Vish and Naitik are same.....

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Ashi_Naksh

@Ashi_Can

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Posted: 9 years ago

Yes, both are reacting in the same way. Extreme possessiveness and care. Though it comes from their love and affection for Akshara but it is extremely suffocating for the person involved.

Naitik is unreasonably comparing his "COMA" situation with Akshara's temporary inability to see. It is looking as if he is trying to return the favours. He should understand the basic difference between his and Akshara's situation that she is movable human who is able to feel the hurt caused due to people's changed behavior towards her and their constant support is making her realized her inability again and again.

Vish on the other hand is not able to trust anyone involved or around Akshara. He should stop panicking for every small thing. Naitik is Akshara's husband and has always been a great support of her in lot of adverse situations. Vish should trust at least Naitik if not anyone else. His constant lurking around Akshara's health is more of a trouble than help or support.

Both these important men's in Akshara's life should try to make her independent and able rather than bring her confidence down by their constant suffocating love and care. Anything extreme whether love or hate can never be beneficial for anyone involved.

I'm only loving Naira's attitude. She is a well balanced girl, mentally as well as emotionally same as Akshara.

Edited by Ashi_Naksh - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago

I agree naitik and akshara situations are entirely different. Naitik is right when he says that he wants to be with akshara but helping her at every moment is wrong. Akshara needs to be given more space. RJ was right when she said that humari Beti mein koi kami Nahi hai bas woh Dekh Nahi Sakti

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YR_Naksh

@YR_Naksh

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Posted: 9 years ago

i don't know about vish but I want to comment on naitik.. im not getting where naitik gng wrong..

if naitik saying he want to do with akshara n do something for her.. why don't akshara give him one chance... i agree coma n blindness are 2 different things.. he just want akshara hold his hand instead of stick.. where it is written if she hold stick accidents wont happen.. as naitik said if she can handle ghar,office,bacha,bimar pati for 4 yrs then give him chance its a matter of 1-2 months..

Betn cvs showing having blood clot in brain as if it is like fever n cold..i have seen in my cousin case she had blood clot in brain n she had severe head ache, she had partially memory loss n eye sight.. doctor strictly advised to take complete bed rest for at least 2 months n regular checkups... here akshara is living like normal person n wants to do everything which i'm surprised..

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Ashi_Naksh

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: YR_Naksh
i don't know about vish but I want to comment on naitik.. im not getting where naitik gng wrong..
if naitik saying he want to do with akshara n do something for her.. why don't akshara give him one chance... i agree coma n blindness are 2 different things.. he just want akshara hold his hand instead of stick.. where it is written if she hold stick accidents wont happen.. as naitik said if she can handle ghar,office,bacha,bimar pati for 4 yrs then give him chance its a matter of 1-2 months..

Betn cvs showing having blood clot in brain as if it is like fever n cold..i have seen in my cousin case she had blood clot in brain n she had severe head ache, she had partially memory loss n eye sight.. doctor strictly advised to take complete bed rest for at least 2 months n regular checkups... here akshara is living like normal person n wants to do everything which i'm surprised..

No where in my post I have written that Naitik is wrong. This situation is such that no one can be wrong in it but dealing it with a different level of understanding is debatable.

When Naitik was in coma, Akshara didn't stayed with him 24*7 for whole 4 years but she was always with him when he required her the most. Since accident Naitik is around Akshara. Extreme love and care can be annoying in such times. Naitik has kept his life on hold, which she is able to feel. The way I understand Akshara's character, she don't want anyone to stop living their life cause of her, she is feeling guilty about that. What Akshara is going through is more about the mental trauma of losing vision and been dependent rather than a physical one.

Nothing in this world can be 100% accident proof. So having stick around is not for avoiding accident but making her feel independent about it. In fact mishap has also happened when Naitik was around her. So even Naitik can't guarantee no accident.

If a chance needs to be given then it should be given to Akshara to see whether she can move around independently with little or no help. If she is not able to do so then Naitik is always around, she would ask for help from him as she did during Naira's school incident.

The difference between Naitik's coma track is that Akshara handled the situation whereas Naitik is handling the patient.

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YR_Naksh

@YR_Naksh

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashi_Naksh

No where in my post I have written that Naitik is wrong. This situation is such that no one can be wrong in it but dealing it with a different level of understanding is debatable.

When Naitik was in coma, Akshara didn't stayed with him 24*7 for whole 4 years but she was always with him when he required her the most. Since accident Naitik is around Akshara. Extreme love and care can be annoying in such times. Naitik has kept his life on hold, which she is able to feel. The way I understand Akshara's character, she don't want anyone to stop living their life cause of her, she is feeling guilty about that. What Akshara is going through is more about the mental trauma of losing vision and been dependent rather than a physical one.

Nothing in this world can be 100% accident proof. So having stick around is not for avoiding accident but making her feel independent about it. In fact mishap has also happened when Naitik was around her. So even Naitik can't guarantee no accident.

If a chance needs to be given then it should be given to Akshara to see whether she can move around independently with little or no help. If she is not able to do so then Naitik is always around, she would ask for help from him as she did during Naira's school incident.

The difference between Naitik's coma track is that Akshara handled the situation whereas Naitik is handling the patient.

in coma track.. as soon as the accident happened show took 4 years leap.. no one knows what akshara has gone through in intial days when naitik in coma,im sure she must also with naitik 24*7... 4 yrs is long time to adjust for anything in life.. in 4 yrs slowly akshara adjusted her time for ghar,office n for naitik..

coming to naitik keeping his life on hold, cvs dragging 1 day for 3-4 epis thts means hardly 1 week passed since akshara gone blind.

naitik said to akshara.. like her everything new to them as well, as days passing everyone understanding how n what to do?

all they need is time to adjust and understand the situation