Originally posted by: SheAish
WeStandWithParth does not mean WeStandAgainst Niti
Yes I STAND WITH
PARTH...
Because Parth is not fighting for him vs Niti. He is
figting as a victim of harassment and
stalking from a predator. Having read through Vikas' tweets and instagram from
a month ago it is clear that Parth has
filed the case around that time and though the case is against payments due to
him by Vikas, the complaint sheet leaked by tellychakkar shows that Parth has
gone through sexual harassment and continued stalking from Vikas and by going
to the police and putting it out there in public even though his official case
is for payments due, is to escape from Vikas victimization from there on.
Parth has chosen self-respect, dignity and to be a
survivor of sexual harassment over his career and he has earned my uttermost
respect for being brave enough to put everything he himself has worked for to
come so far in this industry on stake, for this.
Those who say we won't support Parth because Niti has said
she heard a private conversation of Parth which talked abusively about her a
recording of which was provided by Vikas, is forgetting that what the current
situation with Parth and Vikas has NOTHING to do with what Parth has privately
said about Niti to people he considered as his close' friends.
We all know that Parth and Niti have acted like they don't
like each other many times, so it should come as no surprise to any of us
even if Parth had expressed that dislike in the most abusive language possible
to his close' friends in private.
Infact if we are honest with ourselves we all do it to
even our own coworkers or sometimes even other friends at times. Niti is
lucky that she hasn't got some one out there to get her down and humiliate,
victimize and ruin her totally that had meticulously planned to scan and record
her every move like what has happened to Parth.
Niti herself has said that she would work with Parth again
provided the role is desirable to her just two days ago. And her note of last
night clearly indicates that Parth has never acted inappropriately with her in
person out of bounds even if by words directly to her or public ever.
We all talks nonsense and abuse in private sometimes, but
its our actions that define us . Because no one is a saint here. We are all
human. And Parth's actions so far does
not warrant the kind of isolation and mob lynching that he is being subjected
to by Vikas for his own agenda.
NOTHING Parth could have said about Niti privately is going
to make me stop being with this boy right now.
Niti might not clearly fathom how she is contributing to
further cornering and isolating of Parth by her note last night. But whether she did it unknowingly or
not I would stand by Niti if EVER SHE IS IN the same position as Parth is right
now. Because this is basic decency and humanity right now.
I am no fan of anybody in this industry but a fellow human
being first, and things a person has said in private once upon a time to close
friends should never be held againt that person when it comes to someone being
mercilessly cornered for standing up for his own basic rights and in a case of such
sensitivity as victimization.
Yes, I stand by Parth...WeStandByParth because
that's the right thing to do in my POV and that does not mean I Stand
Againt Niti. I wish all those Niti fans who are reluctant to back Parth in
this scandal Parth vs Vikas, thinks carefully and put humanity before
everything.
If Parth is no God then no is Niti and I have no qualms in accepting that both of them would have said horrible things about some one or the other in private to their close friends at one time or the other. That does not mean Parth should be left to be cornered without support of anyone when the one against his is obviously playing every dirty game out their.
I will support even any of you guys in this forum whom I have seen here if the one opposite is someone like Vikas, behaving like he is doing right now even if I don't know much about you guys. Because pretty much everyone can see that Vikas is behaving like the bigest D-Bag ever.