Why Sid welfare is not Roshni's reason

Originally posted by: imaginative

The argument by all Roshni supporters is that she is doing all this for Sid. I heard her dialogue 3 -4 times, no where did she mention she is doing it for Sid. She is doing it for the whole worlds welfare. U can imagine Sid too is in it because he is part of d world. Sigh. Jokes apart. She is doing it for everyone to be happy. Who includes that everyone is a mystery, may be to save Kesar, Resham and her other family members too.. because she very well will be knowing Sid won't ever be happy knowing she is dead.

My question is if she feels SidNi love can harm Sid, why didn't she leave Sid earlier? Like for eg after Sid came back from his death? It was because of their love that Shabnam tried to kill Sid, not once but twice. Why didn't Roshni say to Sid atleast once, that we shall separate so that u remain safe. Or why didn't she run away to protect Sid?

The simple answer is she cared only about DD far far more than Sid. Sid lives or dies doesn't matter, DD's death gave her the shock and realization that their love is destructive. Like her dialogue yesterday DD is her Vajood. All other times when Sid was harmed or has the potential to be harmed during RV, Yash, Shabnam, Misha, Roshni didn't want to leave Sid because she wanted him to solve her problems.

Why was she not shocked by Sid's death in this manner and only DD's death created a psychological shock for her which she can't get over even after 2 years? She brought Raghu to save DD, despite her shock of Sid death.

It is not Sid's welfare but her undying love for her mother that doesn't allow her to get back with Sid or to even enquire how he is doing in these 2 years. Does she have any idea whether Sid is dead or he is alive now? That is her love for Sid. U can always contrast it with her love for DD.

Originally posted by: babithaj

The last two paras is JUST PLAIN TRUTH... or kuch nahi... those who want to not accept this... I don't know what they are seeing...

Originally posted by: rp5127

I also feel like even though she loved Sid from the bottom of her heart, her first priority was DD, her mom, especially since she had not received attention from her mom for so many years.

Originally posted by: can_pak

The difference between Sid's supposed death and DD's death is that deep down she didn't believe he was dead. She was in pain but some where she had hope that he's alive and he'll come back. In DD's case she saw her fall to death.

I don't know how else to explain this so I'm going to give a very personal example.

Normally people love their parents equally. But I love my dad more than I love my mom because he's practically raised me all on his own. Yet my mom's death affected me in a way that no amount of love from my dad can ever take away the pain or erase its effect her loss had on me. There isn't a day that goes by when I don't miss her or remember her. (It's been 12 years by the way) I changed after her. Everything about me changed. It literally took me years to realize what her death meant. Every passing year I felt it more. From wanting to be a journalist and a writer I turned towards law. But while I became stronger and tough on the outside I started breaking down internally. I didn't want to hurt him with my problems but he was also my pillar of strength. He was the first person I turned to when I'm was in a problem. He still is.

But There was a time when I thought maybe he'd be better of without me. That he'd be able to move on, get married, live an uncomplicated life maybe have more kids to love. (To be clear i mean I moved away and went to boarding school in another country) I didn't realize at the time that nothing can replace me in his life. That I'm his sole reason of being and that he wouldn't survive losing me. I am his support, his friend, his everything. I can hands down say he loves me more than I can ever love him. I can't even comprehend his love for me but does that mean I don't deserve his love. Do my mistakes make me unworthy of it? Even if it did would it stop him from loving me?

Sid and Roshini's are kind of in the same boat. Some incidents in your life affect you more than others. It isn't because your feelings for people in your life are different though. Our hearts and brains work in mysterious ways.

(If not for reel life, I hope this helps people understand others in real life. Sometimes we really just misjudge people because we don't know their story. There's always a reason. Always a story behind everything. When it comes to love and relationships sometimes its best to just step away and let things work themselves out. Time and distance sometimes can put things into perspective that we wouldn't have been able to see otherwise.) 👍🏼