Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Anandi lied during her first marriage and her teacher was in trouble and shamefaced. To save her parents. She chose her parents over her teacher.
She did not open her mouth after returning from Mumbai about Jagya introducing her as his friend, not wife. Thus the Bh folks were kept in the dark until the matter blew up. In this case she did not save anybody by keeping quiet which amounts to lying.
During Sanchi episode, it was so confusing. Anandi was not consistent. She covered up many things about Sanchi and did not lift phone to warn dadisa about Sanchi. She wanted to palm off Sanchi to unsuspecting BHwalas.
During DB times, Anandi was more concerned about her image in Daddu's eyes than anything else. And allowed DB free play. Only this was understandable to some extent. But not at all acceptable.
And now.
During Sanchi time she was shown to be asking herself many a times as to what is truth.She was shown wondering whether what Sanchi is saying true or what she is seeing of Sanchi is true.Everyone in Shekhar family was saying Sanchi has changed and sh was seeing something else and Sanchi was putting up an act in front of too.When people who have known from the time she was born are convinced taht she has changed should she be careful about pointing a finger at the pampered princess of the family?Even after over hearing the conversation in the restaurant she got quite confused after seeing Sanchi's behaviour
Jagya's behaviour and how he saw things were the problem and not what Anandi concealed or revelaed. The problem was because Jagya was ashamed of his background.This came out in front of his parents right in Jagya's first year itself.Anandi revelaed it all when she cleared her tenth board exams.His parents knowing about it all didn't make any difference to Jagya any ways.
As for Gauri - Anandi didn't suspect anything at that time.All she knew was that Gauri was his good friend he was ashamed of his family background and his child marriage and his illiterate child bride Who is to be blamed for Jagya's line of thinking? Why ignore that? How can it be forgotten what all lies he told about his family background? Who is bigger offender here? Jagya or Anandi?
If the son of the family is ashamed of his background then there is something seriously wrong with his upbringing as well as the son himself.
Even DB issue - when Anandi Shiv got to know that DB is the reason behind the drug drama at the same time she was a witness to Daddu's overflowing love to his sister.
She was not bothered about herself because she and Shiv fixed up this lady and she won't try and anything with them and she never harmed anyone else in the family.