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abhilasha_dream

@abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 9 years ago

Many of the viewers are feeling that Bala is doing wrong by filing Pihu's custody but I have a different point of view on this regard.

Bala has always thought Ishita as his little sister and whenever the need has raised he had stood by her. He has always understood her and found best solutions for her and now also he is doing the same - he is only thinking about Ishita.

After getting to know about Ishita's reason of disappearance for 7 long years he understood how deeply the girl loved the man - Mr. Raman Kumar Bhalla that his mere words made her break ties with her breath if not for Mani. Ishita could have tried commuting suicide if she did not have the guilt of Mani's health.

Now she is rid of that guilt and once again in front of her love who is leaving no chance to break her. If it goes out of hand He fears of her repeating her action of committing suicide as she doesn't have any motive also to drive her to be alive. This very thought makes him to go and speak to Raman although he also doesn't want Ishita to get back to Raman but knowing the love which she has in her heart for the man, he decides to talk to the man and convince him to forgive her and take her back but Raman full of rage denies the offer outrightly.

Bala now focuses on what can be her second reason to live and he recalls her incapability of bearing a child and he remembers Pihu. He forgets about the trauma which he will engulf on the poor child who is unaware of the harsh reality till date and only focuses on getting Ishu a reason to live.

He doesn't consider Ishita for all this coz he knows she will deny it and secondly, they really do not have time to convince her and then file as situation is going out of hand very soon and once Raman marries Shagun which he is determined to , Ishita will not get the custody and so they need to act quickly which he did by starting the talks with the lawyer so that the basics are done by the time they convince her and then file for the case immediately without wasting any time as they are running against time.

So according to me Bala is going according to his character only and CV's haven't butchered it yet.

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-K.13-

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Posted: 9 years ago

I can see your POV but about his perception of Ishita's reason to live...is Adi not enough?

Adi does not acknowledge Shagun and unwaveringly stands by Ishita. He likely on his own will want to move in with Ishita.

I feel bad bc in all of this do the characters not see what Adi has become for Ishita? He is a testament to her motherhood & even Raman acknowledged that.

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07sid01

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Posted: 9 years ago

So he's giving a life line to ishita by taking away ramans lifeline. Isn't it enough that adi has gone against his dad and supporting ishita that bala feels he has to take pihu away from him as well to give for ishitas happiness, so basically the only way she can have happiness is taking all ramans kids away from him? So Raman is not allowed to love and look after his own children or have a right on them, only ishita has a right on all of them? That doesnt make sense. I respect it but your point of view doesnt make sense to me.

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -K.13-
I can see your POV but about his perception of Ishita's reason to live...is Adi not enough?

Adi does not acknowledge Shagun and unwaveringly stands by Ishita. He likely on his own will want to move in with Ishita.

I feel bad bc in all of this do the characters not see what Adi has become for Ishita? He is a testament to her motherhood & even Raman acknowledged that.

In all this story, the CV's have forgotten the very foundation of YHM which is you don't have to bear a child to become a mother. It has now all become about real blood and biological child and unfortunately though Adi supports his Ishima , others do not consider him fit enough to be stated as Ishita's child.

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charminggenie

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Posted: 9 years ago

When a character makes a choice for another one without consulting or consent especially in legal or bodily matters , it goes OOC for me.

His intent might be right. He probably feels the need to give Ishita some sort of "[personal focus" ..re-unite the mother with a daughter especially after Ruhi's trauma. But he should have talked to Ishita , he knows the situation between two families..Raman's emotions.

When you start ignoring or not considering the will of an adult , you do a disservice. How is he assuming so much for Ishita when they have not given them one dialogue.

What about Adi?

In this saga of Ruhi-Pihu, where does that child who considers Ishita as his Ma , stands?

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sara

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Posted: 9 years ago

Agree to a certain extent to what u said.

I understand his concern or care for ishita in fact I even liked they way he was show trying to talk to raman about ishita too.

But taking decision for her is what I do not appreciate come on she isn't a kid that anyone needs to take decisions for her

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07sid01

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie
When a character makes a choice for another one without consulting or consent especially in legal or bodily matters , it goes OOC for me.
His intent might be right. He probably feels the need to give Ishita some sort of "[personal focus" ..re-unite the mother with a daughter especially after Ruhi's trauma. But he should have talked to Ishita , he knows the situation between two families..Raman's emotions.

When you start ignoring or not considering the will of an adult , you do a disservice. How is he assuming so much for Ishita when they have not given them one dialogue.

What about Adi?

In this saga of Ruhi-Pihu, where does that child who considers Ishita as his Ma , stands?

Exactly! Thank You! Exactly what i wanted to say!👏

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: 07sid01
So he's giving a life line to ishita by taking away ramans lifeline. Isn't it enough that adi has gone against his dad and supporting ishita that bala feels he has to take pihu away from him as well to give for ishitas happiness, so basically the only way she can have happiness is taking all ramans kids away from him? So Raman is not allowed to love and look after his own children or have a right on them, only ishita has a right on all of them? That doesnt make sense. I respect it but your point of view doesnt make sense to me.

this topic is only about Bala's POV and not a take on after leap story.

Coming down to Bala not considering Raman's emotions regarding Pihu. It is always seen in this serial that only Ishita's pain and emotions are considered others all just do not matter and current track is a blaring example of it.

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-K.13-

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

In all this story, the CV's have forgotten the very foundation of YHM which is you don't have to bear a child to become a mother. It has now all become about real blood and biological child and unfortunately though Adi supports his Ishima , others do not consider him fit enough to be stated as Ishita's child.

Yep honestly the entire idea of Ishita having her own child naturally or via surrogacy shakes the foundation of the show that relationships can be made of the heart independently.

And Pihu will shake and defeat the nurture can beat nurture angle.

Adi and Ruhi have Shagun's nature and Ishita's nurture
Pihu has Ishita's nature and Shagun's nurture

Once all the kids officially become Ishita's again - it almost shifts from nature versus nurture to good mother versus bad mother. So what they show is that nurture and nature don't matter in the case of s selfish, bad mother. Thus it was never focused on this fact but more the difference between Ishita and Shagun as a mother, wife, DIL, etc.

The only way out of this nature versus nurture angle is that all the kids have Raman's nature to love and need Ishita above all else 😆

Still relations are made of the heart regardless of blood...it's just between the individuals and society will never care - like Adi-Ishita, Mihir-Raman, etc

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: -K.13-

Yep honestly the entire idea of Ishita having her own child naturally or via surrogacy shakes the foundation of the show that relationships can be made of the heart independently.

And Pihu will shake and defeat the nurture can beat nurture angle.

Adi and Ruhi have Shagun's nature and Ishita's nurture
Pihu has Ishita's nature and Shagun's nurture

Once all the kids officially become Ishita's again - it almost shifts from nature versus nurture to good mother versus bad mother. So what they show is that nurture and nature don't matter in the case of s selfish, bad mother. Thus it was never focused on this fact but more the difference between Ishita and Shagun as a mother, wife, DIL, etc.

The only way out of this nature versus nurture angle is that all the kids have Raman's nature to love and need Ishita above all else 😆

Still relations are made of the heart regardless of blood...it's just between the individuals and society will never care - like Adi-Ishita, Mihir-Raman, etc

Yeah !! The CV'S have already broken the Yashoda Maiyya concept by showing Pihu having a special connect with Ishita although she considers Shagun as her mother which is strange as Ruhi never felt this type of connect with Shagun but she also felt it for Ishita only strangely.

Then comes Adi who loved his mother beyond himself but since he also needed to come to Ishita , Shagun turned from grey to extreme selfish. She was shown taking foolish steps which led to Adi breaking ties with her

Now although Ishita never ever bothered about him from 7 long years , he is still Ishita's baby and disregards his real mother although she brought him up selflessly this time. He doesn't even consider his father here who had definitely been loyal to him always.

Adi was raised by Ishita for a year and Ruhi for 2, so Ishita is their mother but even though Saghun raised Pihu for 7 long years selflessly, she is still not regarded as mother of Pihu. Not by Neelu also. Really Strange !!

By all this , I only remember one thing. Shagun had initially started to Ishita that she is nothing but nanny of Ruhi but in real CV'S have actually reduced Shagun into a nanny - of her own children as well as Ishita's.

Edited by abhilasha_dream - 9 years ago

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