Originally posted by: Gauhar_23
last time you said roshni.goest to temple without informing n she shld be responsible ... Roshni is very much responsible and just like dd... sid's family can also mk him understand dat wht to mk her eat n not.
my dear dd is not at all hypocrite ... bd is mad for rituals...khuranas r tkng it so.lightly...n.nw dd has nly roshni in her life obvious behavior of a mom.
n sid shouldn't be oversmart... better he take care of her at his own house ratherthan.landing to patels.
ku6 b matlab... khair sidni ko.sath rakho bas hai. n roshni deserves all the love so dd's overconcern is even ok for me.
@bold I still hold that view, haven't changed it.. I didn't say it explicitly in the post now since u have asked, saying it explicitly, Roshni too is to be blamed for this entire mess.
Roshni was very much
IRRESPONSIBLE in that situation, more than Sid and his family...It wouldn't have done any harm if she informed Sid or anyone about going to temple They wouldn't have let her go. Atleast taking the phone with her and informing Sid on the way too would have been fine.. She is a grown up married women, not a 5 yr old girl for whom everyone should baby sit🥱 And she too has the responsibility of taking care of the baby, she should eat at proper time and should know what to eat U don't wait for anyone to feed u and take care of u every minute.
And its the 1st day of marriage, everyone in Khurana house has just woken up, they need some time to settle and ask Roshni whether she had breakfast or not?? To make her understand what to eat or drink, they need time, u don't do that the next morning of marriage. Whereas Roshni was with DD all these days, its a mother's responsibilty to give the daughter all info about pregnancy..What is Khurana's taking lightly😆, they are treating her like a normal pregnant women not someone with some serious illness🤢
Going to temple is not a ritual, I have not heard of anyone dying or having miscarriage by going to temple🥱 So, there is no need of making such an issue of such a small thing😕 And no one forced ice cream in her mouth.. She must have had cravings and Sid must have bought her ice cream, both wouldn't have known about ice cream causing problem😕 How is that only Sid's mistake??😲 Isn't both of them responsible??
A good mother is not one who covers up the child's mistake and blame it
ONLY on other people.. This quality made Simran a bad mother and the same makes DD too a bad mother.. DD having only Roshni in her life is not an excuse that works always.. There are several single mothers in this world, who may not even have their family other than the daughter and still who are not this obsessive
And Roshni deserves all the love, I don't have any problem with that all.. But with such sort of an obsessive mother, a daughter will get only mothers love.. The husband would leave due to frustration.. And DD's love can never compensate for Sid's love
Edited by zoopassion - 10 years ago