IKRS Tuesday 12th July 2016 ep 302 My Take ~ over the top !
In many instances in life one tends to go over the top and spills out beyond what one really is. Exaggeration and to be loud seems to be the order. When low key will not just do becauseone wishes to make a dramatic impact. Usually this tack of expression is used to send strong messages around. The episode contains this tone of bold communication. With Parshiya sending off blaring memos to Viplav by arranging Vidha's birthday party, he can do it better than Viplav can. To Vidha and Dhani he wants to make it known that he can create the impossible in their lives ,just to bring a smile on their faces! Alongside the loud meaning is served to both Viplav and Anshuman that a lot of water has passed from under the bridge and reverting things to what they were is improbable.. and hence separation continues between bond.
The confrontation between Dulari and Anshuman continues to arrive at some amicable settlement. Viplav has put in considerable effort to set up this therapy session, his ideal outcome would be that ruffled feathers are smoothed and perhaps kaki and her husband might get back together for the sake of both Dhani and Vidha. But this is a bit premature as Dulari shares more information about what actually transpired that she vanished from Anshuman s life.. Viplav , Dhani and Anshuman learn it's the typical scenario where the mother in law was the bone of contention between her son and his wife. The son was under the impression all was good at home. Dulari as the obedient daughter in law suffered atrocities silently in complete reverence for her mother in law..she actually now points out her husband's ignorance in looking out for his wife's discomfiture in the house. Thus ignorant complacency on her husnand' part, seemed to be the reason why Dulari left.. Anshuman as a husband looked out only for Dulari's physical and social needs ,but failed to catch on to her emotional needs! Dulari explains now how his mother had brainwashed her,that her son didn't love her.. and she therefore kicked a pregnant Dulari out of the house!!! and a stunned Anshuman revealed , his mother had showed him Dulari's sari bent his ear his wife drowned in the floods!! his mistake he never bothered to confirm!!So much so for dangerous misunderstandings which were never investigated,but rather left to become a truth with not an ounce of credibility to it. but Anshuman points out the sad truth , when he questions Dulari s love..how could she believe his mothers words that he never loved her? why didn't she return to him?.Here to me the hard fact is that both Dulari and her husband have learnt to live without each other for twenty five years. In their own way, both have struggled and survived and hence certainly from Dulari's point of view ,it's pointless to converge their separate ways at this moment in time as they live in different worlds ! never the twain shall meet! unless some miracle happens..and Dulari requests Viplav to ask her husband to leave as it was due to him that she allowed him an audience in the first place.
However some broken significant links cannot be forged completely, but neither can they broken just like that! for these links carry too, the right to glean blessings from our elders. Viplav calls Anshuman while he is leaving and requests blessings for Vidha since its her birthday. Anshuman recognizes the nobility in Viplav and showers him with his blessings too.. empowers Viplav, he knows Viplav has the potential to keep the strands of relationships together! Viplav in turn gives Vidha's grand dad the hope that even though familial bonds are fragile and tend come apart.. but that by no means alters relationship that are in place!. Once more Viplav makes known the respect he has for woman hood, as he lauds dulari before Anshuman that she has sound knowledge of life that cannot be found in text books..this shows his father in law that Viplav is a new age man who values the presence of elders in his life! Anshuman blesses him galore with a request to Viplav to take care of Dulari and Dhani. Viplav emotionally lets him go with a promising note that he will ensure that he returns and unites with his family! To me, where there is a mess of hurtful past history between two opposing parities ,it's hard to reach a resolve..still the flame of hope should be left alight! as with all facts before them both dulari and Anshuman should decide for themselves at a later stage are they going to leave things in limbo like they did before?or for the sake of future generations will they make an effort to patch up their issues?
Vidha's birthday party is all about Parshiya setting out to prove to the community where he lives in and to Viplav the clout he has in the chawl too..that he may not be rich and educated like Viplav but, this is his territory and he is the king here! The symbol of the spot light he wishes to use for Vidha , is really him drawing attention to the fact that he can do more for Vidha and Dhani ,than Viplav ever did in the past five years!! Five years is half a decade he has known Dhani and the time has now come that he can make known to Dhani exactly what he feels for her? Dhani giving off message to Viplav ,in my opinion certainly contributes to Parshiya's emotional attraction towards Dhani. So till the time Dhani does not set parshiya right , his harmless attachment towards her will continue.
To the flower fairy this party for her, means everyone is busy no one really has the time to interact for her except! Her monster uncle.. he gives yet another pressie to his flower fairy! a colorful paper wind mill.. it's revolving blades are when the wind blows a symbol that may his flower fairy's life been spinning with all the colors of the rainbow! joy and mirth fill her all the days of her life! This then is simple gift, a blessing from a father for his daughter!. Viplav, like Anshuman, is sensitive to the fact that the mothers in question, namely Dhani and Dulari don't consider them as fathers of their children yet.. Anshuman walked away, but NOT Viplav he forges a new bond with his flower fairy! daddy's friend! An exchange of friendship bands happen , Viplav contemplates , whatever happens! He will always be there for her as an ever present friend to hear her out! this then, is a fathers' blood bond with a daughter he cannot call his! He also shares with her there is another girl whom he has a friendship band for, but she's acting not his friend at the moment!! Vidha is called away for a change of dress for her party and Viplav looks at the two most important links in his life, his wife and daughter on his wrist, close to his pulse!
Parshiya sees Vidha with Viplav! He becomes insecure and that once more rivets him like a pinwheel in his desire to outdo Viplav and win Dhani and Vidha's favour! He wants the street party set in the manner like the rich do with entertainment of all sorts that amuse little children! That requires money! for parshiya that is not an issue he goes to the money lenders borrows more money at a high interest rate to give to the party organizer! The issue with parshiya is that he cannot see his true worth for Dhani and Vidha..his input into their lives is priceless .Pity is he cannot recognize it , but Viplav can see how this man supported his wife and child at a time when they were most vulnerable!! The money lenders chuckle at parshiya's inability to see that they have taken him for a ride! They mock as they take one look at Dhani! make indecent comments towards her, they can't blame Parshiya! the dame is such a stunner! thatanyone would else shower her with money to see her happy!
Viplav lurks about.. hears the filthy comment and then its fisticuffs with the eve teasing buffoons! thing is his rage is not only for his beloved Dhani.. its Viplav's usual fury at all men who make lewd remarks and disrespect women!.. but parshiya misinterprets his anger, when Viplav raises an eyebrow at his questionable friends! A rich man and not to rich man's sense of morality , and decorum is in question! Both Dhani's knights give signals of a possible joust!! betwixt the two ! but the damsel in distress Dhani turns up and clearly takes parshiya's side , the son of the chawl while Viplav is termed a misfit the outsider in the ghetto!! In no uncertain terms , she asks Viplav to leave ! before she cancels the party! Parshiya asks him to leave rather unceremoniously! Although , Viplav does growl at him, stay out of his and Dhani's mistake! Viplav leaves.. only to return.. because Viplav never leaves what rightfully belongs to him!
Let the party begin! one snitch! the joker has pulled out he just cannot make it!! and that's not all the birthday girl flower fairy Vidha is every inch Viplav. T's daughter she won't cut the cake till her demon uncle is not present here with her!..well then! what has Viplav too fear? ,taunts , cusses, threats, nothing can stop.. his insider is present in the chawl she will demand for his return! Chuckles Viplav somewhere behind a mask...
Overall a sweet episode with regards to the father and daughter scenes namely, Vidha and Viplav.. With regards to Dhani and her father, even if she wanted, she keeps her relationship at bay .. lest she puts salt on her mother's wounds. Parshiya's desperation to mean something more to Dhani than just a good friend shows!.. he fails to think straight and takes decisions he may regret later on in life.. actually he fails to see that Dhani is not into loud and bold, she is humble and low profile girl complacent in living happily her life of honest bread winning with her mother and daughter beside her.. Viplav proves once again he opts for thinking positive and remaining hopeful .He is ready to challenge Dhani's fresh spate of pushing him away! It only makes Viplav more stubborn in his Ishq! Hamlet53 13.7.16
precap: the big fat birthday party.. continues
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