How many bad comments on Raghav

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually, I do read the posts but at times, i do not comment, I see the views and can understand why those are made.
I know, I asked more screen time for Raghav so i can understand his character, Now that I got that, I will say I understand why raghav is like the way he is.

Yes, His wife works hard, Yes, But when he comes home, HIS mom never says it, she say sarla work hard, I work hard. did she say KOSHALIYA work hard?? the man works daily almost 15-16 hours, How would he really know what is going on at home? he noticed his wife working hard just in this marriage because he was not working, he was at home he could see, n see he cares, he gave her juice to drink, asked her to wear new saree, helped her to open that bottle, he cares for her NO DOUBT in that , he could not take his wife on simple honeymoon that means all he does is work and bring the money, work for 2 families work harder and see that nothing will be less for them, his wife knows this well she cares for him too that's why she is not fighting back (uff she should fight back)

strange na. he works and the money goes to both homes, sarla takes the money from the AMMA THE ATM and the food from KOSHALIYA THE KAMWALI.
if the wife works hard all the day, the husband works hard 15-16 hours, to feed his family and sister family.

its funny, he comes home, all he wants is peace of mind, a break from work, he comes tired, Oh i can see him tired all the day, when he comes home, his mother plays her cards in such a way to make some how his wife and kids be the wrong one, he wants his mother to be happy and scold them for her, his mother knows he loves her and knows his weak points, so... she knows how to talk to him and he does fall into her dirty tricks, WHEN u r innocent and u believe that your mother wants the best for you and your kids / wife, u do fall in it.

In order to give his mother a queen type life, he works hard, so i can see why he miss out what she does, also he is deaf so she is using this against his wife and kids.

Raghav loves his kids, Loves his wife, But .. sadly he is not able to show it to the kids.

hopping that when riya comes in, things will change, raghav will see that his wife has become the slave at home,

u married your sister with some one, let them run their kitchen too.

let's see what happens next.
give him hearing aids, he is not that bad as u really think he is.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No, he is just an ignorant!
He clearly knows everything but he has no choice to shut his mouth he is infact the biggest doormat in the house!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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both husband wife are too much goood people
their people know it that's why they are being used.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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both husband wife are the same, too much good in nature, they will never think that amma / sarla can be mean
may b as i predict it, he is not amma's son, or step son, so letting her do her ways... not sure but it seems that way
amma loves sarla and her kids, she dislike raghav's wife n kids.. does she love raghav I DOUBT, seems he works so she has to do the MASKA POLISH on him, the day he is out of job, she will treat him the same way as others.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well I agree with you up to a point about being out of the house 12-16 hours a day and not seeing what is going on And the last thing a man wants at the end of the day is to hear kit pit of kitchen politics over who did not put enough salt in the food, or what ever..
I love them as a couple. But I think there is somethings in their relationship I don't understand.

. They love each other and can have normal husband wife conversations. She has voiced her displeasure to him more than once. He apologizes when he knows he is wrong. YET the minute Amma threatens her with "Ragua ko bulawo" She starts shaking like she is about to get a death sentence. At first I thought maybe he would hit her or is some sort of tyrant who dose not let her speak...but no she can tell him her mind...so WHAT IS SHE SO AFRAID OF with that empty threat?

The first episode it showed that he understood her, his mother tried to make it look like she wanted more money, but he did not make an issue of it he simply gave her his pocket money. Then his mother started the killing herself drama, and all the drama after that. He asked her one question "Why dose she GIVE his mother the opportunity to do such things?" that question leads me to believe he knows very well his mother is a drama queen. If you notice he dose not take in her drama much but tries to quell it.

He is a MAMA's boy yes, He thinks she is at an age where she should be respected and live a comfortable life. Only problem is his Amma's comfort is in his wife's DIScomfort. Maybe in the initial stages of his marriage he made it clear his mother comes first, and Koushilya accepted that. Hence she dose not complain.

She figured she keeps his mother happy every one is happy, but then the mother is never happy. Throw in Sarla who makes it look like her husband is a good for nothing. That she is living hand - to - mouth so to speak. Raguwa was called on by mother to pick up the slack.

But it came to a point now, Koushilya is being abused and mentally torutured by the old woman and says nothing, and Ohhh Shanti is good she forms her words just perfectly so she never looks like the bad one.

The problem is not Ragav alone, the Problem is also Koushilya by quitely accepting everything.. I would like to see him tested I would like to see her say something or Let him witness for himself what his mother dose and see WHOES side he would take if he WOULD say "AMMA YOU ARE WRONG" But all the opportunities in this wedding for him to see for him self ...he is always out of the house or the busy far away.!

Edited by Vinnie79 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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his wife is to be blamed equally !she never complained to him and he feels that they r a big happy family..he thinks his children are spoilt and irresponsible bec. his mother poisons him against them ..he also believes that his wife can be this scheming types...that she wants to rule the house, that she doesnt like sarla this that..why couldnt he understand why the saaree bought by Shivam was so special for Kaushalya ?? Why couldnt he understand that his wive's emotions were attached to the necklace and morally and legally, he had no right to mortgage it or give it away to save HIS family izzat...the necklace belonged to Kaushalya's mom n it was her gift...tomorrow will he give Riya's gold to Sarla to save their izzat? of course !


i dun think working for 15 hrs , away frm the house serves as a reason to act ignorant...Did he ask Shivam why he hid the news of his job frm his family? why punish him n take away his most prized posession? in today's times, a 2 yr old child refuses to give his things to anyone and he gives Shivam's room to Amit without asking him ir bothering abt his feelings 😕


where is the love and whats the point of this love? their love is physical? thats why its all the more irritating bec. this is not the age ! they r 2 mature adults..tomorrow if riya and shivam act like this, it'll be justified...at their age, we expect maturity, companionship and understanding between a couple if they love each other..i guess the makers must justify their actions

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Cahru.!!!
Yes it seems he dose Show his kids the appreciation, but that too is Shanti's doing . We saw that clearly with Nimmi and the clothes. He was praising her and he he did notice the look of hurt on her face when his mother made her comments about her having help. He placed his hand on her shoulder and still told her good work.

Initially also he asked Shivam to sit and talk to him , have a cup of tea at the train station. From the frist episode the mother wanted that bike out of the house , a bike that belonged to Ragav. as you said she keeps telling him Koushilya wants to rule , and he felt somewhere there she knew about Shivam's job and hid it to. Of course Mummy was going to die of Shame and sell her jewelly to payback for things she bought...hahahah so the bike was the option ans he fell for it!!!

He loves his kids but they feel akward around him because of the grand mother. She made it look like all Shivam dose all day is go out and play...that Nimmi is good for nothing. The look of pure hatred and shock on her face when he was praising Nimmi was disgusting for an old woman ...and at that point I felt He really can't be her son, if she has a problem with that!

As for the romance...I am enjoying it, love is age less and why should he not flit with his wife.They don't flaunt it it is quite and private like it should be!

Looking forward for Shivam's and Riya's romance
Edited by Vinnie79 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If a man cant stand up for his wife and children, then what is the point in showing that he care for them. Its not ignorance, it is negligence. He is selfish, he just want peace for himself and not wish to make at least his children happy.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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vinnie already spoke my heart so ill add, the romance has nothing to do with age, i saw 70-80 yrs old couple who keep romance and flirt
who said that being in age 45-50 u should stop loving your wife or flirting with her well people do cheat at this age, i saw many like that, so better he flirt with her and not with some one else. So love has nothing to do with age.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mamathamukundan

If a man cant stand up for his wife and children, then what is the point in showing that he care for them. Its not ignorance, it is negligence. He is selfish, he just want peace for himself and not wish to make at least his children happy.



he does care for them, he does not show it much but he does .!

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