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Posted: 20 years ago
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if a child is concieved from rape do u think the mother should keep it/terminate/adopt the child?????

in films women who r raped they give their child 4 adoption such as Karz n Zindigi ka safar. but wh@ of in reality should a mother keep her child as it is a gift given by god???? but then again the child is also a constant reminder of the father should a mother live with the reminder or move on???????

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hi Samie, good topic!

Well, here I am talking about myself. I would not give up that child. I mean yes it will be a reminder of the father but you have to thing that it's your child too and you can't just abandon your child.

I mean all the girls can decide for themselves and they have the right. In this matter I don't think that there is anything right or wrong but the decision needs to be taken by the mother of that child.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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There is no right or wrong here . Its the women's decision . Rape is the most terrible of crimes , and anybody who hasn't been there will never know what it feels like . They could make snap judgements and say this is what i would do .......but NO they don't have a damn clue what they will do .....because they can't imagine what rape is and what a rape victim feels like !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You can read and think all about it , but NOWAY do you know what you will do unless you are there !!

So i beleive if the woman feels she must keep her baby ....even though the child will be a constant reminder of something that was result of sooooo much HATE !!!And can give this child a happy and good life . Well then thats brave of her .
But if she can't .....she's not wrong . Its probably a sensible decision !
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Posted: 20 years ago
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it is definately up to thje women
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Posted: 20 years ago
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thanx guys personally i wouldnt know wh@ 2 do but i salute the women who decide 2 raise the child themselves i think they should b recognised more
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Yes I agree that woman should be saluted who will take this respected step!
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Posted: 20 years ago
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It depends on the women what she decides, we should respect her decision. She has to live that life.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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i guess nothing wrong if she wants to give birth to the child....bt she shud make a very bold decision....
coz once she has taken d decision later she shudnt regret wat she did....coz den dere's no use..she'll ruin her as well as the childs's life.....if she thinks she can face d society boldly(coz ppl. will speak n wud make her life miserable)...she shud definitely go for it
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Posted: 20 years ago
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hmmm...
tough question...
Obviously d child has no fault in wat happened...
But if d gal s nt ready for a child n cant take gud care, then d child's future shldnt b put at risk..

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