Why is Nimmi staying in the house?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why does Nimmi tolerate the manipluation of Dadi and Mahinder? Why not just leave the house and take the kids with her?
Is she still shocked that Soumya took her father name instead of her? Why stay back and see that Mahinder and Dadi are brainwashing Surbi with the fake love of Soumya. And makes sure that Surbi hates her mother and Soumya.


Felt to sad for Nimmi when Surbi trow away the kheer and said i want to stay with daddy.. first Soumya now Surbi. Mine hearth broke for her. Master plan of Dadi worked!!

Yes she overprotective of Soumya but cant blame that because she saw that dadi and mahinder burried her 10 days old baby alive.. and hired some lady to kidnapp Soumya..


So now what will Nimmi do now? Both daugthers now choose dad name? Why not just pack your bags and take the kids with her. She is fully in her rights.

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zubeada thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agree she can leave the house easily
but may be she want the kids to choose her instead forcing them to be with her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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she was leaving the house untill the children ruined her plan in their innocence
now maninder will be more confident that both the kids want to stay with him
this makes nimmi weak and she has to stay in the house
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I guess we can't sympathise Nimmi for everything. Sometimes, somethings she did wrong as well. I'm not astonished at the kheer throwing part. Neither will I sympathise Nimmi for that. She DOES neglect Surbhi for Saumya. & I'll say to quite an extent. I get it that Mahindar & Dadi are using Saumya so she's concerned. But what did Surbhi do wrong? 😕 She's a kid & deserves the same share of love & care from Nimmi. No way she deserved to be neglected by her mother after coming 2nd in the race. Just a "good job!" from Nimmi would have made her happy. But Nimmi couldn't do even that much for her being soo busy in gushing over Saumya. Poor Surbhi was hungry later on! All she asked for was bread from her mother. But Nimmi just couldn't listen to her. She had to make kheer. When someone's hungry, they prefer plain simple roti, not kheer! 😳 & even if she made kheer, was it too tough to bring 2 bowls of kheer for the 2 kids together? When Surbhi is screaming she's hungry, must Nimmi go & feed Saumya first? Sorry, Nimmi might be a perfect, protective mother for Saumya, but as Surbhi's mother she failed badly. Hence the result...as you sow, so you reap.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Be it from Yesterday's epi or previous epis,She does that to surbhi always,without any mistake of surbhi nimmi scolds her or neglect her.Fine u care for soumya but why cant u just appreciate the other child a little? and she blames Dadi n Maninder for separating or dividing the kids but nope more than them,nimmi is the reason for surbhi's hatred to soumya. She deserved what surbhi did yesterday. Btw more than Strong mother, she is becoming annoying with this batwara track.. sometimes with her overprotectedness to soumya,negligence to surbhi n rotlu behaviour infrnt of maninder 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Lonewalker.

I guess we can't sympathise Nimmi for everything. Sometimes, somethings she did wrong as well. I'm not astonished at the kheer throwing part. Neither will I sympathise Nimmi for that. She DOES neglect Surbhi for Saumya. & I'll say to quite an extent. I get it that Mahindar & Dadi are using Saumya so she's concerned. But what did Surbhi do wrong? 😕 She's a kid & deserves the same share of love & care from Nimmi. No way she deserved to be neglected by her mother after coming 2nd in the race. Just a "good job!" from Nimmi would have made her happy. But Nimmi couldn't do even that much for her being soo busy in gushing over Saumya. Poor Surbhi was hungry later on! All she asked for was bread from her mother. But Nimmi just couldn't listen to her. She had to make kheer. When someone's hungry, they prefer plain simple roti, not kheer! 😳 & even if she made kheer, was it too tough to bring 2 bowls of kheer for the 2 kids together? When Surbhi is screaming she's hungry, must Nimmi go & feed Saumya first? Sorry, Nimmi might be a perfect, protective mother for Saumya, but as Surbhi's mother she failed badly. Hence the result...as you sow, so you reap.

i completely agree wid u,yes she has been made to suffer a lot and her protective nature towards soumya is justified but she shouldn't forget dat she is surbhi's mother too,it was completely wrong on her part when surbhi was aking for rpti n she instead was preparing kheer for saumya,she should understand dat if she does so it wud create jealousy bw d two sisters
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Posted: 9 years ago
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she did try to leave the house with both kids once but got caught by manindar
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Maninder will never let this happen. You remember when his mom advised him to divorce Nimmi and let her go with the kids. He can marry again and have another children. Since Maninder can't stand neither Nimmi nor Soumya he still didn't take his mom's advice. This is when I believed he will never leave Nimmi alone. Which husband like Maninder won't re-marry and get rid of the wife he hates? Still he didn't take this decision but instead he sticks to his words. So it's very obvious that no matter wherever Nimmi goes he will always follow her cuz she won't go without Surbhi.
I believe... It's always better to stay near the enemy to be aware of what he does rather than to stay far and always be worried about when he will come and snatch Surbhi from her. I think her decision was good to stay since her bloody husband is a ziddi man and can go to any extend to separate Surbhi from her mother.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Im not saying she is a perfect mother.She made mistakes i agree, with Surbi. As she give a lot of attention to Soumya. But i understand her actions why she give so much attention to Soumya as everyone hates her. SHe is not getting the same rights. We still dont know the reason what is wrong with Soumya. But almost everyone hates Soumya in the house. But what i see she love Surbi a lot too. It is just Mahinder and dadi makes sure to spread poision whenever Nimmi give some more attention to Soumya. For me the big question why she stays at the house. She is a strong lady!

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