SwaSan Complete Each Other

Originally posted by: ..CrazyInLove..

Heyy Everyone 😃

I have been a silent reader on this forum for quite some time now, and love reading all your wonderful posts, especially about SwaSan. After watching the latest episode of SR and coming online to find the forum in a frenzy, with loads of people accusing Swara, calling her undeserving of Sanskaar's love, shipping Ragini with Sanskaar, and comparing Swara with Laksh.

Don't get me wrong, her doubting Sanskaar after all he has done for her was wrong. I was thoroughly disappointed and angry as well. But definitely not angry enough to ditch my ship, nor to compare her to Laksh.

I accept Swara is still somewhat immature, irritatingly blind when it comes to her family, and clueless about the depth of Sanskaar's feelings for her, but she still deserves Sanskaar. Her tears, her words and most importantly her forgiveness stopped him from travelling on a path which would have given him nothing but lifelong sorrow and guilt. She brought the light in the darkness he had confined himself in. She saved Sanskaar from himself, his revenge. Her presence in his life gave us the Sanskaar we adore today, and he has made himself worthy of the forgiveness. And so I can never hate her or believe either of them are better off without the other, they complete each other.

They both require each other. Sanskaar has found his solace in Swara (no matter how many times she unintentionally hurts him). And Swara has her shield in Sanskaar. The girl who always fights for her family and puts others above herself, finally has someone who fights just for her, someone who puts her above everything else. She does annoy me at times with her snail-paced speed at understanding Sanskaar's emotions and taking them for granted at times, but I am still glad she has his support. She does deserve it. This error of hers (grave as it may be) still doesn't make Ragini better, nor does it equate her with Laksh for me. Ragini has attempted to murder Swara twice, pulled quite a few kidnapping stunts, and even accused Sanskaar of molestation. Laksh didn't even give Swara a chance to explain (even though she clearly had a bandage on her head), humiliated her and when she did try to explain he assumed the worst of her (that she was some characterless girl who was at his home to break his marriage to her sister). Even if he didn't trust her feelings for him, did he also doubt her love for her sister? Did he not know her enough to know that she is incapable of hurting Ragini? And then he claims to love her more than his life. 😕

Swara has erred big time today. She has done wrong by Sanskaar, when he has done nothing but stand by her through every difficulty. And quoting from A Midsummer Night's Dream , "the course of true love never did run smooth." Then this is a Hindi drama, so these misunderstandings are a given. I am sure SwaSan's ship will overcome these turbulent waters and keep sailing. And if we can tolerate Daayans and special effects fit enough to give seizures for a glimpse of a SwaSan scene, 😆 then these misunderstandings are the least of our worries, especially since they would lead to a full on SwaSan track.

Also as mentioned in an earlier thread "The Strength of your OTP", to punish Swara is to punish Sanskaar. And to be honest, the punishment I want for SwaSan is some angst-filled separation leading to realization from Swara's side and nothing beyond that. These two have already suffered enough through the hands of family, love and fate, they don't need to torture themselves anymore.

Although I still hope she is just faking the whole doubting thing, but let's see what the CVs have planned for us. Seeing Sanskaar sad was so heartbreaking, if only she has pretended to express her doubts on Sanskaar because she knew someone is following her and keeping tabs on her moves.

Thank you Kavya and Shonali for appreciating this post in "The Strength of your OTP" and asking me to post it as a separate thread, it encouraged me to embellish it a little bit and for the first time actually make a thread. Yes, I know your names thanks to the ATs and KDRs.😃

To all the lovely writers/posters, especially in the AT: your comments are so funny, and creative. I have a blast reading it 😃. But I am always in the office (with my boss and co-workers nearby) when the episode airs so I can't actually participate in the discussions. The most I am able to do is sneak peeks into the AT when no one's looking 😆.

Anyways, I am going to stop my rambling here. My apologies for boring anyone with my almost essay.

Thanks,

Sans

Sans, you deserve a round of applause for the awesome post again. The points that you have jotted down are amazing.👏

You are so right. Why do we love Sanskaar so much today? Would have we been able to love this much if he hadn't redeemed himself? Who gave him the chance to redeem? Who gave the light of positivity? Who gave him the reason to live, laugh and breathe again? Swara!!!. You are right. If it wasn't for Swara, Sanskaar wouldn't have been the person that he is today. The guy we adore like no other😳

Same goes for Sanskaar. After he decided to redeem himself, he did everything in his power to protect, support, trust and love Swara. Swara doesn't know but he is actually becoming the reason of her existence and life. If it wasn't for Sanskaar, Swara would have been still fighting for her innocence.

They complete one another. No doubt. They both are actually the reason for each other's existence.

Was I mad at Swara for doubting Sanskaar yesterday? Yes I was. But do i hate her for that? No. Do i want to change my ship for that? Hell No. Even while watching the episode, I wasn't that mad at her. It was clear on her face how hesitant she was to even ask him or to check his room. When she was questioning him, her expressions were literally saying "Please prove me right Sanskaar. I know you are innocent. You just need to say it once". And that is why I am still ready to give her the benefit of doubt.

Had she doubted him based on just Laksh's ramblings, I would have been pissed off at her like no other. She only doubted him because she saw him burning the Shawl (again, I am not saying that whatever she did was right). Even though she saw him burning the shawl, she actually went to his room to confront rather than making a fuss in front of the family. She would have gotten him arrested if she was so very sure about him being the accused. But she is not. Hence, I am still ready to give her the benefit of doubt.

You are right here as well. The girl has trust issues because she has been played and backstabbed by her blood relations. Again, I am not saying that gives her an excuse for not trusting Sanskaar. No No No. Don't get me wrong. I am just saying where her problem lies. She craves the love from her loved ones which supposedly happens to be her family for her.

And I am very much looking forward to this track because I really want Swara to realize her love for Sanskaar and his importance the hard way. Thats the only way she will learn her lesson of not blindly trusting everyone.

Every relationship has their share of ups and downs. What matters is whether it is still standing strong after the storm has passed. And that is yet to come.

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Sans, do come more often to the forum and make such amazing post. Such positivity is always welcomed with open and wide arms.

ONCE AGAIN, GREAT POST AND GREAT POINTS...