I hate this creep . - Page 2

Originally posted by: malikakas

You know I totally agree with you. 😆

I was so mad when at the police station Bua and Meher fought for Shyam... I started thinking Kuber is completely justified in thinking Meher and her family are gold diggers. I hated Bua for defending Shyam.

But my impression of that scene was that Meher was just stuck in a bad situation. I think she felt obliged to go because it was a fight with her ex-father in law. She just wanted to deflate the situation. The first thing she did was ask Shyam why he went there-- so she wasn't defending him. Even Bua only started fighting when KM insulted the whole family.

But I don't think normally they would defend Shyam. I think Meher would cut Shyam out of her life if it wasn't for her mom. In fact, Bua would rather take Abeer's side than Shyam's -- when Shyam came to throw Abeer out. 😉

But that's why I was am so frustrated with Suman... baap hai tho kya hua, apne bacho ki zindagi bigadne ka haq nahi hai. 😡 How can she just peacefully offer him tea when he just picked a fight with her daughter's ex father in law? Especially since she wants Mehbeer to reconcile? Then he wanted to take that land that Bua had saved for Tunnu😡

I agree that Meher shouldn't let her insecurities with Shyam overrule her relationship with Abeer and to me that definitely played a big hand. But I think that is very normal and its what I love about Meher. She is a normal person, she has insecurities, she has weaknesses, she has an ego. Her insecurities make me love her more because it would've been so hard to risk herself to love. When Abeer said she ran away from love because of her responsibilities, I think that's only half the story. I think she was also afraid of getting hurt. Its a testament to Abeer's love and perseverance that she took that chance with him.❤️

I do think Meher trusted Abeer wholeheartedly when she married him but some circumstance triggered this insecurity. But I like that both Meher and Abeer have things to work on. Like Meher said relationships don't end on one side alone. Both parties have a role to play.

Originally posted by: EasternViolet.

Can't stand the man..He's also made Tullu like him!

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

Malika even I dnt understand how , Suman is offering coffee peacefully , when he is fighting with her Kuber Bhai Sa😆

You know what I just mentioned , ki her insecurities might be reason for divorce and I Am upset , but actually even I know , that it's not possible for anyone after going through so much pain , to invite pain again into their lives , so if Abeer made her feel Insecured , then her insecurities are quite justified . In real it's not possible to be ideal all times.

Even if we wants too m people around us and intervening circumstances will not let us stick.

So even I love Meher personally. The same way I love Abeer too with his faults . He is immature , childish and attention seeker . But all these are coming from a son who longed for his father love and attention and pampering.

Meher should have pampered him in right way and Abeer ki bacha u should have understood her pain earlier itself. Her childhood is a unsure bruise and it affected her marriage life , but his love is cure .

Originally posted by: -Shiiya-

@malika

Yeah I agree, it has to be Suman who takes a step forward. As she's the one who allows him in and makes him feel like he has some kind of importance still in their lives & that's why he interferes in all their matters.

Shyam is an opportunist who's always eyeing on wealth or finding ways to ruin things for people be it for his own kids, he doesn't even respect/love his own wife. Abeer isn't like that so Meher's harshness towards him shouldn't be because of what her fathers like. Though when she says that they don't need useless husbands I do get where she's coming from as she has her own insecurities and fears & after what she's been through so I dont blame her for saying that. If a husband can't respect/support/understand you at most crucial times then your better off without one. Plus most girls want a husband who's loving their father and treats them well but Meher has never had that. So its understandable.