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Posted: 10 years ago
#61
Coz this is an open Forum so we are bound to have different opinions

Even if we had no IF and ppl supporting all the misplaced feminism shown in the serial still CVs wud have shown us this absurdity.
I am talking of times when shows like Kyunki anf Kasauti were ruling the TRPs. At that time there were no or very few online portals and CVs then did not take feedback from those any which ways n yet they went ahead with their brand of feminism.

Anyways as far as the show is concerned I feel they have shown us wrong portrayal of feminism or womanhood almost from the point where they showed Ishita tying Rakhi to her molestor.

For me feminism would mean Ishita-
-being angry and talking it out with Raman for manhandling incident
-being angry on his Get out n u r not the mother of my children incident
- Lohri where he was readily going and doing Puja with Shagun
-talking out with Toshiji when she called her an outsider in front of guests during Rinki wedding
- or not giving in to Rinki's demands of buying a flat

Instead we see
- Manhandling incident ending in comedy
- Get out lead to confession with no proper closure
- Lohri, she was wallowing in self pity in a corner n Ruhi had to put some sense in elders, y cant woman raise voice against the injustice done to them? If they do then SP's agyakari Bahu tag will get tarnished.
- Well Toshi calls her an outsider and then comes and begs to fix Rinky's marriage after she is thrown out by Raman. Ishita character never questions Toshiji for calling her an outsider or talking about her marriage going through a rough time and never asks her "here I am at my mother's place and all u can think of is ur Daughter? " Instead we see her forgetting her pain and working Rinky's marriage out.
- Lot of family drama was going on when she was insulted out right by Rinki and Romi yet she forgets her hurt and strives to work for them? Asks her husbannd to pay for them?


Can a woman not be selfish for once and stand up for her own self respect and rights? Ya if she does that then it wud go against SP's delusion of ideal woman who have to compromise their self respect to make their husbands and in laws happy. 🥱In what way is this Nayi Soch or Feminism?

For me feminism is not about Ishita beating her husband or asking him to do uthak baithak, its about her standing up to her own rights as a Woman.



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Posted: 10 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

It is believed that past certainly haunts your present

This is certainly coming true in case of yhm

Last year we had wonderful and amazing mosquito track

Where ishita who was behaving as if her life did not exist before mosquito came into picture

Ishita who could not understand trauma her husband was going through

At that time we had tonnes and tonnes of pages justifying ishita behaviour and in that way writers


We had another groups of posts justifying ishita looking and caring after her sautan after bringing her into the house


We had another group of posts defending ishita visiting a fertility expert on Ruhi demand

We have had pages and pages of defence too when Raman manhandled ishita and even some time back when he Ill treated her at party by calling it passion


So writers thought they will show surrogacy as ultimately ppl will somehow justify it as it involves their favourites

They pulled the trigger

And now chickens have come to roost for us viewers

On a side note

Would reactions have been so extreme from some ppl who are calling Raman a new subbu if she had suggested surrogacy

Then I wonder what would have they called ishita

I think writers are smart that they have pulled the burden of surrogacy on Raman

So that pseudo feminists and intellectuals don't have to squirm in their seats thinking of defence

For the record

I hope ishita refuses and we don't have surrogacy


bwahhahaa wats new cvs always does mistakes through ishra n d characters they pick in lucky draw at tat time for d tracks n killed ishra n d show long back now just nailing it 😆 by seeing d track record of cvs i ve full hope on cvs tat they make more entertaining n ready with pop corn for d entertainment 😆

on a side note :out of curiosity were u targeted r wat in past n made dis targeted post in d present ,just asking don't mind.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: Savz_Startling


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<font color="#330066">bwahhahaa wats new cvs always does mistakes through ishra n d characters they pick in lucky draw at tat time for d tracks n killed ishra n d show long back now just nailing it😆by seeing d track record of cvs i ve full hope on cvs tat they make more entertaining n ready with pop corn for d entertainment</font>😆

on a side note :out of curiosity were u targeted r wat in past n made dis targeted post in d present ,just asking don't mind.😊



Nah nothing like that
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Posted: 10 years ago
#64
The surrogacy track makes no sense at all currently...but before we readily jump to labelling Raman as subbu, let us let the damn scene unfold first..if Raman is being hyper abt the baby, ishita seems to have absolutely no emotions for it..both seem to be very wierd and non connecting to me as a viewer..and seriously, calling vyas an mcp was totally uncalled for..tht member shud seriously apologise for tht statement..
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Posted: 10 years ago
#65

then y u r so concerned about other group justifications posts n all n dedicating ur post to mems too along with show characters ,inviting all groups r wat for ur thread for discussions 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Ok I understand now

If you are male and support male means you have a male ego 🤪
If you are female and support male means you blinded by his hawtness ☺️

So moral of the story is support female lead who can never be wrong and no right to point finger on her mistakes which she never make 👍🏼


One more to add...

If you are a female viewer and bash the Female Lead...ppl comes with Clinched stmts like ..

"One Women can never think good abt other Women..." Or
"One Women can never Understand what other Women is going through"...*Rolls Eye to Infinity*..

🤣

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