Joe...I know I don't like this separation track either. As for Kunj not imagining her everywhere..and simply staring at their bed...ecause he is just not there...he is still in the anger mode...he can't seem to get out of that.
In today's episode, there were 2 examples of his anger being apparent...when Usha says its not possible that Manohar left the business to her when he has 2 able and capable sons...did you see his expression...there was still anger there...and Manohar's decision seems to fuel it more. He was upset...and rightly a bit disappointed that his dad didn't ask him or his brother to run the business in his stead... The normal (not angry) Kunj would have excited for her...and so proud that his dad selected her...but his anger clouds it all yet again.
Then, later at night, its so obvious that he is missing her...but he won't admit it as yet because his anger is eating him up. You can clearly see his frustration with his tears...he won't even admit it to himself yet that he needs her, that he misses her...and tears end up angering him more.
Men handle anger and disappointment very differently from women...they don't have the ability to step putrid of it...they fester in it...and Kunj is definitely festering in his anger. Strong women...like Twinkle...and like many of us here in the forum...we can separate the anger, the disappointment and try to look beyond it...they simply cannot!
Be patient...he will get there...and i know its painful and disappointing to watch...but it does teach us how complex dynamics can be in a relationship...and how 2 people who love each other still have to struggle so much to get to a better place...its what makes us stronger as individuals and as couple too.
Like they say..."If it doesn't kill you...it will make you stronger!"
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