Let imperfections stay imperfections please?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay, so a lot of us (me included) complain a lot about Akshara's perfection. She is wrong and is flawed as a mother, that's probably where her imperfection lies.. Fine.
Beauty lies in imperfection is what I believe in as a saintly akshara was just an eye soar. I'm liking how her emotions are taking over her when it comes to her son, so he's her weakness (good to know she has one) Naksh is taking advantage of that isn't he?
The only problem with the whole thing is even after showing this imperfection the creatives have a very high tendency to turn her imperfections into perfections.
For instance after her abortion akshara had a breakdown where she felt like she wasn't doing anything right and everyone was disturbed because of her rather than making her accept her situation and explain to her that it's okay to be imperfect to sometimes breakdown, to feel weak, it's completely normal and okay they just started singing and cheering her up and woosh all they needed to do was sing a song to fix an emotional turmoil happening within her. (Haha)
Just predicting; Here too in this situation Naksh will get his way surprise naitik, naitik might be happy and apologise.. Akshara could be saying some clich dialogues about her son to naitik & that's how they'll ruin a good track where they could've shown that love doesn't always win, sometimes you need to knock common sense in your children if they're thinking of doing unreasonable things.

Also naitik is such a great husband I so loved how he mellowed down to Akshara's requests and also how he wasn't that angry at akshara because he knows his wife well enough to know that she didn't mean any harm and she acts out of love! I really loved how he went out of his way (even though he didn't want to and even after he heard Naksh insult him on the phone) he stood there and is gonna take him back in Monday's episode.

Also Since i was disappointed in akshara, I don't think whatever Naksh is doing is ONLY her fault, when you live In a joint family everyone's reactions and opinions matter. If only bhabi maa could get over her "lalla lalla" Chant, they used to do the same with Naitik.

I really want the creatives to makeup their mind about what they want to do with akshara's character, make her imperfections what they are don't hide them and make it seem like she's a perfect character when she's not. I swear I'll love her more if they do that. They've ruined her character enough since Gayatri's death I don't think I can tolerate more of the Akshara saint.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is just what I feel. Creatives have tendency to show akshara s imperfections to become perfections which is wrong and that is ruining her character.
That's why Naitik is more real character because the imperfections are well shown.
I agree with this post. Bang on!!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You are right. There is too much "La La" chant going on in the Singhania home and Naksh is put on a pedestal meeting his every whim. In regards to Akshara she has made him a "mumma's boy" and I don't mean that in a good way. "Don't say anything about my Duggu." It is ok to love your son but not let him do whatever he wants. I'm glad Maheshwari's got to hear how Duggu speaks about his father. So they know it is in some part Duggu's misbehavior causing problems.
Singhania's call him "bacha" but he says he's not a kid anymore but grownup. He sure doesn't act grown up.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yup, the CVs should let Akshara's imperfections be her imperfections and not turn her into a saint. However, this is not to say that she is completely at fault in this situation.

Naiti must reale that forcing somebody to be responsible will not solve anything. The only way in which Naksh can become responsible is to learn from his own mistakes. He should try to explain Naksh, and not tell him to get out of the house. Yes, to all the parents who felt that Naksh needs a slap, I do not agree with that whole idea. No one can force another person to do what they want. It is just going to create more resentment.

Akshara is also imperfect in trying to encourage this idea of Naksh's to create his own restaurant The boy does not know how to cook, has no experience in the industry, has not studied business or hospitality, and most of all he cannot balance his own time.
She can jsut tell him to gain some educaiton and experience. Maybe, she should advice him to do a course in hospitality, hotel management, or business. And, maybe he can do a part-time job or internship with the Maheshwaris until his graduation.

The Singhayiyas are also at fault, because they pamper him too much. All of his whims are catered to. He has now grown up and is an adult, but he is still treated like a kid.

I hope they adress all the issues, and not jsut put the blame on somebody. Not all Naksh, but all of people in the SS household need to mature in thier own ways.

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