Would my wife care about my gynecomastia?

I am a 28 year old desi guy living in the US. I have agreed to my parents' request to get an arranged marriage.

I have a job, come from a good family, am a nice guy. But I have moderate gynecomastia. If I choose my shirt carefully it's not noticeable, but its obvious when I'm shirtless.

My question is should I get surgery to remove it?? I am not worried about my own image, my friends love me all the same. I'm just worried about what my future wife might think of me on our "suhaag raat".

An older married friend told me not to. He said the most important thing in a guy is self-confidence, not good looks. Instead I should focus on my career and my wife will appreciate me more for that. Is that true? He also said that your wife might actually view you negatively if she found out you had plastic surgery to remove it.

The thing is I've only had the opportunity to date white girls in university, and my experience was that they cared a lot about looks, and very little about things like career. I'm not sure if that's true with desi girls too.

Desi girls, if you have any comments, please share. Or guys who have had the same issue and got married, please tell me how it went. This issue is stressing me out, so please comment !!

(I apologize if I offended someone with this post)