Swara's love is still immature

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know many people wont agree with me. But I strongly feel Swara's behaviour towards Sanskar is not right. I mean it can be her insecurity but still I am not convinced with her.In Thursday's epi they had an argument and she left in the middle. Ok it's fine it happens. But yesterday when he called her she is not ready to pick up his call. Ya she is scared for her mother. But is it the way to talk to the guy who u claim to be your soulmate. The expression on her face is like some sadak chap eve teaser is calling her🤢😡. She could have said maa is not well and I will talk to u later. That would have been more than sufficient. Yes she asked for his forgiveness. But only after he came to Baadi for her. I would have felt happy if she herself called him and apologised for her behaviour. I feel somewhere that the love and commitment with which she fights for her mother or so called evil sister, she doesnt put half of it when it comes to Sanskar😡.😭 It is good Swara realised that Sanskar is her soulmate. I will be happy when she realises that she needs to behave like a soulmate. I dont want her to say some crap which will hurt him to the core😭. I pray for it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think neither of them are wrong here the circumstances are like that ! When sanskar called her up she was very tensed on top of that he started with his kavita jaap so she snapped ,I think it was a normal reaction ! When sanskar came to baadi she did apologize for it and right from the start whenever swara has been upset sanskar has been her punching bag !I think when we are upset or tense we sometimes tend to snap at people who are closest to us it happens !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Swara wasn't wrong yesterday, the circumstances were. Her mother just had a panic attack & her heart was literally in her throat seeing her mother in that condition. She's already expressed her disappointments with regards to Kavita, yes it is extremely stupid & doesn't make sense but since Swara is insecure regarding her & sees it that way, it really cannot be helped. Sanskaar calls her when her mood is at the worst & as soon as she hears 'Kavita' from him, she completely loses it & thus rudely snaps back at him. Sanskaar is wonderful to have understood that she wouldn't do it purposely & instantly comes to check up on her to reassure himself without holding any grudge 😳 Even Swara understands that she did wrong & instantly apologised. Maybe she wanted to call him & apologise but couldn't leave Shomi alone there in that condition? Let's give her some benefit of doubt. Even I was annoyed when she was so unnecessarily rude to him but understood her POV later while her heartfelt apology melted my anger.

And it's not that you cannot snap back at your soulmate or MU them. If anything, Swara realising that Sanskaar is her soulmate has actually made her possessive & insecure about him, she's scared of losing him after seeing what a temporary separation with him did to her. She's worried that he still thinks about Kavita, although the base for this is pretty stupid & pointless considering Sanskaar thinks about Kavita in a completely different way that should actually make her happy 😆 I love it that Swara feels it's her right to be unreasonable towards Sanskaar & show her emotions in front of him. Of course I am majorly annoyed at her obsessed jaap & interpreting things in the wrong way but that's poor writing & thus I hope this stupid MU is resolved quickly.
Edited by .Sarcasmazing. - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@kavya i am expecting a kdr on yesterday epi from u
and after seeing the epi i am assured that no need to worry cz no matter how much stupidly swara behaves or nt ofcourse she will... but sanskar will handle things in a best possible way with maturity.he really dnt bother anything when it comes to swara...his love is so selfless and pure...thats what makes their bond more special.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I totally agree with u

I don't know why but I still find swara immature in love... Her love for lucky was her bachpana but her love for sanskar is immature too
The way she is asking proof for Kavita from sanskar is so irritating ,sanskar never asked for proof when she told him about his brother adarsh's affair. He believed her. Why can't she do the same? Just trust him
Till Thursday I thought it was just jealousy but after Friday's episode I feel it's more than that -it's about trust

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Posted: 10 years ago
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When your loved ones are in danger,
When you feel insecure about something that is so precious in your life, something without which you can't live,
No one be expected to behave normally.
Your mind or tongue won't obey your heart in such a situation.
Here Swara' s situation is the same.
Her circumstances forcing her to express her insecurity.
Above all, she has solid reason to believe Massi is doing all these.
Only when they could find the culprit are more than one, they will realize the mistake.
Till then, neither Swara nor sanskar can be blamed for this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually swara behaviour yesterday shows her love for sanskaar is too damn real & deep..he is most precious to her!! Mature love does'nt means u dont have to feel all those other emotions comes with being in love..
Though most of fans r not liking but i'm liking it..i mean come on guys y'll just want to see sweet & cute SwaSan?? ek relationship mein aur bhi cheezein hoti hai joh usse intense banati hai.. Fights, insecurity, jealousy is all part of a parcel!! And i wanna see all shades of relationship in SwaSan not just one coz then it wont be fun!!
Edited by afreenaamna - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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kal ka incident is true indication that there are two person in this crap...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I also totally agree with you.
Swara was not ready to understand sanskar. For her, Kavita sacrificed her love for them. So she can't do like that. It is mausi who is doing all this.
Swara was afraid about her mother's health. But she didn't gave a proper reply to sanskar. It was not right.
Both of them knew that someone is trying to stop their marriage
So they have to understand each other. And they have to trust each other.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I will not say Swara as immature.
She is in love with Sanskaar which she has realized on her own.
Sanskaar has had the time to know that Swara is over Lakshya.

But as for Swara, her bond with Sanskaar is deep and their relation has just started, so it is natural that she is jealous when Sanskaar keeps saying Kavita. As for Swara, she is right in her thinking it may not be Kavita. This is because for Swara, Kaviita who had no one in her life, expect for Sanskaar had still shown the courage to walk out of Swara-Sanskaar's life. Therefore it is a little difficult for her to believe Sanskaar and his instincts. She will come around when she gets the proof herself.

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