I have been following this show from the beginning. I don't watch much shows. I got connected to this show and the great chemistry between lakhs and Swara. But recently I have been seeing the forum and Swasan have been projected as a great couple and every one seems to put the blame on Laksh for not trusting Swara and showing how caring and nice Sanskaar has been and is the only one who stood with her etc. True Sanskar realised his mistakes and stood for Swara. But Can we just ignore these facts
Laksh: Yes he is an impulsive and slightly immature guy. He agreed for Engagement due to his fathers pressure and did not have the courage to stand up to him. He gave some encouragement to Ragini at the same time did try to break this relationship by sending those videos etc. Swaras and Raginis family had to bear the brunt of his actions. But one thing I have always noticed even when he used to do these activities his intentions were not bad he used to say it may cause some pain for Ragini now but it is better than ending up in a love less marriages which is a punishment for life. Here I am not justifying his actions, but the point I am bringing out here is that basically he is good at heart. When Durgaprasad insulted Raginis family it was Ragini herself broke her engagement. So technically it was not Lakshya who broke the engagement. After that He had told Swara he does not love Ragini and Later told Ragini also. Ragini was aware of his affections towards swara, but preferred to ignore. Second time why did Laksh announced Ragini as his fiance. For his Brother.He literally begged Dadi to send Ragini. Where was Raginis great love at that time. The girl who could turn so obsessive and turn a blind eye to all relations simply watched that scene. She was that helpless, I don't believe. I don't know what else any one would have done at that time. Swara said you could have told us we would have found out way. I did not see any time for that as Sanskar was threatening to commit suicide. Lakshya did mistake and broke Raginis heart but it was not for his selfishness , forced by circumstances and Sanskar.
When Ragini was hit by the truck everyone blamed him for the incident and he did penance in the temple. Here the point I am bringing is that since always people blamed Lakshya for Raginis plight he had these subconscious guilt feelings that he is somehow responsible. But I think it is unfair to blame him as the sole person responsible for Raginis Plight. Coming to the issue of trust can we really say He did not trust Swara. The hotel incident. Pub incident we can name enough. Police officer shows him the video where Swara herself mixing drugs. I don't know any one in life when they see these proofs will not have any doubt and will continue to have unconditional trust on their loved ones. When Swara had doubt on Sanskar he was even ready to bring his so called mentally unbalanced brother , so that swara can clarify things. He was ready to accept her even if she is a drug addict and told Ragini the same. On the marriage day he was heartbroken to see the video. I don't think that how can he think it is a fake one. People will say it is a trust issue, really, You have been engaged to a girl who dances under the influence of drug in the sangeet and humiliates every one in the family .Still he believed her and pre-poned the wedding date .How many of us will do. People sais he could have waited, when in the video it is clearly said that don't search for me I am leaving as I need my freedom. He was already shown the audio recording manipulated by Ragini that Swara is getting tensed for the marriage. I think his only fault is to marry Ragini out of Impulse and that hasty decision has changed his life. Somewhere I feel his subconscious guilt, which I pointed out earlier, has been the reason for his marriage.
Yes He kept on insulting Swara out of his frustration and I am not defending him, But any one who has been hurt like this will react in a similar fashion. Remember in this whole drama Laksh was the only one oblivious of truth. Swara, Sanskar and Ragini all knew the Truth, if Sanskar was not knowing the truth how he would have reacted we saw. Every one said swara believed Laksh in the kidnapping incident. But during the entire drama swara was with laksh and she could understand from his behavior that it is not him. Further it was only once incident. But if ten more incidents like this comes on the way swara would Swara have believed Laksh and trusted whole-heartedly only time will tell.
Ragini- I have no word to describe , Whatever may be the reason and everything is fair in love and war dictum what she has done is unpardonable and simple criminal acts. So if finally she manages to get what she wants it is a wrong signal, which CV are projecting to the young mind. Laksh has every right to Divorce Ragini and live his life.
Sanskar: Sanskar is the epitome of perfection today loving , caring trusting and what not . He turned from a villain to super hero. In the forum I have seen people keep on telling me that Sanskaar trusted Swara and was with her. Let me put certain things into perspective. Is he the epitome of trust. He was some one who wanted to destroy his younger brothers Life and happiness and what all things was done to swara. In fact what was not done. Agreed Swara was a stranger, If he was such a humanitarian and a matured human being he could very well imagine and feel a strangers Pain also . So he is not a saint. He of course realised things and tried to mend his ways. Is that sufficient the seed of all these issues was put by him. And Trust did he trusted his younger brother whom he claimed to have loved a lot. He went about planning and plotting to destroy his own brothers life, Where was his trust .Why he never clarified it with his brother. Does this trust factor operates only between lovers and not between brothers and sisters. Laksh was his own blood and brother ,Still there was no trust. Here He trusted Swara as he saw her truth. He saw her truth because he knew she was innocent as he is the master brain behind misunderstandings.
Swara_ Began as a realistic character turning clearly unrealistic mainly due to her attitude to ragini.I don't know whom she loves , she seems to be confused. If she loves Sanskar, yes she has every right and reasons to do that. She can reject Lakshya for not trusting her, Fine and it is her decision whether she loves him or not. But the trust factor, which she points out, is applicable in all relationships. Father, sister etc. When she has not shunned them out inspite of their mistrust and bad deeds why only Lakshya
Misunderstandings happen in relationships, as it happened between laksh and swara, Sanskaar and Laksh. In both these cases there was lack of trust. But that is not the end of relationships, if the basic live and affection persists relationships can be mended. Please look around and see relationships where there has been 100 % trust in relationship all the time. The serial world s devoid of reality and in serial Swara may fall in love with Sanskaar and Lakshya With Ragini. But for me it is difficult to accept this only for the simple reason that The entire seed of misunderstandings and cheating was started by Sanskaar and Ragini and lakshya and Swara became the victims. Ragini May get her love after doing all these criminal activities, Sanskar also may get his love inspite of the fact of masterminding all these criminal activities and Swara can also fall in love with Sanskar and she may also get her love an d perfect partner. I feel it is only Lakshya who may be deprived of his love and in fact compared to Ragini and Sanskar what he has done is negligible.
These are simply my personal views
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