Frustrations: Where do they lie?

As we see that the couples have been swapped, and there is lots of kitchen politics going on. Amaya hating and all of that jazz, what exactly are you most upset about or have been in the past? Basically the question is what issues do you have with the current track besides the obvious "couple swapping"?

I will start off by giving some of my opinions on the current track and the root of my anger for this whole scenario.

Firstly, I am upset that ManYa and RaRa were swapped with this stupid RaMaya marriage because in my mind I always felt that ManYa were not the couple that suited this divorce/remarriage type of track. For me, I felt that ManYa will not be together very easily, but if ever and whenever they do marry someone it will be each other. It is a kind of submission that I could sense in their equation, that they will only ever belong to each other. With this marriage, it kind of ruined that concept for me. However, I am trying to understand the progression that the characters could go through in this track and I know that ManYa have devoted themselves to each other and their souls only belong to each other.

My second, most major issue with RaMaya's marriage is the defilement of the bond that Rama and Amaya could have shared. From the very beginning of the show, I felt that Rama and Amaya will share the cutest and naughtiest jiju-saali bond where they tease each other and help each other with their respective partners. I don't know, but I don't get those same vibes from Mantu-Rachita because they seem the like the mature no-nonsense type of people. I thought that RaMaya the jiju-saali duo would bring some excitement and masti into Rachi and Mantu's lives. It is sad to know that even when ManYa and RaRa are together, RaMaya will never be able to have that kind of fun relationship. They cannot tease each other because it would be really awkward as they had once shared a husband-wife relationship, loveless but it was a marriage.

Finally I think it brought out my anger towards Sneha's upbringing. Time and again I have felt that Sneha has failed as a mother and Amaya's wrong decision to marry Rama I think stems from this bad mothering. I have said this in the ManYa AT numerous times that if Rishi was alive, Amaya wouldn't have thought twice before confiding in her father, her SuperMan. The kind of trust and strength, Rishi instilled in his daughters was what kept them from breaking when he died. They believed in their father and got up to only become better individuals. Sneha has only made them weak. This entire time in Benaras, Sneha has lent no support to Amaya or Rachi. She has always doubted them and expected them to be good daughters. One thing I say is that Amaya was expected to be the Supergirl of the family, but no one ever supported her and told her that it is okay if you mess up. Maybe that is why Rishi committed suicide...he felt like a failure and made a wrong choice. Amaya did the same today...she felt like a failure and ruined all of these lives. She has always tried to be strong, and has never shared her problems with anyone, but today when she messed up it took two seconds for her mother to blame her. I am proud of Rachita for still trusting her sister. What mother does this? One mistake of Amaya and suddenly everything that she has done for you doesn't matter?

These are my views. Feel free to disagree and share your opinions as well :D

-Loveleen