Originally posted by: amits2001
Accusing Meera of all the things going wrong in the house, practically turning the whole family against her when Rashi was the person actually trying to kill Gopi.
That was a natural assumption based on Meera's behaviour and attitude towards Gopi. It wasn't a case of blaming somebody out of the blue. How were Kokila or the other Modis meant to know it was Rashi when there was no prior evidence of her having done any wrong?
Originally posted by: amits2001
Allowing Radha to enter the house and misleading her about being able to marry into the household. Which led to Radha to carrying out the actions that led to Meera falling into the lake.
That would have been Gopi's wish in the first place to have her sister in the house with her. Radha only became negative after Rashi Sr. took advantage of her naivety. Her crush on Ahem went wildly out of control after Rashi invented Swayam and then all hell broke loose. It was at that precise point that Radha's demeanour changed for the worse. Kokila was not responsible for Radha's evilness.
Originally posted by: amits2001
The constant belief that lying to people to protect them is right?? Surely Kokila allowed Ahem to leave with her grand daughters. She allowed this to happen and stood by whilst she never communicated across the fact that Gopi was in prison in any way to Meera and Vidya. Instead she decided to live at Urmilla's house and enable Urmilla's pretence that she was crazy.
Ahem took Meera and Vidya away from Rajkot himself. In flashbacks shown after the leap, Kokila tried in vain to stop them from going. Ahem was adamant, Kokila had no clue where they went and was clearly too shattered with grief to think straight. If anyone is to be blamed for not telling the girls that Gopi was in jail, it is Ahem and Mansi, i.e. the people looking after them. It was not Kokila's fault. As for living with Urmila - again, it was explained at the time that Kokila was living the life of a maid to punish herself, though she had done no wrong.
Are you serious?! Kokila has once again been shattered for the last 4/5 years since Ahem's death. It is strongly implied that she has not raised her voice in all that time until last week when she announced Gopi's marriage, which is why Paridhi has gained the upper hand and was able to bring in her ideal bahu Monica. If Koki had been in her senses, she would have outright refused and Monica would not even be standing in MM today. If anybody has alienated people, it is disgusting Paridhi, not Kokila. Jigar is a puppet who dances to Paridhi's tunes, while Monica simply licks the backend of her momji. Even Sahir told Jigar after the latest leap that it is nobody other than Paridhi who is responsible for the problems in MM. Kokila is not to be blamed for the behaviour of those disgusting monsters who have taken over the house.
Originally posted by: amits2001
Surely rather then marrying off her beloved daughter to man she does not know and has clearly has abused his position she should have enlisted some form of care (or even sent Gopi to a care home). Dr Krishna should be removed of his medical license for being a really creepy guy. His actions at the wedding back that up. At what point when Gopi did not want to get married was he okay with carrying it on? At the point Gopi recovered, Gopi should have been allowed to digest what was happening and make her own decision.👏
First of all of course she knows Krishna. As for enlisting some form of care, have you been watching at all? Jigar stated that they hired several doctors and nurses to care for Gopi over the past few years, but all had given up the task. Krishna was the only doctor who should some form of empathy for Gopi-Kokila. As for creepy, well that's a petty comment to make. Falling in love with somebody does not make them creepy. While disgusting Paridhi sat on her ungrateful butt soaking up the luxuries of MM, Krishna and Kokila tended to Gopi alone. I agree Gopi should have had some say in her marriage, but the wedding ceremony has at least woken her from her depression. The cold hard fact is that Kokila would not knowingly jeopardise Gopi's life.
Gopi was bullied and dominated by Urmila and Rashi from childhood. She became so intimidated and quiet that it took her the best part of 20 years to learn to raise her voice. Kokila is the one who armed Gopi with strength, education and braveness. Unless you've missed the hundreds of times it has been indicated in the SNS scripts, Kokila and Gopi have since formed the bond of a mother-daughter. It is simply not the case of an owner and a pet. Yes, dominating her bahu certainly WAS Kokila's intention when she brought Gopi to MM all those years ago. But over time she grew to accept Gopi, realised that she cared deeply for her, stood up to her own son for Gopi's rights. As for whether it's best for the whole family - CVs seem keen to show that Gopi is the glue that holds the Modis together. This is obvious when you consider how badly the family has collapsed whenever Gopi has been away or in her own bubble.
Originally posted by: amits2001
Oh and don't get me started on how she allowed her grand daughters to be married into a house where they were being bullied. They family in question tried to kill Kokila and Ahem how many times??? in what world do you allow your grand daughter to stay there and be encouraged to marry this people???
The bully was simply Gaura and Gaura alone. Dharam, Durga and Shravan were under the woman's thumb. I will agree with you that it was wrong of Kokila to agree for her granddaughters to be married into the Suryavanshis straight away. BUT she had no idea that the girls would be mistreated by Gaura, nor that Gaura was planning to take completely baseless revenge. All Kokila saw was that the close childhood friend that disappeared suddenly had come back into her life, and why shouldn't she trust her when the two of them were like sisters in their youth?
W*F? Are you trolling?! 😲
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