On all the bahu related shows we see bahu's solving all their sasural problems but one thing is always enact on those shows, which is being responsible to their parents as well. But here Jamai Raja is breaking that record. At FIRST he is a SON then he is a JAMAI. He is the Jamai Raja and everyone sees it.. But neglecting the parents who gave birth to you is just ridiculous. Being the Jamai of the show I agree that his first priority is his Jamai duty and he has always fulfilled it no matter what, setting a perfect role model for the rest of the Jamai's.
So let me give examples for those with short memories, first he became Ghar Jamai leaving his parents behind just for the sake of mending Ma-Beti relationship; which he succeeded after failing several attempts. Then, he was forced to divorce his wife; so that he can give back his Sasu Mom's property and her reputation etc. SO, basically this guy sacrificed his own happiness for his Sasural and still people say he failed as Jamai. I don't agree at all. In fact I would say the title of the show is well justified and totally apt.
Coming to his responsibility as a hubby, YES he failed big time. Not only once but numerous time cause he is always busy in fulfilling Jamai duty. I am against the way he keeps his wife in dark. She is his better half and he should be aware of that. YET, he does the same mistakes over and over. People usually learn from their mistakes but he is unrealistic so what difference does it make. Let him do the blunders for the show to move on. His actions are wrong but not his intention.
Regarding today's episode and his plan, I have two points for the delusional minds. His plan of seducing Shabby and making her fall for him would have been fair for most of the people if SidNi were together. People wouldn't mind Jiju tempting saali cause they would say there is no harm because SidNi are together. But still it is disgusting to see be it even if the wife and hubby are together in this plan because Shabby looks like a prostitute. People are just taking out their frustration because the plan was ONLY made by him and he did not include Roshni in this.
Although I am totally against his so called plan of him but if it is needed to prove his innocence and clear his reputation. Let him do it because I don't see any another way of trapping Shabnam. And I don't think they will again show the same crap of Shabby trapping him in molestation. He is well aware of that; clearly knows Shabby is not stupid. But she proved it in today's episode showing her overconfidence that he fell for her. Big fool she is!
P.S. This is just my opinion on observation! No need of Roshni and Sid phankas to attack me.