All the things he's said and done:

Originally posted by: sandiab

Count my sins but don't forget to count my moment of kindness. Count the moments I hurt u but count the moments I hugged u. Count my taunts but count the moments I stood up for u. Its so sad because I dnt remember a moment when he stood up for her besides last year, was kind to her or hugged her. He has always withheld those things from her and had a look of here we go again suhani making trouble and worrying every1, he has always been contemptuous of her . Where is the Yuvraj who could never see another person cry I remember last year b4 they got married they had a moment when he comforted her when ragmen tore her sari and he told prats he cnt see any1 cry. Now her words, her tears have no effect on him its so sad when u can feel for an outsider bt not 1 u are supposed to love. U know when sharad talks about yuvraj grand feelings I dnt knw who he is talking about coz the yuvraj we see is not in love he is so passionless there is just something missing in his feelings for suhani. I liked suhani's words to him in yesterdays episode how long will your temper and shouts subdue me it was an epic dialogue he has been doing that to her for months. This show, the sort of issues they have shown and raised truly make me wish that we had better writers I think this show could have been epic. Suhani has been mentally and emotionally tortured in that house and they have shown a hero who is so detached, so unlikeable 90% of the time that his transformation should also have been something amazing to watch. This character didn't have the moment of anger and then the moments kindness that showed him he was human. U can defend a flawed human being but u cnt somehow defend a person who has just been shown without humanity and I think that is the thing that has made yuvraj different from other heroes. He actually isn't a hero he is an antagonist. I dnt knw if there yuvraj die hard fans they should remind the rest of us of who yuvraj was and what's special ab yuvani coz at the moment its nothing its just a bad relation of emotional abuse to me that suhani should get out of.

Originally posted by: samcek

After watching Yuvraj's unbelievable behaviour yesterday, I began to wonder if maybe Pratima's condition is contagious? Or perhaps hereditary?

So, I thought we'd make a list of all the times he's insulted/belittled her, and all the offensive/misery inducing/time he couldn't be bothered to take action things he's done.

It helps me remember why (no matter how miserable he looks whilst gazing at the moon) this guy doesn't deserve ANY woman, or (for the optimists), why he has a long long looong way to go before the relationship can be salvaged.

• He married her in exchange for a loan. Like there aren't other banks.
• He pretended to care for her in front of Soumya, giving her false hope.
• He lets his bhabhi's talk down to her without intervening.
• He lets his Dadi call her "ay ladki" without intervening.
• He lets her be insulted by any family member that wants to.
• He yells at her for stupid things.
• He makes fun of her/puts her down over stupid things (i.e. eating street food... W*F?)
• He told her he didn't love her OR wanted to marry her by shouting it at her in front of dadi - and then came up with a pathetic reason to justify it (i.e. "better me than dadi")
• He insulted her in public because he thought she wanted a divorce - even though he's given her no indication that he wants to be anything other than house-mates.
• He started making an effort only after Rohan moved in, and he saw someone else take an interest.

I know there are those of you who ship Yuvani or still like him, and I respect that.

But just think... if he wasn't an attractive man, everyone would recognise his behaviour as abusive. He is both mentally and emotionally abusive towards his wife.

I volunteer for a charity called Homestart, and some of the women we've worked with have left partners/husbands for less and nearly all have had ridiculously low self esteem.

Both emotional and mental abuse are recognised as abuse and are covered by the UK's domestic violence laws.

I would really really REALLY love to see his character recognise his mistakes and make changes to become a better man. Or for Suhani to recognise that (and i'm saying this as a Rohani shipper) she doesn't need a man to make her whole. She should focus on her needs and get some new friends.

Originally posted by: samcek

After watching Yuvraj's unbelievable behaviour yesterday, I began to wonder if maybe Pratima's condition is contagious? Or perhaps hereditary?

So, I thought we'd make a list of all the times he's insulted/belittled her, and all the offensive/misery inducing/time he couldn't be bothered to take action things he's done.

It helps me remember why (no matter how miserable he looks whilst gazing at the moon) this guy doesn't deserve ANY woman, or (for the optimists), why he has a long long looong way to go before the relationship can be salvaged.

• He married her in exchange for a loan. Like there aren't other banks.
• He pretended to care for her in front of Soumya, giving her false hope.
• He lets his bhabhi's talk down to her without intervening.
• He lets his Dadi call her "ay ladki" without intervening.
• He lets her be insulted by any family member that wants to.
• He yells at her for stupid things.
• He makes fun of her/puts her down over stupid things (i.e. eating street food... W*F?)
• He told her he didn't love her OR wanted to marry her by shouting it at her in front of dadi - and then came up with a pathetic reason to justify it (i.e. "better me than dadi")
• He insulted her in public because he thought she wanted a divorce - even though he's given her no indication that he wants to be anything other than house-mates.
• He started making an effort only after Rohan moved in, and he saw someone else take an interest.

I know there are those of you who ship Yuvani or still like him, and I respect that.

But just think... if he wasn't an attractive man, everyone would recognise his behaviour as abusive. He is both mentally and emotionally abusive towards his wife.

I volunteer for a charity called Homestart, and some of the women we've worked with have left partners/husbands for less and nearly all have had ridiculously low self esteem.

Both emotional and mental abuse are recognised as abuse and are covered by the UK's domestic violence laws.

I would really really REALLY love to see his character recognise his mistakes and make changes to become a better man. Or for Suhani to recognise that (and i'm saying this as a Rohani shipper) she doesn't need a man to make her whole. She should focus on her needs and get some new friends.