Complex Emotions - is the story getting convoluted or probably cliche?

Hmm .. Kuch Rang Pyaar Ke Aise Bhi - June 11th to June 15th

The story resonates and relates so much to real life incidents in my life and an analysis, an analogy in trying to understand the characters in the show and why they react the way they react is spontaneous all the time!

I was in a no connectivity zone for this past week and I could not resist waiting eagerly for the few moments in the day when I would have some internet connectivity and I could quickly catch a glimpse of what happened in the day's episode - on my mobile phone, exhausting and exceeding my data plan and least bothered by the repercussions both in terms of cost and ethics considering it is a corporate line - lol!

Well, coming back to the point - this week showcased a whole bunch of complicated emotional situations - which both make one feel totally connected to the character and at the same time makes one question the level of clicheness added to the script... I am known to be an extreme critic and I probably am one, however, lets be practical...

I have spoken to a few doting brothers and even Shaheer is a brother himself to two lovely ladies... No matter the level of negligence it is hard to visualize a man breaking down totally and shedding tears like Dev did, post a sister's bidayi.. While I wish such true emotions were feasible in real life and I wish there are brothers who do deeply miss their sisters to feel guilty on the day of the sister's marriage - I truly wish the scene was directed with less tears :)

Well again - who does not like to see a man cry... Let me think.. Which scene of a man's tears have we admired the most? I think.. Shaheer definitely has a few such scenes to his credit :) The few ma - beta scenes in Mahabharat, and the ma - beta scene in Navya when he leaves the house and on the day of Holi - were simply too realistic - and at the same time too surreal - too good to be true :) But we loved all those scenes - and I wonder if we loved the scene where Dev broke down for Neha.. Well - we felt much more connected to scenes between Dev and his mother - and while we have seen mostly fights between Dev and Neha, rite from the Holi wala din to the day Neha was sarcastic to Dev in front of Natasha - Neha has shown only attitude to Dev and probably the attitude kept Dev away from getting close to or feeling motivated to spend time with?

Well - even the scene where Neha requests Dev to make Ranveer rich, Dev listens to her request and walks away even before Neha can finish saying what she intended to say... This was indeed a director's touch to show that Dev preferred to move on to his next tasks when there was even the slightest realization that his further presence was not needed around her.

Even the English class pamphlet, when Dev sees it and arranges for Ranveer to come home, Neha sends Ranveer back and later decides on her own to join the classes. There has been very less bonding between Dev and Neha and probably the reason why so much tears feels un-justified.

The dialog Dev says that 'when sisters leave the house, they leave physically but never from the heart' - was true and will be true for everyday, and as he says, he was in the office most days and many days he did not even get to see Neha! Evenings when he comes home, just once did he walk into Neha's room, more to understand what love was and how Neha realized she was in love - which was also a selfish reason and not some time he wanted to spend with Neha for her sake...

Well well - the point it - men are men, brothers are brothers - boys are boys and men dont cry so much :) Men dont miss their sisters so much.. So KRPKAB is indeed slanting towards being cliche and unbelievable :) It is unbelievably enjoyable in fact - as we dont get to see such in real life and make is definitely endearing to watch on screen :)

Well moving on - I totally dont get Sona not wanting to discuss her relationship with Dev to her parents. Well - Dev does not tell his mom - can be understood as men behave like men - but women are women and women love to tell their true love stories to their mothers! Mothers are their best friends and Sona's mother is such a sweetheart! She has shared with her brother and Eleena and not her mother! Well - probably brother sister relationships could be stronger than that of a mother - daughter?

I had my brother much later - my brother was 5 months when I got married - lol - so I dont know what it feels like to be close to a brother, close enough to share about one's love life to him before sharing with mom :)

I truly wish Sona chooses to speak atleast to her mother about the relationship! I feel very deeply fir the current situation in the show - as this is exactly what happened in my brother's life! He met the girl whom he calls the love of his life during college and did not share with anyone about his true feelings for many years! He tried to bring the girl home and introduce her to my mother as a casual friend hoping to get mom's approval - but that was obviously not happening! Mom did not accept her as a suitable bride for him and she still has not! He waited for many years trying to convince mom and the year before last decided to get married on his own without any family participation!!!! It is indeed heart breaking to see such happenings in real life..

I wish both boys and girls, men and women have the courage to discuss with everyone in the family especially the parents to give them time to understand the background and share their feelings about the relationship and also be ready and prepared to accept the new relationship with a whole heart!

It is indeed going to be heart breaking for Eswari to realize her son has already taken major decisions in life and has not considered her views or even shared with her such an event that is of colossal importance to Dev's life! - the choice of a life partner!'

Similarly I truly wish Sonakshi also soon discusses with her mother and gets her mother's opinion on the relationship as well..

Well - lets see what the writers have in mind in the coming episodes...

As per interviews - Eswari will get to know of the relationship soon... And the unfolding of events to this turning point keeps all viewers anxious and eagerly waiting for the next episode!

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