Why to bother about Mannu, anandi?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Pooja has a beautiful smiling face.

But when she cries, she looks unconvincing.

I think Sarita slapped her thrice.

Ganga thinks she owns Jaitsar and also SN. She wants to throw them out of SN and also Jaitsar. Will she send goondas?

Thank god, Jagya is not joining her in this.

Anandi and Ganga barge into each others domain's without announcement.

Why Anandi should be bothered about Mannu? Whether he stays in Mumbai or Delhi, why should she interfere? She is surely pushing her leg here.

And Jagya and dadisa agree with what anandi says.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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when did Jagya say i agree with what Anandi says ? did he say that i agree with Anandi ? I believe it was his point from the start mannu should not go in this condition to Mumbai so why once again to glorify Anandi misleading people🥱
and ganga she did not mean that She said that in anger only
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Read the spoilers just now.

So Pooja and Mannu run away. Just like Kamli and Gopal.

They would not have run away if too many restrictions were not placed before them.

They would have remained friends.

Their running away is prompted by the elders themselves.

They can be brought back as they are minors and a case can be filed against Mannu for enticing Pooja.

Or a case can be filed against anandi for encouraging them to run away. Because anandi is responsible for Pooja.

Sarita will be ashamed.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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There is a possibility that parents may take away their girls from SN.

And its license maybe revoked.

And anandi may be booked. And TV people will be swarming.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Both the kids eloped and it was their own decision.Neither Sarita Anandi nor Jagya Ganga were responsible for this,they tried their best but the kids didn't understand.

When the boy and girl love each other then its obvious that now they are hugging and some day they might cross the line due to their immaturity.Any sensible person knows you can't hug like that beside a road,not atleast in a village.As elders all the responsibilities were on Jagya,Ganga,Dadisa,Sarita,Anandi.One tried being strict and another tried with love but if still they are eloping then its completely their own deed.Both of them decided to learn it the hard way.Sensible kids know its not the age to get married.Even if you have no interest in studying even then marraige is not the option for them.

Mannu Pooja can't stay away from each other doesn't mean parents will not do anything and allow them to do whatever they want.Parents are bound to fulfill their responsibilities one because they are parents, two because both the girl-boy are kids.

Pooja knew she was saved from child marriage and on top of that she knew Anandi's daughter was sacrificed in the whole incident,yet she decided to get married at 15!Very well done.

And about Mannu I will have to say he is not behaving less than a clown.Now don't tell me when an adopted son gets to know that he is adopted,he rejects all the family members,he decides his lady love is everything for him,that much I can understand but a 15 years old deciding to get married to another 15 years old is just plain stupidity.

You are destroying your life with your own hands because you think you have no family but you don't have any right to take such a huge risk with a girl's life.How can he just like that ask Pooja to come with him.Either he asked her to prove her love for him and she had to give up or he said he is leaving Jaitser and she said I can't leave without you so take me also. In both the case they are idiots.Sad to see for Pooja,her Mom has no importance in her life!She left her MOM all alone when there was an option for them to get married when they would be adults.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mannu is hurt, he's allegedly angry because his parents hid the truth from him. But the way he behaves it doesn't seem that he's actually interested in the truth. He do not believe his parents, he rejects them,including Abhi who absolutely has nothing to do with all this , now the only person who exists in his life is Pooja. But what about Bimla ?Has he forgotten her?Doesn't he considered her as his family, doesn't he think that she could give him some answers, to tell him about his beloved father? Heis not at all curious to find out a little more about his biological father? According to him Singhs are telling him lies and nothing but lies, so why not ask Bimla ? Its really strange, he 's proud to be Ratan Sings's son, he is desperate and angry and bitter because he did not live with them, his real family yet he has no questions for the only person who can speak about his father, who he was, what kind of person he was, what did he like... Mannu is not eager to hear some stories about his father ? Mannu claims that he was snatched away from his father, now he has the opportunity to live with his grandmother, no? But it seems Mannu makes this whole drama for only one reason, to be free to be with Pooja.

And about Anandi. Yes , she's pushing her leg again. She doesn't spend time with her own son, she is not in a search of her daughter, her son Amol lives with his bio parents, so no one can say she's the best mother in the world who does everything perfectly well. Yet she behaves as she is the only one who knows how to deal with children. She makes Sarita too to look as a person who doesnt know how to deal with her own daughter, she run to BH to give them her advices, she's everywhere. Not so long ago she left BH under the pretext she has to move out so Ganga's words can have more weightiness than hers. Today she has barely entered the house but has already begun to give her advice to what should be done, totaly contrary to the Ganga's opinion. No parent is perfect, there are no books how to be good parent, people do make mistakes when it comes to their own children but with the best intentions to protect their kids , they can asked for advices too but dont take them away the right to make their own decision. Did anyone ask Anandi's advice or she comes uninvited to impose her opinion as the best? This is really too much or like Jagya said enough is enough.
And she was happily smiling when Dadisa agreed. Was she happy because her thinking was better than Ganga's? Yesterday, Jagya cut her off , today he ignored her , asked Dadisa for opinion , but she was smiling . Why ? If she wins at something? And why she is so much involved in Mannu's matter now , when she gave promise to Ratan she didn't even think of Mannu and his feelings.
Edited by Stephi - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't really want to see Anandi involved in all these BH affairs🥱🤢
She may have said the right things and been the voice of reason but still don't want to see her spend her life bothering herself with BH problems
If thye only wanted this for Anandi they should not have gotten her married to Shiv or given her children. They could have very well made her a nanny to Jagya's family
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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There are two reasons for anandi to bother about mannu.

One is as a humanitarian empathising with the one who is undergoing trauma.

Another is as a social worker who can deal with someone with detachment.

Anandi is not there to impress Jagya and marry him in case. She does not care whether Jagya is impressed or not. She is just doing something which she thinks is right. Jagya and Ganga are selfish people in essence and thats why they are unable to see Mannu's problem as nothing but disciplining him. Add to that, Ganga has developed queen size ego who thinks she is queen of Jaitsar. And she is proving that a goonda's wife will remain a goonda's wife giving dhamkis. Sarita should have slapped her also.

Anandi just cant keep quiet as it involves Pooja too.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well if this is seen from social worker Anandi's persepective I guess she is right in standing up for Mannu also for Pooja and Sarita who are being bullied by Ganga.
Standing up for Pooja and Sarita is more important then lending support to Mannu.

Ganga may not know what she is doing but there is Dsa and J to see that Mannu gets help.They both are on the right path even though they goofed up in Ratan issue.

About Mannu - Pooja - At least J knows that Mannu should be controlled on this unlike his wife.

So Anandi should leave Mannu to his family


Don't understand with what right Ganga was ordering around Pooja and her mother. Acting as if she owns SN and Jaitser.

Somebody should tell her that Singh family became what it is by putting a lot of their energy and efforts for the betterment of that place and for the benefit of the people of Jaitser.
It was all thanks to Anandi's initiative and her struggles that a school for girls came into existence where she studied.
It is all thanks to Basant and Dsa's efforts a hospital had come into existence in Jaitser.A hospital where her husband once refused to work. The very same hospital which is in ruins was revived by Anandi and Lal Singh's initiative.

Even her progress in life is all thanks to Singhs commitment to social work. More importatntly the changed DSa who helped Ganga was actually Anandi's gift to people of Jaitser and Ganga is the beneficiary of that benovalence and Dsa's wisdom which came at the expense of Anandi Gauri and Gehna's ruined lives and Anandi's efforts to make her see the light.

Somebody who is nothing but a beneficiary of Singhs and Anandi's social work is now bullying people who are under Anandi's care and her protective umbrella.
High time Anandi told Ganga to stay away from Pooja and Sarita.


Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi involved herself in Mannu's affairs with the same sense of duty/ right from which she prevented Mannu from wondering in night alone on the streets of Jaitser when he ran first from the house after learning his father's truth.
She was clearly asked by someone from BH to come there y/day when J confronted Mannu so naturally she would come next day also to inquire current development on Mannu's problem and for providing whatever help she can manage .

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I am surprised to see Ganga's transformation with acquiring education and power that too because of mercy of someone.

How can she bully Sarita? She is in the same boat as Ganga. Both's children are not listening their words and indulging in relationship both mothers do not approve, then how can she behave in that way with other mother who is very humble and well behaved?

If G can blame Pooja for trapping Mannu then Sarita can also blame Mannu for trapping Pooja and even can lodge a complain against Mannu and his family for misleading her daughter. And in that case law will always deal with boy and his family more strictly and can even arrest them.

If Ganga is unable to control her son so is Sarita to control her daughter though Ganga herself has support of her whole family while Sarita is a single mother dealing alone with problem of her erring child. But instead of making Sarita a party with her to make a plan to check their children jointly in more effective way she is threatening her to make her leave SN and Jaitser non of which she owns incidentally.

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