Rochelles jouney in BB 9 - Personally an inspiration...edited

Kind request: Given this post is something inspirational given my personal circumstances of intense emotional distress which I can relate to with Rochelle's journey, may I kindly request friends who have no positive inputs to stay away from commenting please or atleast warm me about the negative opinion coming through by typing in color, so that I can avoid reading it... Many thanks in advance for your kindness.

I am a simple human being, positive, kind and generous, very easily forgiving others and moving on in life, but there are things which I wouldn't want to discuss here but overall affected me and attracted me more towards Rochelle than others...

In my opinion, Rochelle had the most difficult journey so far, a true roller coaster ride high on emotions...

- she had to fight insecurity about Keith when the game started off with contestants separated by BB with novel idea of double trouble

- then she had been repeatedly emotionally distressed by the behaviour and attitude of Mandy - cant even count how many times

- she was called names as Mandana's Manager etc - she took it with a smile

- Keith left unexpectedly for 3 weeks - that's highly emotionally draining

then he returns with the bad news

- she obviously has her own questions about the strengths of her relationship with Keith though she maybe aware that he had done it in her best interests, she has a right as a partner to do that

- she was mocked as 'resigned the post of manager' when she finally decided Mandana does not deserve her support, she was brave to state it openly

- Then she was singled out by Salman on Suyash issue instead of addressing it with the whole house, I am surprised salman as a mentor did this,to her, it was him who gave her advise not to explain to Mandana,he told her the Biccho story and warned her about the unhealthy/bad/venomous nature of Mandana

this list is not exhaustive but I am sure no one else has been subjected to these intense emotional roller coaster ride

After all these batterings with no recourse to normal healing process it probably can be expected she can falter, so I was happy to give her the benefit of doubt in view of the unfairness she has been subjected to... , she is a brave soul and I hoped and trusted she bounces back to her normal self once she gets a chance to heal her wounds...(BTW the list above though not exhaustive was upto December 2015)

I assume as a consequence of the above, In the last one month, she got subdued yet she carried on performing tasks actively and leading a journey though with some hesitation and great anticipation

Further she was unfairly not supported in captainship task and she was attacked by Priya in the sand task, she broke down badly ...yet again she gathered herself and carried on...

Personally for me she is a winner trying to be positive and on many accounts be it tasks or speaking in Hindi...

If she was allowed to speak in English, I am sure she would have put her arguments more confidently...

She was totally human throughout...I watched the show with an eye on her journey how she copes with it the roller coster ride.

I am happy with her display of human emotions... vulnerability and strength going hand in hand

Physical wounds can heal in a finite time whilst emotional scars take uncertain period...

Despite the rough time in BB house...I am touched when she said that she was going to tell friends how she was pampered by Keith and did tasks in between in the show... I am really touched and impressed with that attitude...For me she is a winner and In life I hope to take only the positive memories in my stride ...

Thanks for your patient read ... Good day.

Just wish to add, to be honest there is no comparison between my events to her events in any way except sharing emotionally distress and not trust me literally nothing else.. I know I am good and I can do whatever I want in life and will not let any one affect me emotionally -- I am in that journey of healing...and found a lil inspiration from Rochelle's journey

I am not her supporter but except being a very bossy girlfriend Rochelle hasn't displayed any major flaws in her personality and she can be proud of her journey. 👍🏼
She is called paltimaar group changer but I guess she was good with everyone in the house so when she felt let down by someone she started hanging out with others which is natural.

In my opinion, Keith is far more deserving to be a winner than his GF.

Will not say anything negative out of respect

Rochelle is v brave upfront and strong girl.love n respect her bottom of my heart.

Originally posted by: PriyaRv

Kind request: Given this post is something inspirational given my personal circumstances of intense emotional distress which I can relate to with Rochelle's journey, may I kindly request friends who have no positive inputs to stay away from commenting please or atleast warm me about the negative opinion coming through by typing in color, so that I can avoid reading it... Many thanks in advance for your kindness.

I am a simple human being, positive, kind and generous, very easily forgiving others and moving on in life, but there are things which I wouldn't want to discuss here but overall affected me and attracted me more towards Rochelle than others...

In my opinion, Rochelle had the most difficult journey so far, a true roller coaster ride high on emotions...

- she had to fight insecurity about Keith when the game started off with contestants separated by BB with novel idea of double trouble

- then she had been repeatedly emotionally distressed by the behaviour and attitude of Mandy - cant even count how many times

- she was called names as Mandana's Manager etc - she took it with a smile

- Keith left unexpectedly for 3 weeks - that's highly emotionally draining

then he returns with the bad news

- she obviously has her own questions about the strengths of her relationship with Keith though she maybe aware that he had done it in her best interests, she has a right as a partner to do that

- she was mocked as 'resigned the post of manager' when she finally decided Mandana does not deserve her support, she was brave to state it openly

- Then she was singled out by Salman on Suyash issue instead of addressing it with the whole house, I am surprised salman as a mentor did this,to her, it was him who gave her advise not to explain to Mandana,he told her the Biccho story and warned her about the unhealthy/bad/venomous nature of Mandana

this list is not exhaustive but I am sure no one else has been subjected to these intense emotional roller coaster ride

After all these batterings with no recourse to normal healing process it probably can be expected she can falter, so I was happy to give her the benefit of doubt in view of the unfairness she has been subjected to... , she is a brave soul and I hoped and trusted she bounces back to her normal self once she gets a chance to heal her wounds...(BTW the list above though not exhaustive was upto December 2015)

I assume as a consequence of the above, In the last one month, she got subdued yet she carried on performing tasks actively and leading a journey though with some hesitation and great anticipation

Further she was unfairly not supported in captainship task and she was attacked by Priya in the sand task, she broke down badly ...yet again she gathered herself and carried on...

Personally for me she is a winner trying to be positive and on many accounts be it tasks or speaking in Hindi...

If she was allowed to speak in English, I am sure she would have put her arguments more confidently...

She was totally human throughout...I watched the show with an eye on her journey how she copes with it the roller coster ride.

I am happy with her display of human emotions... vulnerability and strength going hand in hand

Physical wounds can heal in a finite time whilst emotional scars take uncertain period...

Despite the rough time in BB house...I am touched when she said that she was going to tell friends how she was pampered by Keith and did tasks in between in the show... I am really touched and impressed with that attitude...For me she is a winner and In life I hope to take only the positive memories in my stride ...

Thanks for your patient read ... Good day.

Just wish to add, to be honest there is no comparison between my events to her events in any way except sharing emotionally distress and not trust me literally nothing else.. I know I am good and I can do whatever I want in life and will not let any one affect me emotionally -- I am in that journey of healing...and found a lil inspiration from Rochelle's journey

The only quality Rochelle has shown is insecurity. She has been nasty out of insecurity to someone who wasn't even competition like Rimi. Heck, she's even shown to be insecure of Keith when she felt his Christmas idea overshadowed hers. She has often spoke to Rishabh, Priya, and others in unwarranted condescending ways outside of a task environment. She has never once accepted failure positively. She never comes up with a stretegy to win. She always wants to be handed victory as seen in captaincy task, sand task, and many others. She doesn't even accept her failures let alone learn from them. Her real personality showed quite well when she blamed teachers like Priya for her inability to speak Hindi. Sure maybe that makes her normal or relatable, but definitely not a winner.

Like it or not Bigg Boss is a game and Rochelle sucks at it. And that's why she comes across as a thali ka baingan and manager because she actually has no stand in the game, neither moral nor competitive. That's also the reason she jumps into other people's conversations (she has none of her own), and comes across as a desperate footage seeker. Neither is she smart enough to entertain or strategize nor has she shown any likeable personality traits (don't think bossing your bf around and whining is particularly likeable).

If Rochelle wins, she will be the lousiest winner Bigg Boss has seen. No entertainment, no strength, no strategy.