@fairy dust and @sarathy thank you for replying to my post. I agree @ fairydust (sorry don't know your name), that Swara has often priotized other people and other mattters over Sanskaar, But, one should also see try to understand Swara's perspective. Here was a girl who was happy and enjoying the simple pleasures of family life and was on the verge of getting married. All of a sudden her dreams, and hopes crashed, cruelly so by people who were the most important factor in her life. Lashya and Ragini. She lost all. Sanskaar had also lost his love but he had five years to reclaim his life. We are asking Swara immediately to forget her past and move on. [Its not easy having seen it at close quarters.] But, I must also praise Swara and Sanskaar particularly, that he enabled her to move on. But, does that mean that Swara should have also reciprocated exactly in the same gesture and degree to that of Sanskaar. Can love and friendship ever be measured and should it be so??
Why was I loving Sanskaar till date ... because his love was undemanding, unconditional, persevering but not obsessive. Yesterday and the day before, Swara had explained her thoughts beautifully, did he try to understand? Why not so? Because human heart has a limit to hurt and rejection... agree, something which Swara made it clear to Lakshya as well. [That I forgive you but I cannot forget the fact that your are my sister's husband.] Sanskaar is afraid to claim his love but this was the same woman who had forgiven you at the first instance? Also, if Sanskaar is trying to protect himself from more hurt then Swara grovelling and begging for love... is that acceptable?Here the human heart should not relent?? 🤢When did love require proofs? And what more proof does one require then what has been happening for the past four days.
You know, I was the most angry with Swara when she was sidelining Sanskaar and tackling every problem on earth, and really wanted Sanskaar to teach her a lesson. But, then I was so wrong, her helpful nature and the kind of person she is what made Sanskaar fall in love with her in the first place. Sanskaar loves her and we loved Sanskaar because he always loved her more than himself.
I want that Sanskaar back. He was human because he was not afraid to fall in love with a woman who did not love him back.👏 He was the first person to announce his love.But, the person who is trying to self-preserve himself is just forgetting himself.
Well! I I will still like to believe Sanskaar and shall watch the episode and then form an opinion.
Edited by indranigupta - 9 years ago