Real mother will choose her daughter's happiness and well being over her own need to keep her daughter with her and she will say that even if her daughter doesn't consider her as her mother she would accept it and will just ensure that she leads a happy life.
Real mother will not let her daughter be in a dilemma by making claims over her.She will let her chose and accept her decision even if it is against her.
That's what Amol's mother did in the beginning and that's what Anandi did later on with Amol.
So Anandi is definitely not getting her daughter on a silver platter