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IshRa came together for their little angel Ruhi despite their personal differences and ego clashes. Obviously, the duo didn't hate each other as that is too strong an emotion to feel for somebody you don't even know properly! In a short span of time, the exteriors got peeled off and these two people began to discover beneath the surface and got acquainted with the genuine personalities' of each other. They grew to be more than just parents, more than just parents to little Ruhi for whom they came together in the first place ...
Or was I wrong to believe that? Raman admired Ishita for being a good mother figure to Ruhi and he appreciated that on more than one occasion ... however that's where the problem lies for me: Ishita was always judged on her capability of being either a good or bad mother ... was it really ever about being wife, daughter in law, sister in law ... no
That's actually hurtful cos if you clearly remember... Raman almost always said "mere bache" except that one occasion when Adi gladly accepted his Ishimaa š³
Even now he rants about mere bache; so where does that leave ishita?
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All said and done ... people will disagree with me cos I'm not blind and I have seen Raman's depth of love for his Ishita... the problem is that he needs to rise above treating Ishita as JUST mother to Adi - Ruhi - Pihu ... she's his wife ... his support system
Or was I wrong to believe that? Raman admired Ishita for being a good mother figure to Ruhi and he appreciated that on more than one occasion ... however that's where the problem lies for me: Ishita was always judged on her capability of being either a good or bad mother ... was it really ever about being wife, daughter in law, sister in law ... no
That's actually hurtful cos if you clearly remember... Raman almost always said "mere bache" except that one occasion when Adi gladly accepted his Ishimaa š³
Even now he rants about mere bache; so where does that leave ishita?
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All said and done ... people will disagree with me cos I'm not blind and I have seen Raman's depth of love for his Ishita... the problem is that he needs to rise above treating Ishita as JUST mother to Adi - Ruhi - Pihu ... she's his wife ... his support system