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Posted: 9 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

Absolutely!

but she won't ask her husband cause she knows why he does it... and he would in turn ask her what happened to her all of a sudden... and he would say - Ganga you were sweet when you were a refugee only... you changed after becoming my wife! Or... wait...! Were you acting then, only to please me???

and then she wouldn't know what to say... so she sits and taunts anandi indirectly cause she knows anandi won't be able to stay fine when people fight about her.
 

Alchemist you are hilarious.🤣

Its a fact that she wants anandi to be out under any circumstances but she is playing a safe game like acting a victim.

Now she has a problem with jagya listening to anandi? But how can she forget that she is jagya's wife only because of anandi? Jagya did not want to marry again but he listened when anandi convinced him. There is nothing new about jagya listening to anandi.

She has also forgotten how anandi supported jagya when sanchi took him to court, and there are so many other instances when anandi supported her and helped her. At that time, she was more than happy to receive her help.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ganga would probably have been happy to have Anandi around to help in looking after her kids and the house while she spent time studying to be Doctor. After all Abhi was just a year or so old when Anandi moved in. Imagine DadiSa looking after the house, 2 kids, business, while Jagya is busy with 2 professions and Ganga is studying to be a doctor.

At that time it was a win-win situation.

By the time she finished and could think of taking back control of the house, life in BH had settled into a routine. Anandi was helping out in the house. All kids were comfortable with her. 

Ganga's mind became free to look around, see what is happening. 

In her zeal to become a professional Ganga had allowed the reins to slip, and to get them back completely would be a difficult or even impossible task.

A professional on an equal footing, she was no longer happy with Anandi's influence on the house, husband, her kids. In frustration, instead of tackling her insecurities head-on, tired of comparisons, she threw that bomb shell on Jagya.

And the rest is history in the making...⭐️
Edited by RTee - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: RTee

Ganga would probably have been happy to have Anandi around to help in looking after her kids and the house while she spent time studying to be Doctor. After all Abhi was just a year or so old when Anandi moved in. Imagine DadiSa looking after the house, 2 kids, business, while Jagya is busy with 2 professions and Ganga is studying to be a doctor.

At that time it was a win-win situation.

By the time she finished and could think of taking back control of the house, life in BH had settled into a routine. Anandi was helping out in the house. All kids were comfortable with her. 

Ganga's mind became free to look around, see what is happening. 

In her zeal to become a professional Ganga had allowed the reins to slip, and to get them back completely would be a difficult or even impossible task.

A professional on an equal footing, she was no longer happy with Anandi's influence on the house, husband, her kids. In frustration, instead of tackling her insecurities head-on, tired of comparisons, she threw that bomb shell on Jagya.

And the rest is history in the making...⭐️


Totally missed this point! Thanks for the reminder😃

Yeah how was Ganga managing her toddler Mannu and baby Abhi while she studied? Anandi obviously was the baby sitter ...another reason for Jagya and DS to  respect her which they are doing now!  This is sheer use and throw kind f mentality that Ganga is showing up.  Apart from all the favors she got from Anandi since the date she entered BH, she had this favour too...and now she can't tolerate people giving importance to Anandi. Ganga can't have the cake and eat it too. Ouch! did I read this proverb recently somewhere?😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: Shinya

Alchemist you are hilarious.🤣

Its a fact that she wants anandi to be out under any circumstances but she is playing a safe game like acting a victim.

Now she has a problem with jagya listening to anandi? But how can she forget that she is jagya's wife only because of anandi? Jagya did not want to marry again but he listened when anandi convinced him. There is nothing new about jagya listening to anandi.

She has also forgotten how anandi supported jagya when sanchi took him to court, and there are so many other instances when anandi supported her and helped her. At that time, she was more than happy to receive her help.




And the funny thing is she (who was a stranger/refugee in BH at that time), advised DS that Sanchi is not suitable for Jagya.  Now it looks like she ain't suitable either? She'd have found all these comparisons cool (like earlier) if she is suitable for him! Didn't she know it was mandatory for J's wife to adjust with that? Poor guy selected a maid figure and married thinking she'll continue being that sweet forever. But looks like the ex maid is showing her true colors after getting all what she wanted. 
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Posted: 9 years ago
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would like to ask...IF Jagya somehow understand (or made to understand) that its the constant comparison and less-weightage that is Irking Ganga, thus he starts avoiding doing these things (atleast in front of her) ...Will it end Ganga's issues OR  her indirect comments will go on under the pretext of work-Shivam-abhi etc.?? 
As her another issues are Jagya's changed behavior towards her ( as now he doesnt wish her luck before surgeries) and Jagya's attitude Shivam & abhi.

So who's actions are real problem here??😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aashima.

would like to ask...IF Jagya somehow understand (or made to understand) that its the constant comparison and less-weightage that is Irking Ganga, thus he starts avoiding doing these things (atleast in front of her) ...Will it end Ganga's issues OR  her indirect comments will go on under the pretext of work-Shivam-abhi etc.?? 

As her another issues are Jagya's changed behavior towards her ( as now he doesnt wish her luck before surgeries) and Jagya's attitude Shivam & abhi.

So who's actions are real problem here??😕


Her problem will end when :

1. Jagya stops comparing her with Anandi( only on negative points) and stops giving more attention to Anandi and also sends Anandi out of BH. 
2. Shivam becomes a loser like Abhi and when everyone starts dissing him for his whiny behaviour.
3. Jagya assures her every night before sleeping and every morning after waking up that she's the apple of his eye...and that he lives only for her and would die for her. Not to forget---open the door everytime she gets out of the car. Wonder what her expectations would be if she was always a princess? 

On a serious note. The problem is not Anandi or J or Shivam. It is Ganga's attitude. She is taking Abhi down with her. Sad Abhi is going to lose a lot with a mentality like that and a mother like this who encourages that attitude. Mannu too will get the shock of his life that ratan is his dad , most probably at the wrong time. And he would be crushed. I pity him. 
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly anandi moving out will only help anandi and her son. At least the poor boy will be able to celebrate his success without having anyone to make him feel guilty for his achievements.

Anandi can lead a more peaceful life without having anyone visit her room while she is sleeping. How primitive and indecent to enter someone's bedroom while they are asleep. yuck...

What I feel is that anandi somehow came to know ganga visited her room at night while she was asleep. Ganga's taunt cant be the only reason behind her making a decision to move to shiv niketan.