thnks for these wonderful replies, but i want to share my views
SWARYA :- agreed this couple has most of the qualities of a gud couple but one drawback is swara's dominating nature , now some will say laksh's impulsiveness can only be controlled by domination or laksh likes to be dominated by swara etc but when they will get married this domination will become a big problem in their relation as men had a very big ego , but that is different issue .does swara want this relation ? the answer is no & trust me it is not because of ragini, bcoz swara is angry on him coz of ragini this is one reason but the other reason he mistunderstood their frndship, if 2 people share everything in common & had a gud bonding doesnot mean they should end up together , i can give u eg also that too from tellywood ishita - mani frndship from yhm, the 2 share every thing in common , have a great bonding & comfort level&mani even loves ishita from childhood but ishita never felt the same even raman misunderstood their frndship.one of the reason of laksh falling 4 swara is , she mostly fits in the image of his dream girl which he recently admitted to his mother also, is not that why a person not get his life partner acc to his wish , life is not that simple, out of the blue few people r lucky enough u get exactly what they want in life as life is not fair 4 all. swarya r perfect for each other but life does plays it game. swara clearly dont have feeling 4 laksh , by seeing recent episodes any dump person can also tell that . no offence to swarya fans if they end up in the serial fair enough.
SANGINI /SWASAN :- personally i feel sanskaar guy is not fit 4 both girls , his anger is justified toward laksh & dp but why is involving the 2 girls is not understandable. some says sanskaar brings out best of ragini which laksh doesnot , how to face a situation depends on the person & its circumstances as every person in strong itself & ragini dont need any person to bring that strongness out of her , her stronger part does come out when needed the most. if ragini tries to be smart with sanskaar he will not only crush her in minutes but who knows does something 2 ragini which is beyond repair coz still ragini is simple , gentle & subtle person where other side swara is a very strong personality & strong willed . one thing i find in common b/w swara & sanskaar that both get to about the situation only by seeing the person expressions swara by seeing dadi's expression was sure something is wrong as sanskaar doesnot believed thar shomi fainting was real. sanskaar can never crush swara or swara can never dominate sanskaar. lets not talk about them,but i personally believe that swara can control this rebellious sanskaar , coz i dont think ragini will give him a chance after knowing that he was fooling & using her , laksh case is different coz ragini believe to be in luv with laksh.
RAGYA :- a couple who dont share anything in common . yes why should a girl marry aperson who luvs her sister , but ragini likes laksh befor he fall 4 for swara hope i am not wrong.
as this serial focus on 3 houses only , can anyone tell me if swara doesnot fall 4 laksh or by chance marries sanskaar , will laksh take sanyas , goes to himalaya no na. everyone need a companionship more than luv. agreed ragini dont know about lucky but laksh also dont know about ragini yet agreed he had seen her gudness , her strenght etc but doesnot know her as a person & vice versa .this is bcoz of no proper interaction b/w them , they never spend a quality time with each other. & from the very beginning laksh always tries finds a way to end this relation.
ragini is traditional girl , shy , introvert but that doesnot mean that she is like gao ki gori types. there is a popular saying that never judge a book from its cover. during first engagement only laksh decided ragini is not his type & had many beliefs regarding her before in his mind before having any proper interaction with her. if ragya give a start with mutual consert the relation is will not be a flop or failure . there is also a saying that never give place to person who is capable to break ur heart but give place to the person who is capable to ease ur pain.. this implies both on laksh & ragini.
ragini really like laksh & will not stop luving him despite knowing he luvs her sister swara , if they ends up together they both can manage each other well & laksh dont have to be dominant to ragini. ragya has frndship b/w them with can be explore later & ragini dont have to be modern 4 laksh, coz they can except each other with their flaws, their is growth of development in both the characters as laksh can show ragini the beauty of life & ragini can make laksh more sincere toward his relations . i know most of u will disagree with it but is it can happen & ragini can be proven a better partner to laksh as laksh will not be waiting for swara his whole life .
i can relate with this couple bcoz my marriage was a arrange marriage & due to family custome i was not allowed to have a communication with my husband , initially ii used feel suffocated in my marriage & felt like divorcing my husband coz 60% my husband & i r opposite 2 each other but much later i understood that my husband is not that bad choice just we have to give a genuine try to make relation work & it will be sucess , today i happily married to the person since 6 yrs with whom i thought to divorce him.
so if ragya happens in some circumstances then laksh only had to give a genuine try to their relation & it will definately be a sucess coz till know he had not given any try to this relation.
these r only my views nothing offensive toward anyone.
Edited by kasakthegreat - 10 years ago