New OLVs-26/4/2016 - Page 7

Originally posted by: Manan_Pani_fan

That is what CVs are trying to sell but to be honest, they are failing miserably...at least in the eyes of neutral viewers. Suppose, you suddenly come to know your mom whom you assumed dead for years is not actually dead, it was actually a lie to stay away from you and your siblings. How will yo feel? Not elated...for sure. That's where Adi's emotional presentation fails here as they want to portray the unreal "soul connection". It's like you got betrayed but you're behaving nothing of that sort happened only to feel good about the whole process!

Sure, Ishita can have thousands of excuses of abandoning her children and Raman can be the worst villain possible...but no excuses or villains can justify the way Ishita abandoned her children. Its either "guilt" or the "hurt" that is the most likely reason of Ishita abandoning her children but the "guilt" or "hurt" didn't stop her from becoming mother to others! Unreal to the core! Ishita should have a fight with Raman if she felt she was "hurt" by the ill treatment of Raman. If it is out of "guilt"...because of that lame "guilt", she's abandoned her children...shouldn't it be even the bigger "guilt" than the previous one? Here we see she happily playing mother to others! I remember once Ishita saying to Shagun that she would never leave Raman and the kids for any reason...never. That was real Ishita...not this.

Yes, I feel pity for a woman like Ishita for her decisions and choices. An infertile woman who wanted to provide a mother's love and care to a stranger (Ruhi) by marrying her assumed monster father but the same woman was no where near when her own baby needed her the most!

You asked me how would one feel if ones mother presumed dead is alive ! I will tell as my mother passed away 9 years ago and I wish she is back , I would be unbelievably be happy , I can not even tell you in worlds ... The shikwa shikayat comes later ... the initial happiness would take over the pain of 9 years in my case ... But I know it's not going to happen as my life is very real !
My reasoning would be very different then your reasonings , same with Ishita is her mind what she did was right and justified , I can disagree with that but at the same time I can not dictate her my reasoning should apply to her . I would not do what Ishita did , never in a million years I would let my alive parent go through the pain of losing a daughter when in reality she is very much alive . I can see your points , agree to some but thankfully as its a fictional character we can have some unrealistic Goodness attach to the character . I loved Ishita's character , adored her but not after the leap as for me her abandoning the parents is unjustified , yes leaving Raman is absolutely understandable but not her parents.