swara should be more responsible towards laksh..

engagement...one of those evergreen memories which is cherished for life long..and specially when it is with none other than the love of ur life..same case with laksh...he was on cloud nine...but he was soon brought back yo land by swara...his lifelong memory is destroyed...his happiness and excitement was shattered...
swara was so uninterested...or rather she looked..her sll concentration was on ragini...ok i accept her loving her sister more...its natural..but there are times when u have to change ur priorities according to the situation...this was the one...engagement is a time when ur topmost attention should be ur fiancee..specially when u r changing rings...but swara...no...she spoiled laksh's moment...she wasn't interested actually and I feel she is doing all this more fir getting the culprit out rather than out if love for laksh...winning over the culprit...please note i do not deny her love for laksh...
swara need to be more responsible towards laksh...the guy loves her do much... and he is so genuine...even his family gave up their rules for her...but she is behaving so rude..does changing rings only fulfills ur responsibility?...OK swara is worried for ragini...then y u accepted the marriage proposal when u were not ready to give ur 100 to it...if u wanted to stick to ragini then y didn't just called off the proposal(don't tell me she can't under those circumstances..not justified for a girl Like her)...how can she feel just doing the rituals are enough...laksh is going to be her life partner...parents siblings are most important...but at one or the other turn of life ,the one u will be ending up with is ur life partner...he is ur topmost priority...swara never cares for laksh's love for her...it is always overshadowed in ragini's name...
ET are shouting out aloud for swara going sacrificial..in that case too , who the hell gave her the right to play with laksh's feelings?..if she want ragini ragini then she have the right to call off the relation but not making efforts to trap laksh with someone...she and rags are same then...manipulating others for the way they want things...just their way of achieving it is different..
man I feel developing a slow irritation towards swara...and I hope things settle before it changes to dislike and then hatred..RS did same with rashi...and also roli...rashi initially never reciprocated jigar's love and roli keeps doing things behind sid's back...she always plays with my fav's..
and swara m totally disappointed with u...

excellent post! agree with every word of yours 👏

Every one should learn how to balance relationships, especially after marriage. It's wrong to concentrate on one particular relationship so much so that you unknowingly turn oblivious to other relationship, whether it's your relationship with parents or husband. If you are unable to give equal attention to your husband after marriage, then it's unfair to the husband. He has taken the wedding vows with you in the hope that you will be with him both in happiness and sadness. And if you ignore your parents or siblings bcoz you are so preoccupied with the happiness of your husband and in - laws, then it's wrong bcoz your parents have made innumerable sacrifices for your sake and your sibling is a part of your self. and you have no right to hurt them. In Swara's case, I think it's not that she doesn't love or care about Laksh but she takes him for granted. She thinks that Laksh will understand her concern for Ragini and will be ok with it. But what she fails to understand that she has never been expressive about her love for Laksh. I mean, has she even said ILU to Laksh at least once. No. She expects Laksh to understand her feelings when she doesn't bother to demonstrate it directly or indirectly. She doesn't realize that she's asking too much from him. What I'm trying to say is she thinks Laksh knows how much she loves him but fails to make him feel the intensity of her love.

Originally posted by: princessaaliya

excellent post! agree with every word of yours👏

this is why i could never like swara nor identify with her so-called "love" for laksh..

m on same boat as u now

@swarya
I agree dear
I did mentioned in my post clearly that i don't mean swara to get over of her family...also i clearly mentioned i do not deny of her love for laksh..
but u know na after marriage u can't keep itself occupied with ur family whole time
one needs to denote much time to her in laws and husband...u have to live with them...
no change can be brought out suddenly...
any normal girl have phone talks with her fiancee before marriage to increase the comfort level...also her attention is on her fiancee during rituals but that doesn't mean she is no more giving importance to family...but swara is too weird...not ready to connect with laksh...she dont expect ragini to understand her but laksh to understand her rudeness too...she is always after ragini till now...
going practical...many a times women in india...they get so occupied with their in laws that they cannot give attention to their family...but it doesn't mean they are over with them or no more care of their importance...

Roopal I didn't mean to contradict you. Sorry if you felt that way😭. I absolutely understood your point.You're right. Swara should have treated Laksh better. Like i said at the end of my article swara thinks that Laksh already knows she loves him very much. But she doesn't do anything to make him feel that love. That's her mistake. I understand her concern for Ragini. She should be bcoz she still doesn't know the truth yet. But, she doesn't share it with Laksh. If she shares her thoughts with him, he would understand her better. I like Swara but I cannot help notice that she wants to do everything all by herself. She thinks she can solve everything herself. I am surprised she did not even ask Laksh's consent before preponing her marriage. I am scared that she's going to land in trouble ob her wedding day by trying to chase Sanskaar alone

@swarya
crying smiley
pushpa..I hate tears re..
I absolutely didn't took u in any wrong way yar..y sorry...chillax...
but as per spoilers its the second thing now
who the hell allowed her to play with laksh like that?(angry)