Y is Kavita delusional.. Ans.. Sanskar

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I love sanskar from the bottom of my heart but what situation now he n swara r facing has some part which he played too
Now we all know sanskar loves swara n that was possible as Kavita was not in picture
I don't want to compare but if we see the past swara was adamant in putting across her decision that what may come she is never gonna be back in lakshya life... Even if lakshya n Ragini separate... She had Made her thoughts quite clear n she later even confirmed that what she felt for lakshya was immature n not love... For her only person she truly loved was is n will b sanskar
But now let's talk about sanskar... He later choose swara... N the reason was he loves her now...
So if we go by the statements he made... N the scenarios created one can say sanskar fall in love with swara when Kavita was missing... Yes he loves her a lot... But remove swara from the picture then history can be repeated again... It's not like sanskar has ever said he can never love anyone else other than swara(he did but he didn't say this after Kavita was found alive) ... Sanskar didn't felt the need to clarify but it gave hope to Kavita... Sanskar can love me again if I completely remove swara from the scene... He will cry... Be sad just like in my case... But will move on one day n I will b there to b in his life... This realization came running to her once Ragini made her realize that it's her first love n she shouldn't let it go

So I think sanskar needs to make his thoughts clear to other to avoid unnecessary hassle... I had once spoke to Vaibhi regarding this when Kavita was not alive... That if situation arrives whose love will be more for sanskar... N we waited for sanskar to say he only loves swara... What he felt for swara he has never felt before but alas that words never left his mouth

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sushups thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yaar kuch toh bolo... Agree Ya disagree karo par kuch toh bolo
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Posted: 10 years ago
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dear this what i felt and keep on saying but then ppl will tell me i am supporting swara more but the fact is i love Sanskar more than Swara . so i never made the point.
Kavitha is thinking that if swara dies Sanskar will choose her again this thing must be sorted by Sanskar and Sanskar only.Like Sanskar choose Swara when kavita was absent he will take time and cry willbe pain but he will choose then Kavitha .
He must say i love Swara and not bcoz of marriage or other things but bcoz I love her and the intensity is more than what I used to feel for u.
Swara alwys made it clear she is never going to go back to Lakshya.

I know there was the peheal pyaar jaap but I think swara meant that a concern & care would always be there..which Sanskar must clear it . I don't think she't talking about the love here. That's why she kept repeating about him not able to forget Kavita. If she'd even thought he still loved Kavita, Swara would begin mission Cav----Kar straight away, call off the shaadi or at least ask Sanskaar in a straight forward manner ifhe really wants to marry her... come on, we all know Swara.


Edited by aamias - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sush,

Are you trying to say Sanskaar is the reason for Kavita's delusional because I dont understand the post!

I dont think Sanskaar has NOT MADE it clear to Swara that he loves her more than he has loved Kavita. The Kavita - Sanskaar - Swara confrontation was very clear that Sanskaar does not have any feelings for Kavita - ANY AT ALL and if anything he only will remain happy with Swara. As you say, words have left his mouth and his feelings have been very clear to Swara.

Frankly, there is no reason for delusions and our Ragini is prime example of it. Kavita knows that Sanskaar is NOT in love with her and is IN love with Swara - but she does not understand the extent of it - or may I say, she does because she is causing him emotional and mental trauma by threatening him by attempts to murder on Swara's life. I mean look at Kavita - Sanskaar blamed her for trying to ruin his life and the woman thinks that Sanskaar is taking his name lovingly in front of Swara. 🥱 Kavita will be another Ragini - Sanskaar can explain to her the same thing 100 times - she will still believe that Sanskaar will move on with her. That is how delusion works.

If that is not enough - Look at Laksh - How many times did Swara tell him she does NOT want him back - but did he listen? No na! So even though it is clear to Kavita that Sanskaar is not getting back to her - she will not believe it - no matter what anyone does.

And yes, Swara is insecure and jealous and that is okay! But her way of putting it across to Sanskaar seems like she is doubting his love for her since she is ignoring the Context in which Sanskaar is talking of Kavita. Well, but that is Swara, till she sees it for herself or it is too obvious, she wont believe it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have just one question..People had problem with Swara being "mahaan"...now people having problem Swara again when she is behaving like a normal little possessive girlfriend ...I mean insaan kare toh kya kare?
I do have the problem with "obsessive " word as I did not see sanskar showing any kind of Obsession for anybody now...But I totally support Swara if she says that she is not Okay with sanskar taking "kavita's" name again and again, here I am not blaming sanskar , he has his own reason of behaving that way as he has seen Kavita actually..but then think about swara too, in recent Past she has gone through a horrible experience , she has seen her husband is getting married with his ex and calling her to tell that it was his "Right" decision !!! Sanskar did not clarify his actions enough to remove Swara's insecurity related to Kavitha , so if Swara is not Okay with Sanskar taking "kavita's" name then she is absolutely right here , behaving like a normal lover not a mahaan one...
not posted by me but another pov
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree wid u? feeling the same

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