meher's struggles

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chemgirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

I feel so sorry for meher...constantly at struggle with herself...telling herself to be strong...telling herself to be calm...telling herself not to be scared...not to get distracted...even at college she doesn't get to enjoy her life...give herself titbits of happiness...she shuts herself away from the world...reminding herself of her responsibilities...hiding her fears and insecurities...and years later she is still struggling...she is a ceo and is fulfilling her responsibilities as a daughter and sister...still she is struggling...battling with her own mind and heart...trying not to be affected by abeer's presence...putting up a no nonsense faade...hiding her feelings...trying hard not to break down or lose conr=troll over her feelings...not to make herself vulnerable again...kudos to the cvs for such a strong female lead...and asmita for her awesome portrayal of meher

Abeer must have been a ray of light in meher's life...someone she can confide in...with whom she can be herself...a normal woman with lots of insecurities, weaknesses and fears...she mus have been devastated when he left her...😭

ps:this ismy first post on this site...usually I mjust comment...so plz bear with me

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: chemgirl
I feel so sorry for meher...constantly at struggle with herself...telling herself to be strong...telling herself to be calm...telling herself not to be scared...not to get distracted...even at college she doesn't get to enjoy her life...give herself titbits of happiness...she shuts herself away from the world...reminding herself of her responsibilities...hiding her fears and insecurities...and years later she is still struggling...she is a ceo and is fulfilling her responsibilities as a daughter and sister...still she is struggling...battling with her own mind and heart...trying not to be affected by abeer's presence...putting up a no nonsense faade...hiding her feelings...trying hard not to break down or lose conr=troll over her feelings...not to make herself vulnerable again...kudos to the cvs for such a strong female lead...and asmita for her awesome portrayal of meher

Abeer must have been a ray of light in meher's life...someone she can confide in...with whom she can be herself...a normal woman with lots of insecurities, weaknesses and fears...she mus have been devastated when he left her...😭

ps:this ismy first post on this site...usually I mjust comment...so plz bear with me

I know-- my poor Meher. 😭 The struggle she felt to not fall in love with Abeer. The constant feeling of guilt-- the need to push aside her own needs for her family. But the heart wants what it wants and Abeer became that guy that she became completely vulnerable to. Aghh that precap scene-- she told all her vulnerabilities and insecurities to Abeer... she probably felt so betrayed by him when he left. 😭

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VJDIPA

@VJDIPA

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Posted: 10 years ago

Very well written!!

Keep writing more..

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war_is_peace

@war_is_peace

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Posted: 10 years ago

lovely post 👏

that is even i was thinking..that abeer n his jokes n antics n orotective behaviour must have been like fresh air in meher's life...she must hav really felt too lonely n betrayed 😭

u wrote i perfectly...love it!! ❤️

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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

Great post!

Meher's struggle really brought tears to my eyes today. 😭 She fought, and is still fighting, to be strong for everyone. Even after Abeer left, she could have crumbled, but she mashed down her own devastation for the sake of her family's comfort and progressed so admirably in her career. In that light, Bua's words were harsh and mean, and terrible for poor Meher to listen to but they were a much-needed reminder for Abeer of Meher's hidden vulnerability. In the intensity of his own pain caused by Meher's seeming indifference, he forgot what he once knew best of all, what that facade of indifference protects... her delicate, lonely, and terrified heart.

What Abeer and Meher have in common is that they are still madly in love and utterly incomplete without each other but they are so afraid of exposing their broken hearts to more rejection. The only difference is the way each chooses to protect themselves and hide their love. Meher feigns indifference and complete emotional control through powerful silence, and Abeer uses irreverent humor so that he appears to overshare when in fact he is hiding the most important parts of him.

It was so affecting to see Meher's facade fall today, thanks to Bua's outburst, especially the effect it had on Abeer; for the first time, he saw in her the woman he loved and not the woman who left him. But Abeer's facade is yet to fall which is why Meher was so upset about him reading her diary... he still hasn't shown her that her that the same husband she loved is still buried within him, and that that is who acted on her behalf against Bua's nasty words.

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Shyam

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Posted: 10 years ago

I felt bad for Meher !
She burned her diary

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