My take on Swadheenta's feelings :pls do take a look

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Okay , so what everyone cares about is Abhay's death. Their loss. Suhasini , Manohar , Jaidev-Jaya , Simmi ; yes she lost her husband , the father of her unborn child , but did anyone even stop and think about Swadheenta ? Not for a second.
She lost her brother , her mamu whom she considers her father is put in jail , both of them accused of being terrorists. Her mamu brought her the gift that he assumed was given out of respect from his son's friends , on her wedding day , for her , out of love for her. How can everyone be so harsh to her and expect her to take up the role of an obedient daughter in law immediately after what happened ? No person in their right mind would expect that from another person. It is just wrong. On every level. They can't just think of her as a pet who would wag its tail for its master. She is a human being , she too has feelings , and no one realises it , but she lost the most on that night. The day that was supposed to be the best day of her life. Something she dreamed about for years , like every girl does. It turned into a nightmare , and how ! She lost half her family , the brother whom she loves so much , her husband who didnt even have the patience to think about her feelings , not once did he ask her how she feels about all this , the husband she married for love. Is this what love is supposed to be ? He freaking abandoned her. And jaya ? I was so very disappointed because I really respected her before all this. She does not get to judge Swadheenta. Specially not when she didnt lose anything , in comparison to the rest of them.
Seriously , give Swadheenta some credit.
Also , I know this post is for Swadheenta , but Suhasini is one strong woman. She sure deserves respect for being able to stand in court and fight for what she thinks is right , fight for her son when they talk about him dying after being shot , to be able to stand there and listen to all that without crumbling to pieces right there , in front of the whole world. Salute to you , Ma'am !
Also , I comment on other people's work sometimes , I read stuff here sometimes , but this is my first post. My point of view. Please do tell me what you all think about this , would mean a lot.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I believe Swadeentha's character is made of sturdy stuff. I went through something similar early in marriage and believe me it's tough when you're alone and everyone in the new house you've entered takes turns to shout at you; for something they thought your family did.
You have the values your mother taught you and you stand up. I didn't fight but I didn't antagonize. Marriage is not easily broken by one big argument.

Sinhas think Swadeentha has been thoroughly brainwashed by Gilanis. So they think she's not in her right mind.

It's a special kind of torture when your husband refuses to speak to you and freezes you out. Sinhas have a lot to be sorry for.

I just hope it doesn't end in tragedy...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't feel Sinha's have abandoned her nor has Adarsh.. 😊
I don't know why am I saying this whether it is because I sense their situation or because I have seen many Indian television shows and I know what abandoning a DIL means in telly world...

Mostly when I see the DS, I have seen ruthless behavior of in laws towards their DILs over petty mistakes or sometimes no mistakes..

DIL being thrown off by MILs..

Husband throwing divorce notice at ever instant..

And every fight ending to third angles etc.

Sinha's I think do behave in a manner an educated family would behave in such a situation...Their situation is way too critical...They are angry at her but they are not mad at her... Suhasini listens to her, Adarsh is patient with her.. The only thing is that they have lost the most beloved person in their lives...Yes Swadhinta too has and Sinhas would have been standing besides her equally as they are standing with Simmi had asad not been tagged as a terrorist... Swadhinta too understands their situation..

Their comes time in our lives when we have to fight.. their is no other way out with it... Swadhinta too has to fight and in fact it is a battle for all of them.. they all have to reach the truth even if their ways are different as said by Swadhinta... Just that her path is correct and we know that she is on the right path but journey is something they all have to travel ... How they reach the right side of the journey is to be seen...

I however agree on Jaya's part to some extent... If she can't stand by Swadhinta's side at least I expect her to be empathetic towards her...

And her parents.. dnt know where they have disappeared.. at least they should talk to her... even if it is only meant to persuade her but at least they should talk to her.. It would mean a lot to the girl who is fighting a lone battle...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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in the present situation nobody is right or nobody is wrong! sinhas belevied what they heard.. they are so emotional to give a second thought even though proofs are in favour of Asad! on the other hand swa is close to asad & haider so she knows that both can never do something like that! & sinhas doesnt know gillani's close!
sinha's defo need to apologize for certain things..but we cannot totally blame on sinha's or swa in this case!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes definitely u r ryt... They are behaving very rude with her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hehehe khadz20 u r shooo cutely even discussing that swadus feeling?!!

Obbbvioussly yaar...that itself is the main crux or
Main pt here...

Aisaaa hee hai buddy when it comes to girl when married.
Its live fact.


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& the worssst is atleeast dat side they hv so many siding ppl
Hete no support except poor desperate mami.


THE DUCKLING SHITDPRING WORST OF ALL IS JAYA ( THE OTHERT DAY
IN KITCHEN SHE SAID TO SWADIN..." HUM SAB YAHAAN KITNE KHUSH THHHEY...)
🤣
I said to myselff..."jaya...tum ko tou tumhara pati ghaaass bhee nahin daltaa thaa..😆..)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is a natural behavior to be expected from them. Remember how everybody hates and reacts to Raj Singh over Pratyusha's death?. The accusations are based on his past behaviors not because of any evidence that Rag was there.
Well, in this case, all evidence is pointing to the Jailani's like befriending and housing the terrorist, personally bring in the bomb to the venue, Asad missing at wedding, Jailani's going away from the venue at the few minutes before the bomb was going to go off, Asad body close to their brother's,and worst of all stupid police/ solder lies.

Everyone in the Singha's position would hate Swa for supporting the Jilani's because at the beginning, her stand is only for the mere fact that she trust them. there was no evidence.
The only thing the is annoying me is the Suha has gone so blind in the seek for revenge that she is not seeing the big picture. That stupid Yash is lying in front of her that even a deaf person could see it, but this big shot state lawyer is also blind to it. The long pose, non contact eyes, the stammering..God!
secondly, let's say Asad did kill her son...doesn't she want to make sure all involved are also punished? Why is she not personally trying to check more on this Arvin guy? come on she wants to pretend that all what Swa said made no sense on how Arvin's involvement.

I seriously think that at the end of the day Suha will find Yash lied by herself.
PS. Glad to see Radhika helping Swa. She is link the head scarf which she has left with Asad to where Yash has seen Asad in that room, She will figure out his jealousy and Asad actually showed them the room.
wooo Yash is in trouble...Useless idiot!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes , I agree that they will believe the evidence. Anyone would. That's not my point though. I was just pointing out how alone is Swadheenta , and just how sad this is for her. They dont have to support her , definitely not , but the least they can do is take consideration of her feelings , as a human being. Ofcourse , they lost their son , it is a very difficult time for them and then their daughter-in-law goes and supports the people they hate the most , again because of what they are led to believe.
Definitely agree with you on the Suhasini part , in fact I just did an episode analysis and mentioned the exact same thing !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeverBeDismayed

Hehehe khadz20 u r shooo cutely even discussing that swadus feeling?!!

Obbbvioussly yaar...that itself is the main crux or
Main pt here...

Aisaaa hee hai buddy when it comes to girl when married.
Its live fact.


---
& the worssst is atleeast dat side they hv so many siding ppl
Hete no support except poor desperate mami.


THE DUCKLING SHITDPRING WORST OF ALL IS JAYA ( THE OTHERT DAY
IN KITCHEN SHE SAID TO SWADIN..." HUM SAB YAHAAN KITNE KHUSH THHHEY...)
🤣
I said to myselff..."jaya...tum ko tou tumhara pati ghaaass bhee nahin daltaa thaa..😆..)

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