any guards on and ishwari doesn't fits into the bill.
Aaj toh kuch zyada frustration nikal gayi. Very sorry guys.
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