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Posted: 10 years ago
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Honestly going late to the venue by 10 - 15 min wouldn't have made any difference. Anandi could have dropped her daughter home instead of carrying a sick child out in scorching heat.


Even if we give her Benefit of Doubt at that point, there is no justification as to why she was doing nothing about finding her daughter for 12 years.

Her daughter was brought to her on a platter and even then she doesn't have it in her to tell the truth to her girl.

Why point out Mangala or Jagya or Shekhars for their inabilities when it is Anandi who doesnt have it in her. She is a woman without defined principles in life, lacks zeal, she is a failed mother and a confused living being.

She is woman who preaches one thing and practices another.

She fights against bal vivah but cannot stop taking aid from her own balak var and his family.

She teaches students not to lie but lies through her teeth and hides behind mask of choki chudail.

She tries to fight for justice but mostly spares criminals in her family.

She cries at her lost mother hood but makes everything a priority except for searching for her lost child.

And people say she is justified in her actions??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If a social worker can't use her knowledge and experience nothing can be expected from her. What is this time to sit back and think coming from? Anandi was supposed to be doing work against child marriage for quite some time back then. Wouldn't all this should've come to her naturally without sitting back and thinking?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I will go by what has been shown

Where it was shown it wouldn't have made any difference if she reached 15-20 mins late. It was shown she was hesitant going there. She was looking at Sarita and her baby. But Sarita was inconsolable so she had to go there.

Alleast CVs showed that. People can make 100 things out of it.

Where it was shown she was doing nothing last 12 years? Before leap they showed she was returning home late at night searching her daugter when everyone was asleep except Amol. In BH she was enquiring with the police and J regularly.

After leap it was shown police is still in touch withher and informed about a girl, She ran there and while returning talking to DS that everytime she is coming empty handed.

So that means her search continued for 12 years. Why it is assumed that she was not searching whereas it was assumed that M took care of N these days whereas nothing as such has been shown.

When it was shown she was confused? When she lost her hubby and her daughter?

If she is a failed mother how is Shivam such a chirpy , decent boy who excels in everything?

When it was shown she was taking aid from Balak VAR and his family,

She was there under DS's care as she was in a vulnerable state that time after loosing everything.

They did showed she objected to stay there but no one listened to that.

They did showed she wanted to leave BH but DS and others made her stay back.

When did she lied ? Yes she told her kid what should be told to them at that age, which dont breaks their morale, but never lied with any bad intention,

Even if people die do people stop living? Life goes on. Does that mean if a person is doing everything he or she has forgot the pain or not doing anything ? How can people even think like that?

If she sit and cries how will it effect Shivam ?

One day while making him study she was crying for N, and Shivam told mama you go and sleep.If she would have done that continuously Shivam would have become an extrovert , gloomy boy.

When CVs are showing other stories alongwith it obviously they will be showing her doing other things. Does that mean she is heartless?
Edited by hisusmita - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

If a social worker can't use her knowledge and experience nothing can be expected from her. What is this time to sit back and think coming from? Anandi was supposed to be doing work against child marriage for quite some time back then. Wouldn't all this should've come to her naturally without sitting back and thinking?



That came to her naturally. She knows this will happen that's why she went there. But she also knows villagers are scared of police, they lie but never does firing in front of the police .May be she doesnt know people like Akheraj exists. So she took the police
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi till date shares her life with BH people. They are integral part of her life. If she is so much against bal vivah why her bal sasural superseeds all her relations? This is contradiction in principles.


Post leap we have seen umpteen scenes of Anandi engaging in lives of others and giving them importance while searching for N was just a one off thing - not a priority.

And so on and on for all the above points listed.

Anandi's character has lost conviction.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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well, If we go as per what is shown, then the truth is that anandi was NOT needed after the police arrived at the venue. She was NOT needed behind the pillar to watch the scene.

And the bigger truth is that she did not consider the safety of her daughter. Her maqsad became her only priority.

No matter how many times people come up with theories like she went to do a noble work like stopping child marriage, it is not going to hide the truth that anandi was a failure as a mother and that she does not deserve her daughter.

Edited by Shinya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lols when others made Anandi stay back in BH ?It was only Dadisaa who asked her but the great Anandi was putting it on Ganga Each time she puts in on Ganga's head i cannot stay because of her thats when Ganga asks her not to leave because of her Why she keeps putting burden on Ganga's head each time i cannot stay in my sasural cum maika because of Ganga ? why she cannot say she wants to leave for her own sake but no everytime everytime this Anandi plays same game she puts burden on Ganga's head who obviously does not want to break Dadisaa's heart and asks Anandi she does not need to leave because of her and Anandi happily stays so i think excuse pretty lame others make her stay in BH Jagya i have not seen when he asked Anandi to stay in BH To him it does not matter she stays in BH or KB or Shiv Niketan Its her choice and he respects it
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hisusmita



That came to her naturally. She knows this will happen that's why she went there. But she also knows villagers are scared of police, they lie but never does firing in front of the police .May be she doesnt know people like Akheraj exists. So she took the police


What came naturally to her? Acting without thinking and risking other's lives? She knows villagers will never do firing in front of police? Where was this shown? She did not took police. She just informed police and did not wait to take police along. Could she stop the marriage without police?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What future does she have with Mangala.
At least with Anandi she is with family and has a bright future.

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Edited by Yuvika_15 - 10 years ago

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