Similarities Anshi Ishkara Rumya

I had earlier thought the three love stories are about opposites attracting but as the show goes on I realize there are more similarities than differences
AnShi
The both appear to be string from the outside for their family and siblings but deep within they yearn for someone's support. Both love their siblings more than their own life.
IshKara
Both have faced pain in their past. Both can stand up for their parents against anyone (Om standing up for jhanvi against Tej and Ishana for her father against those people who came for the outside money)
RuMya
Rudra lives in a dysfunctional family, where as Soumya has lost brother who seemed to be dear to her and yet they both are strong.

The difference only lies in who they face these situations and how the paths they walk on will join Anika making Shivaay realize money isn't everything, while Shivaay makes Annika realize sometimes it is good to be practical. Om teaching Ishana that the way of honesty is the best way while Ishana teaches Om how to some lies in life.