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lostNfound

@lostNfound

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

I don't get the logic people have been using to defend Rimi's humiliation.

Does employing someone give you the right to humiliate them? Would you or I take humiliation from our peers or our boss if we do not do the work in the way they expect it to be done? Happens in so many regular jobs too. Companies hire people and when they are not happy with their performance they are fired. I have never heard of an employer who would ask all his other employees to make a circle and humiliate the one employee whose performance was not good. Rimi was strong and brushed off much of what was said to her ( from what I read) but if it were someone with a weak mind, that kind of humiliation could have scarred them psychologically. Entertainment and vendetta more important then someone's dignity? She is BB's employee not personal slave. Certainly there is a difference in the way in which you would treat either.

Isn't it BB teams fault that they did not have legal clauses which would make contestants responsible for not contributing in return for the pay? Employers tend to have clauses.

If votes never mattered and eliminations could happen according to BB ka whims and fancies why did BB save Rimi for 7 weeks?

If votes count, how is it Rimi's fault that other contestants who wanted to stay got eliminated? 99% of contestants who participated since season 1 wanted to stay and play and win. Doesn't work for all because the audience (as per the show format) is given the right to choose who gets to stay.

I don't get why do ppl have a problem that she laughs off her criticism. What do you do when ppl who have absolutely no importance in your life attack you? Cry and gossip abt it? I would laugh it off too, because when the other person sees their verbal attacks not affecting me, it would frustrate them.

And whatever amount of money Rimi got, she got it for being Rimi Sen. She had her share of success and failures just like most of us and because someone is not at the top of their career now doesn't mean they will languish at the bottom forever. We live in an uncertain world of which ups and downs are part of, and talking abt her career and wishing bad for her career is really uncool. We all have careers and we should be careful when we wish bad for someone's.

Edited by shantanr21 - 9 years ago

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gangnamstyle

@gangnamstyle

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

exactly

the point is for most viewers rimmi has been an interesting character, more so than ppl like keith.

and its not her fault tht BB wasnt eliminating her or ppl voted out other boring contestants before her...

but i wish she had tried to make this point of view clear...

especially when the roro and her bf were berating her

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lostNfound

@lostNfound

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: gangnamstyle
exactly

the point is for most viewers rimmi has been an interesting character, more so than ppl like keith.

and its not her fault tht BB wasnt eliminating her or ppl voted out other boring contestants before her...

but i wish she had tried to make this point of view clear...

especially when the roro and her bf were berating her

Before lecturing Rimi, Keith should have told his gf abt the difference between toilet brush and tooth brush. These ppl have no regret for things they did in the name of playing game but are always ready to give gyaan to others. Since when did people living in glass houses start throwing stones at others'.

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Navjia

@Navjia

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: shantanr21

Before lecturing Rimi, Keith should have told his gf abt the difference between toilet brush and tooth brush. These ppl have no regret for things they did in the name of playing game but are always ready to give gyaan to others. Since when did people living in glass houses start throwing stones at others'.

If you bring that incident up, people here will start chanting "I only believe what I see" jaap. Now just because BB is biased, Roch and Keith are saints.

I agree with everything you said, and I'm not a rimi fan, never was. People have been complaining about her taking/blocking someone else's spot there, but that never was her fault she never voted for herself. I only found it unfair when she refused to do tasks and orders had to suffer. But mandana and diggy haven't been part of many tasks, due to "sickness" too..

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Amrita

@Amrita

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+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

If Rimi was in the house for 7 wks it is not her fault..

she did not took anyone's spot.

Agree TM with our points

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khamosshhh

@khamosshhh

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

Seriously I can't understand the mentality of ppl who r happy that Rimi was humiliated. It's another thing that she refused to get humiliated by this whole deliberate and disgusting targeting.👏

It's also sheer hypocrisy when I see ppl commenting that Rimi just blew up her career and she shld hv thought abt her future etc. coz they sure aren't her well wishers and they sure aren't gonna give her any break. If Rimi is confident enough abt her future, nobody has the right to pretend to be concerned abt it.

But I am glad that she is evicted, coz for a long time everything was conveniently blamed on Rimi and the other housemates' faults went almost unnoticed. Now let them to task shiddat se!😉

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RoKoSmi

@RoKoSmi

Beginner

Posted: 9 years ago

Rimi should have atleast shown some efforts. If she had even given her 50%... She wudn't hv been evicted...

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

It's all done and dusted

That's the mentality of big boss those who would not abuse should be out of house, but I am disappointed with Rimi too, I haven't watched the episode whatever I have been reading in forum that she didn't give back, there is a time when you have to leave your careless attitude and stand up for yourself.

it was expected from them but prince from dubistan again proved that he really belongs to dubistan, Rimi supported him when salman was behind him like made bully usne bhi behti ganga me haath dhongi liye.

I don't understand hypocrisy of big fraud and bully khan, if keith can get over with death of his brother just in 3 weeks then why can't Rimi learn to adjust in house after spending 7 weeks? And think to continue.

Big boss is not about task, it's about mental strength and how you present yourself, big boss won't make you superstar overnight, just look at all previous contestants except sunny Leon are either doing what they used to do before big boss OR are just jobless, Sunny has special quality (if you know what I mean) that all can't have and her case is different and not like big boss would have helped Rimi to re set her finished career, it's just a platform to earn money and it's individual choice how they want to earn? Some get nasty and some play clear so they better stop presenting big boss as some big thing which would make them superstar.

DT NOTE : POST EDITED FOR REMARK ON CONTESTANT'S PERSONAL LIFE

Edited by VishaD. - 9 years ago

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Neeva

@-Neeva1906-

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

Agree,they should'nt have humiliated her like that yesterday.It was wrong.

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agastya_muni

@agastya_muni

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: shantanr21
I don't get the logic people have been using to defend Rimi's humiliation.
Does employing someone give you the right to humiliate them? Would you or I take humiliation from our peers or our boss if we do not do the work in the way they expect it to be done? Happens in so many regular jobs too. Companies hire people and when they are not happy with their performance they are fired. I have never heard of an employer who would ask all his other employees to make a circle and humiliate the one employee whose performance was not good. Rimi was strong and brushed off much of what was said to her ( from what I read) but if it were someone with a weak mind, that kind of humiliation could have scarred them psychologically. Entertainment and vendetta more important then someone's dignity? She is BB's employee not personal slave. Certainly there is a difference in the way in which you would treat either.
Isn't it BB teams fault that they did not have legal clauses which would make contestants responsible for not contributing in return for the pay? Employers tend to have clauses.
If votes never mattered and eliminations could happen according to BB ka whims and fancies why did BB save Rimi for 7 weeks?
If votes count, how is it Rimi's fault that other contestants who wanted to stay got eliminated? 99% of contestants who participated since season 1 wanted to stay and play and win. Doesn't work for all because the audience (as per the show format) is given the right to choose who gets to stay.
I don't get why do ppl have a problem that she laughs off her criticism. What do you do when ppl who have absolutely no importance in your life attack you? Cry and gossip abt it? I would laugh it off too, because when the other person sees their verbal attacks not affecting me, it would frustrate them.
And whatever amount of money Rimi got, she got it for being Rimi Sen. She had her share of success and failures just like most of us and because someone is not at the top of their career now doesn't mean they will languish at the bottom forever. We live in an uncertain world of which ups and downs are part of, and talking abt her career and wishing bad for her career is really uncool. We all have careers and we should be careful when we wish bad for someone's.

While I dont condone public humiliation let me tell here what I feel. Rimi humiliated BB through and through out. Her one liners ridiculing the show was a hit with her fans. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

As with the comparison to an employer, if a worker does not the job properly they are usually put on a PIP to see if they will improve. Failing which they are fired. At the same time employee does not have the right to ridicule the employer too. As an Employer BB gave her 7 weeks to improve. It was the fans who got fed up with the poor performance and have voted her out. That is if they follow the democratic voting process.

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