Prachi Is An Enabler

Far from being the best sister ever Prachi is an enabler. Instead of taking a firm stand against Ayesha and pointing out her bad behaviour, by constantly sacrificing and letting Ayesha do what she wants to do, she is encouraging her destructiveness. This isn't doing anybody any good, least of all Ayesha. Ayesha right now is no different from a petualant 5 year old brat. You don't give into their demands, you need to set firm boundaries. Prachi should realise that no matter what she does and how much she sacrifices, it's never going to be enough as Ayesha is the only person who can get rid of her own anger. After reading, today's update, I think the writing is on the wall as far as Michi is concerned. If, she does sacrifice Milind, she doesn't deserve him back. For tossing Neev and Milind around like footballs, niether sister deserve them.😡

Do agree with you to some extent dear...where Prachi is enabling Ayesha instead of repriminding her.....

But the thing is that they are both of the same age group........Prachi is just older but a few months not year...

Before that Prachi lead a carefree....existance..where all her decisions were made by her family...especially her father...and Ayesha was the one who told her to take and make her own decisions....in life...instead on relying on her family to make it for her...

Thus after her fathers death...Prachi was left with the burden..to fulfil a promise made to her dying father.....to rectify...the msitakes he made...were all left on her ....tiny shoulders...and she couped to the best of her ability...thinking ....that what she waas doing was right...

It is not completely her fault...that Ayesha....is the way she is....the blame for Ayesha's insane behaviour....does lie on Ayesha too.....

Originally posted by: kubare

It is not completely her fault...that Ayesha....is the way she is....the blame for Ayesha's insane behaviour....does lie on Ayesha too.....

No, Inder is to blame for Ayesha's insane behaviour. And while Prachi can't be blamed for Ayesha's behaviour, she is accountable for her own behaviour and it's her constant sacrificing that is encouraging this destructiveness. She needs to take a stand for what's hers. Fine, she can't control what Ayesha does, but she can control how she reacts to it.

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

No, Inder is to blame for Ayesha's insane behaviour. And while Prachi can't be blamed for Ayesha's behaviour, she is accountable for her own behaviour and it's her constant sacrificing that is encouraging this destructiveness. She needs to take a stand for what's hers. Fine, she can't control what Ayesha does, but she can control how she reacts to it.

You in ayesha appreciation club ? sorry didnot know about your post, so I posted another thread sorry

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

No, Inder is to blame for Ayesha's insane behaviour. And while Prachi can't be blamed for Ayesha's behaviour, she is accountable for her own behaviour and it's her constant sacrificing that is encouraging this destructiveness. She needs to take a stand for what's her. Fine, she can't control what Ayesha does, but she can control how she reacts to it.

If you go to see...Inder is to blame for the whole mess....that they are in.....leaving one daughter with the task to clear up...the mess he made of his life.....

As...for Prachi's sacraficing....its...the kind of girl she is....her character is one whose ....kind hearted...giving...selfless....and when it had to do with a promise...she made to her dying father...it...multiplied....😆

Not knowing that...her act....would not satisfy or cool Ayesha temper........but...make her more obssessed...and crazy....

The main person who was a catalyst in instigating Ayesha's madness...is Alaap.....and no one else...

Originally posted by: basanthi

You in ayesha appreciation club ? sorry didnot know about your post, so I posted another thread sorry

It's okay, I also just read your post now. I think we both kinda agree, Prachi is doing nobody any favours with her sacrificing act and Ayesha needs to be straightened out like any other tantrum throwing kid.

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

It's okay, I also just read your post now. I think we both kinda agree, Prachi is doing nobody any favours with her sacrificing act and Ayesha needs to be straightened out like any other tantrum throwing kid.

Agree with that line completely.....😃

But blaming Prachi for the whole Mess...that Ayesha finds herself in......is not right....

Originally posted by: kubare

Agree with that line completely.....😃

But blaming Prachi for the whole Mess...that Ayesha finds herself in......is not right....

Prachi is as responsible as ayesha for either situations thats hwat i mean 😆

Agree with both black current and basanti (sorry dont know your names). Ayesha is bad (but she is also mad). Now mad people cannot be accountable for their behaviour. They need psychiatric care- not let loose like this to wreak havoc in people's lives. But Prachi, now she is supposed to be normal, right? Granted her main mission in life is to sacrifice. But sacrifice has no meaning unless the person you are sacrificing for deserves it. Moreover, if it is only your life you are sacrificing, that is fine because you have a right over it. But you cannot decide for another person's life. Prachi would have it from me if she decides to sacrifice Milsi. It is not only her happiness at stake but also Milsi's whom she claims to love dearly. Will seriously be disappointed if the creatives choose this track. Surely be goodbye KYMT for me.