nandini is still the same - Page 3

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved

Totally agree with u.

Nandini!!!! Who is Nandini? What is Nandini? Is she strong because she punched a guy? or is she vulnerable because she let her tears flow even when she firmly said "Mai tumse nahi darti"? Is she Innocent because she trusts people easily? or is she dumb? or all these words changes its meaning according to our convenience??

Is it

weakness to share?

or is it a weakness to care?

weakness to let others

see how you fare?

Surely strength

plays a part, in a pure

loving heart

sharing, caring,

giving,

'tis a positive start...'

What exactly do we want Nandini to be? Do we want her to be Manipulative or do we want her to be the Innocent yet strong Nandini who Manik fell in love with??? Or do we expect her to change her beliefs, actions depending on the person she is dealing with? If she wants to change her behaviour towards the person depending on who she's dealing with, then she has to trust her judgements.. Then if u think about it, her judgement were wrong too.. whom should she ask to know who actually is really good/bad.. If she is asking some1 then doesn't she have to believe that one person at the first place? How is she suppose to recognise her northern star?

One would say Manik has the better sense of good and bad and she should be dependent on him. would it not take away her individuality? Her own character traits? The very own qualities Manik fell in love with?

Had she not followed her instincts at the first place would she ever have believed in Manik to start with?

"Iss bar maine kar diya Manik,I don't know how!!! once u wake up na, I will go back to the way I was before. Just the way u liked" That is Nandini for me. Nandini who is a believer. Nandini who is not judgemental. Nandini who is compassionate. Nandini who gave the second chance. Along with all these, the Nandini who would try to protect her loved once without even blinking or thinking twice.

She gave second chance to every1. She gave the second chance to Manik, she gave second chance to Alya, Mukti, Druv, Pandit, and Aryamann too.. Forget about Manik, she loves him. Just think what if Nandini had turned against Fab4 for all the wrong things they did to her and started plotting against them?

She gave hope to Manik regarding dhruv. She constantly encouraged him to work on their friendship. If it wasn't for Nandini's forgiving nature Manik's life would have been incomplete today. Its because she decided to forgive dhruv, Manik has both his buddy and love of his life with him.

Even when Alya sent goons for her and humiliated her, she thought about Fab5 and their friendship.

She didn't think twice before helping Mukti, who talked nothing but bad things about her.

people praise her when she forgets the wrong doings of Manik+his friends and forgive them.. But the moment she does the same with others Its a grave mistake and she is foolish,, Nandini is still the same.. She is the same Nandini who punched Manik. She is the same Nandini who woke up and thought about sending Pandit behind the bars after the dreadful night. She is the same Nandini who stood Infront of the press with her head held high and said "it's not me who need to hide".

The Manik Nandini saw in the beginning was Monster. Manik who bullied people, Manik who tricked her, who blackmailed her, who made her life living hell.. yet we all loved and rooted for her when she decided to show him the light, when she promised to shine for him..when she tore the Monster mask.. Didn't we? Did ever this question cross ur mind? what if Manik was really a bad guy? what if he did something similar to what Pandit did when he kidnapped her? We knew Manik was ML and he eventually gonna change, but Nandini Dint. For her he was just another random person back then.. Nandini was Innocent then and now.. she will remain so forever.

She chose to believe in good side of him and found her true love.. and we all love their love.. but the moment Nandini decides to give a chance to Pandit, she decides to give a chance to Aryamann She becomes dumb in our view!!?

What would an optimist do in such situation??? Does Nandini become dumb if she decides to see the positive side? or r we expecting her to be pessimistic?? Or all the original character traits of Nandini will be admired only when it's played against Manik?

Let's consider the scenario, where Manik was searching desperately for Nandini when Soha Kidnapped her.. He asks soha abt her whereabouts and she asks him to say "I love u" and he says it believing her words, In a hope that she could help, even after knowing that she attempted to murder Nandini twice.. Does that make him dumb or stupid? Absolutely No.. that's how one reacts given the situation..

What could have Nandini done in this situation? Talk with Fab4 rt? what next then? planning and plotting? What planning? What exactly does she have against him as proof? How long was she suppose keep him locked up in that room? Fab5, especially Manik is handling with Harshad for years now? Was he successful in defusing him completely? Does that make him dumb?? Foolish??

They might plan something and it might work for once, or maybe twice, what about the third attempt Aryamann gonna make??? If she/they have to get something against him to send him away forever she needs to buy some time for that, Isn't it? But when it comes to Nandini people lack pateince.

The security guards allowed her to meet Manik seeing her pure innocent love. She managed to enter in their good books.. Her innocence and honest efforts won against manipulative Nyonika.

She stayed back even when Manik said he hated her. Decided to look past all negativity and decided to uncover his best side.

But ppl easily overlook all these things. why?? they want to bash Nandini.

P.S: I wrote this post 3 days back.. then decided not to post it as I realised the reason why ppl bash Nandini.. actually there are 2 type of people who always bash Nandini

1. Who over analyse every situation and paranoid about MaNan seperation.. Nandini always becomes the scapegoat in the way of their anxiety attacks.

2. Second category ppl hate the actor playing Nandini.. doesn't know the difference between reel and real.. so whatever she does it's wrong according to them.