September 1st, 2015

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mannu and Pooja did not care for what Anandi and Jagya tried to tell them. Mannu is focussed while Pooja is confused. Mannu is focussed about his commitment. Mannu also found loopholes in their theory. He said that their marriage was without consent while his marriage has consent and love and also baby! I would like to see how long his commitment stays and how long he can withstand pressure!

Kundan is trying his best to lure Nimboli. Atleast he is trying to make her look confused! He has taken a quiet challenge with Mangala.He is a person without commitment issues.

Why Kamli is sticking to that gold given by Akheraj as she has enough property already? She could have thrown that gold at his face too!

Harki is in a dilemma. On one side her pati parameshwar and on the other side ladli beti!

Do bank staff come to homes to handover locker keys?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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This episode is way too disturbing.
There is Mannu and Pooja all set to press self destruct button because they think they are in this for the rest of their lives and with no thought to how they will feed the kid and what will happen to their lives.

Kundan 🤢 He thinks girls are for just one purpose

Precap - Disturbing although we knew that this will come one day it is still difficult to watch

Hope she saves herself.

Looks like CVs are too busy trying to rectify the mistakes they made in Ver 2.0.

So teen relationships and child marriage consequences presented in the most hard hitting way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jagya Anandi story failed to make an impact on Mannu Pooja because the two cases are indeed very different. Pooja herself is determined, but acts confused don't know why. She was the one who was after Mannu initially. Mannu is determined since he came to know about his biological father - he will oppose his parents to assert himself.
Creatives themselves seem to be confused in this track. What they want to show is still not clear. Mannu - Pooja did not elope because parents were opposing their love/crush. Mannu decided to leave his parents because some other issue and he wanted Pooja to be with him because she was the only one he had (how he forgot about his dear grandma at that time). So, even if parents were friendly before the incident - still Mannu Pooja would have eloped. And Jagya Gauri story is completely misfit. J chose Gauri when both were adult. Unless creatives want to show that love marriages are wrong and bound to break - J-G marriage is not a suitable example here.

Kundan is as dumb as Urmi and Nimboli. His light bulb needs a switch-on from his friend. Before his friend prods him to do something - he just imitates Akhera and tries to beat women - be it Kamli, Urmi or Nimboli. When his friend gives 🤬 idea - he tries something for Nimboli, once unsuccessful - he again waits till his friend gives him another tip 😆.

BV is like BV only - so here bank staff will come to handover locker keys - don't miss here that Kamli is not living in JataShankar's home. The bank staff first traced where she is currently living and then visited that place 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mannu just took home the message that he wanted to from that.
He thinks since they were not coerced into marriage their Bal Vivah is not wrong and their relationship is not wrong.

He completely ignored the message that their feelings may not amount to love and their marriage and feelings may not be enough to keep them together when times get tough and also ignores the fact that their preferences may change once they grow up.

Pooja is she a confused individual or is she not strong enough to hold on to her beliefs?

Kundan is trying to convince Nandini to become a fulfledged wife and Nandini is confused and is thinking.

In both the cases the boys are trying their best to convince the girls to get their way with them and the girls one is not ignorant but weak the other one is ignorant therefore confused.

Both the girls will end up paying a big price nevertheless

Going by a saying in Telugu Banana leaf gets orn and ripped apart when it flies and lands on a thorn or thorn lands on Banana leaf.
Nandini is thrust into circumstances with no escape while Pooja landed herself in trouble on her own.
Don't know why it is always girls/women who end up paying the price.

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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After this episode it makes sense as to why Nandini introduced herself as Kundanji's beendini.
Kundan himself has given that status to her even though in the most crude way by offering to give her what he gave Urmi🤢

Just because she is not aware human rights that doesn't make her dumb.She knows what she wants in life and in her mind she thinks she is doing the duties of beendini.She has seen Harki doing all things that she has been doing.

Why fault her for considering herself as beendini and wanted to be acknowledged as one?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mannu took wrong message because there was no analogy in what Jagya Anandi told him about their and Gauri relationship. Had Anandi-Jagya/ Jagya-Gauri eloped and married just like Mannu-Pooja - it would have strike them that this could also happen to them. J-G story was complete misfit - if G was his current wife - it could still give them msg that choices change when one becomes adult and that choice exercised at adult stage will override choices made during childhood.
Ganga was correct when she was adamant that she does not like Pooja because Pooja is distracting Mannu from his studies - at that time she said like coming board exams. After so much time - there is no talk of board exams or even studies. They are now drumming commitment issues - which Mannu thinks does not fit in their case. It is not necessary that commitment issues will come in every childhood love story. It would have been better if they had told them about horrors of teen pregnancy and what its consequence may be. This would have made even Mannu to think - he is too self assured as of now and too adamant - they changed his character completely.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The message that was conveyed to them was that Jagya and Anandi were very happy despite their child marriage because they came to like each other a lot but after he went to Mumbai and saw the world his preferences changed and he fell for Gauri and hurt Anandi in the bargain.

The moral was - do not take these feelings they have for each other seriously because the feelings that develop in adolescence are a result of attraction which may or may not lost irrespective of their married status.Once they grow up their preferences may change and one or both may suffer because of this irrespective of the fact whether they continue with marriage or break up.

He only listened to the story and ignored the moral which it carried.


The message about marriage in childhood and Kacche umar ki rishte pakke nahin ho sakte was also ignored.
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is indeed funny that living in village society and where bal-vivah is said to be prevalent (though it does not seem so because only one other child bride in village) a 12 years old girl does not know what it is to be beendni. Perhaps we have to assume that her friend also is made to do just household works and suffers beating from mother-in-law and nothing else. In all these years - there were no child birth, no pregnant women etc. in the village. Nimboli is getting to know about relationships and pregnancy for the first time in these 12 years !!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even grownup women find it difficult to handle pregnancy and its symptoms. Especially in the initial months. How come Pooja is so cheerful? No aversion for certain foods, craving for certain foods, morning sickness etc.
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Even grownup women find it difficult to handle pregnancy and its symptoms. Especially in the initial months. How come Pooja is so cheerful? No aversion for certain foods, craving for certain foods, morning sickness etc.


The symptom are not necessary - many women do not have these symptoms of pregnancy. But creative's favorite is imli - as if eating imli is a sure sign of being pregnant.

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