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Posted: 10 years ago
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I believe all the 4 of them did mistakes. Someone did bigger mistake than others Bt did. All of them are flawed.
Bt except for SANSKAAR, other 3 even don't realize & acknowledge their mistakes let alone repent!
It is only SANSKAAR who realized, accepted, acknowledged, repented his deeds. And this actually made him different from others. He is perfect with his imperfection. Which I can't say about others. They don't even try to accept that they did wrong, especially Swara.
And her beliefs toward same situation are different at a point. She applied different logic for same situations. She is one of the most confused soul I have seen!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Monica_Suhasini

Awesome post dearie...👏

Loved ur quotes...
Explanation z very very nice...
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Thank you
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ros-

Thank you for this amazingly insightful post!

You've thoroughly analysed Swara.

And if the person truly means something to you, forgiveness means allowing the person to embark on the journey of repentance and redemption. It means giving courage to the person to be ripped apart by the winds of regret and put back together in the fires of penance. It means standing by as they go through self-doubt and self-pity and not giving up on them. And it means standing at the end, the finish line - willing them to come through, come through to you, waiting , even if it kills you.

This paragraph describes exactly what Sanskaar is going to do for Swara. 😳
I always wanted Swara to come out of her delusions. I really hope we get to see that some day.

PS: If you have anything more on Swara, please do post, especially since I think Swara is the least analysed character except for Laksh on the forum. We have a lot of discussions in Helly's AT regarding Swara and her character. It'd be wonderful to read more of your thoughts. Just post generally or in any of the ATs!


You are right - and yes Swara has the potential to grow so much more and yet her 'easy way of forgiving' glosses over all the other possibilities.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nupur_5

I believe all the 4 of them did mistakes. Someone did bigger mistake than others Bt did. All of them are flawed.

Bt except for SANSKAAR, other 3 even don't realize & acknowledge their mistakes let alone repent!
It is only SANSKAAR who realized, accepted, acknowledged, repented his deeds. And this actually made him different from others. He is perfect with his imperfection. Which I can't say about others. They don't even try to accept that they did wrong, especially Swara.
And her beliefs toward same situation are different at a point. She applied different logic for same situations. She is one of the most confused soul I have seen!


Actually - that is the tragedy of this whole show - all four leads have different characaters - all of them equally, if differently flawed. Unfortunately the show focuses only on the repentance and redemption of Sanskar - it would have been great if all the leads were give equal opportunities to redeem themselves - it would be a challenge - but would make a great story. Instead we have Ragini who believes in copious tears and Swara thoroughly confused and unable to even feel properly (let alone being able to think). And the lesser said about Lakshya, the better it is!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Calling it like it is! Bravo👏👏
I think one another important point to be made is that, a victim is not a hero. It is easy to sympathise with or feel sad for a person with whom bad things are done, but we cannot exalt the person to become someone mahan simply because he has been mistreated. It was when Swara came into the house with Sanskaar and challenged Ragini that I felt that Swara should be congratulated for being heroic. But now she has fallen back and let anyone take advantage of her. Worst of all, she actually follows through with it.

There can be little sympathy for someone who refuses to think things through and always rely on their own strong beliefs, be it true or false.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: vita93

Calling it like it is! Bravo👏👏

I think one another important point to be made is that, a victim is not a hero. It is easy to sympathise with or feel sad for a person with whom bad things are done, but we cannot exalt the person to become someone mahan simply because he has been mistreated. It was when Swara came into the house with Sanskaar and challenged Ragini that I felt that Swara should be congratulated for being heroic. But now she has fallen back and let anyone take advantage of her. Worst of all, she actually follows through with it.

There can be little sympathy for someone who refuses to think things through and always rely on their own strong beliefs, be it true or false.


True - in most of the cases rather than show empathy to the victim - we simply idealize / idolize them - the victim needs sympathy and a helping hand to recover and fight back. Idolizing them actually renders them weak, ironically because we convince them that they are strong.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Bang on!👏
Thoroughly loved the way you analyzed Swara's delusions... yes, i believe Swara is as much delusional as ragini (who justifies all her evil acts) and Lakshya (who believes he has a right to own Swara). Swara's beliefs on forgiveness, her immediate acts of empathy for her sister, mom-dad, actually has caused more harm than Ragini's intentional acts of evil. She hasn't a right to dictate to Lakshya that he is her husband so he needs to continue living with Ragini. In that case, she should continue living with Sanskaar as husband and wife, which she has not done. She realizes the extent to which Ragini has fallen and she believes the journey towards redemption lies in letting her stay happily ever after with Lakshya, That is so not done. 🤢Invariably, she is actually forwarding lakshya's case that all is justified in the name of love and war... so he can patao his own bhabhi...
Goodness and idealism which is what Swara intends is incomplete until and unless it takes into account the evilness and the bitter truth that is seemingly a part of it...
Anyways, loved the way somebody did think of analyzing Swara👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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wow seriously loved your post
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: indranigupta

Bang on!👏

Thoroughly loved the way you analyzed Swara's delusions... yes, i believe Swara is as much delusional as ragini (who justifies all her evil acts) and Lakshya (who believes he has a right to own Swara). Swara's beliefs on forgiveness, her immediate acts of empathy for her sister, mom-dad, actually has caused more harm than Ragini's intentional acts of evil. She hasn't a right to dictate to Lakshya that he is her husband so he needs to continue living with Ragini. In that case, she should continue living with Sanskaar as husband and wife, which she has not done. She realizes the extent to which Ragini has fallen and she believes the journey towards redemption lies in letting her stay happily ever after with Lakshya, That is so not done. 🤢Invariably, she is actually forwarding lakshya's case that all is justified in the name of love and war... so he can patao his own bhabhi...
Goodness and idealism which is what Swara intends is incomplete until and unless it takes into account the evilness and the bitter truth that is seemingly a part of it...
Anyways, loved the way somebody did think of analyzing Swara👏


Swara delusional - maybe yes - though it does seem a little harsh to call her so. And yet, her good intentions do seem to have such harmful effects. As it is said - the road to hell is paved with good intentions. She views the world with rose tinted glasses and is surprised that the world is not rosy. But as I said - she is inordinately blessed to have Sanskar, he is her Rock of Gibraltar, whether she realises it or not, so there is still hope😊

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