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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay so I'm really confused about Raj's character. Today my Mum was watching the show with me and she asked me if Raj loves Koyal too. And I said yes... I think. She then asked me "So why isn't he telling her his feelings." And then I was at lost for words. Like even I don't get why he just can't confess.

I know Raj believes in "expressing" and not in words but like he's going to have to confess his feelings someday or another. He needs to realise that without confessing, Koyal wouldn't get assurance she needs, which is really frustrating for a girl. Not that I've got experience or anything but like yeah. 😆

If he doesn't believe in words why does he give false hope to Koyal saying stuff like "You have a right on me." If he can say that why can't he just tell her he loves her. After about a week since the show has been airing, I am absolutely confused on the character of Raj.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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There is nothing wrong with him, this show is just giving a different concept, but since we r used to the same old thing we r thinking something is wrong..😆😆

It is complicated, Raj doesn't know if he loves her or not, and he don't want to know, actually life was going on ok, Koyel was a part of his life, she was always there, so he never thought of Koyel. it is the same for Koyel to Maddy, she is saying I am his responsibility and he is mine, we have rights over each other but...
Neither Koyel to Maddy nor Raj to Koyel is giving false hope, it is like that only, it is how they feel, and they never thought that one day they will have to give the relation a name...but Maddy and Koyel r taking hope..

Maddy wants a commitment from Koyel,

Raj don't want to give commitment to Koyel, he just want's life to go on as it is..

And Koyel, well, For Maddy she is behaving like Raj (don't want to give commitment, she just want's life to go on as it is..) and for Raj she is behaving like Maddy (wants a commitment)

Well everything would have been fine if...

Maddy->Love-><-Love<-Koyel->Friendship-><-Friendship<-Raj

or

Maddy->Friendship-><-Friendship<-Koyel->Love-><-Love<-Raj

but here...

Maddy->Love-><-Friendship<-Koyel->Love-><-Friendship<-Raj

and this is happening unknowingly..Because what Raj is doing is giving hope to Koyel and what Koyel is doing is giving hope to Maddy...but Raj and Koyel don't know that...they don't know y they r doing it,and they don't want to know...they want life to go on like this for ever...

and this is the main concept of the show...
Edited by rajeet_hossain - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is quite complicated now isn't it? Balaji tv showss always test my intelligence and stupidity... 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Raj is just afraid of commitment at this stage. As you said, it's confusing for Koyal 'cause he keeps giving all these signals which indicate she means a lot to him. I think their relationship is very complicated. Unnecessarily complicated, if you ask me. I think Raj should just make whatever he is feeling clear to Koyal, instead of keeping her hanging. Koyal for her part, needs to find some hobbies lol.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: clarity

I think Raj is just afraid of commitment at this stage. As you said, it's confusing for Koyal 'cause he keeps giving all these signals which indicate she means a lot to him. I think their relationship is very complicated. Unnecessarily complicated, if you ask me. I think Raj should just make whatever he is feeling clear to Koyal, instead of keeping her hanging. Koyal for her part, needs to find some hobbies lol.


lol what will he say when he himself is not clear...😆

Raj is not afraid he just don't want it, he don't want any complications, he just want life to go on...he is thinking, y is Koyel doing all this why can't just things go on like it was from beginning, why Koyel want's an answer...he is happy with their relation and he don't want to change it, neither he want to move ahead nor he want to move back...😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajeet_hossain


lol what will he say when he himself is not clear...😆

Raj is not afraid he just don't want it, he don't want any complications, he just want life to go on...he is thinking, y is Koyel doing all this why can't just things go on like it was from beginning, why Koyel want's an answer...he is happy with their relation and he don't want to change it, neither he want to move ahead nor he want to move back...😆😆



Yaar yeh kya baat huyi? Why does he just want to be in limbo? Responsibility naam ki koi cheez hoti hai.

I agree with you. He just wants things to remain as they are, without any need for him to take any responsibility or commitment to Koyal. It's really damaging for both of them, though, 'cause they will end up losing each other.

BTW, why isn't Darmiyaan airing on Sundays like all other shows of SP?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: clarity



Yaar yeh kya baat huyi? Why does he just want to be in limbo? Responsibility naam ki koi cheez hoti hai.

I agree with you. He just wants things to remain as they are, without any need for him to take any responsibility or commitment to Koyal. It's really damaging for both of them, though, 'cause they will end up losing each other.

BTW, why isn't Darmiyaan airing on Sundays like all other shows of SP?


well there r ppl like Raj..😆😆
he don't wan't to follow the rules of the world that either he will have to marry her or just let go, he wants to stay in the middle, something more then friend but not love.Actually what is love, there are many types of feelings that can be said as love, so in a way he does love her, want to stay with her, but don't want to marry her, he said Koyel is mine and no one can take her away from me, when Sanju said anyone will marry her and she will go away, he was worried of her going away not because she will get married , well if Koyel gets a husband who will not take her away from him Raj will be ok..

@bold- maybe because it is new...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajeet_hossain


well there r ppl like Raj..😆😆
he don't wan't to follow the rules of the world that either he will have to marry her or just let go, he wants to stay in the middle, something more then friend but not love.Actually what is love, there are many types of feelings that can be said as love, so in a way he does love her, want to stay with her, but don't want to marry her, he said Koyel is mine and no one can take her away from me, when Sanju said anyone will marry her and she will go away, he was worried of her going away not because she will get married , well if Koyel gets a husband who will not take her away from him Raj will be ok..

@bold- maybe because it is new...



Yeah, there are people like that. I'm just saying I don't like such people who run away from responsibility and commitment, 😆😆 They waste everyone else's time.

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