Balika Vadhu 20 April 2015 Written Update - Page 2

I suppose he should alwaays be mindful after all he is at the mercy of Abhi's father since he is living at his home.He should always behave in a way which will not antagonise Abhi in any way😛

wats the need 2 shivam 2 tell abhi's marks wen abhi was abt 2 tell.shivam announced his marks said he din't ci=um in even 1st top 10. wats this??who says like this??

What Abhi and his mother do with their problems is their business.If he compares himself to other boys and feels bad then it is for his parents problem to sort that out.

Even before Shivam opened his mouth and said anything about Abhi he already was feeling bad for himself.

Anandi needs to show her son that there is a world beyond Abhi and his complexes.Giving lectures to Shivam about Abhi's feelings is not going to make Shivam understand nor will it solve his problem with Abhi be solved. Today it is Abhi and tomorrow it may be someone else. So it may be better if she teaches her son to focus his surplus energies on something constructive instead of trying to get back at Abhi.

Whats the surety he won't behave like this with Shiv Niketan's kids because he has a habit , he finds its fun to show off he and his choices are the best others are bad , he is best and others are lesser than him ?

What people want Abhi's parents to sort out for him ? Shivam's so called energy , his great successes are not his problem His problem is his behavior Where he found it wrong mahaan shivam was showing off his report card He felt bad at it ? He felt bad at shivam making fun of him Laughing and telling Dadisaa he scored lesser than him

Abhi was already feeling bad for himself because he scored lesser than he expected and its quite natural reaction Children are children even university student feel low if they score lesser than someone Its a natural human reaction if people consider Abhi a human child His mother encouraged him putting hand on his shoulder and asked him confidently go and show your result and even later encouraged him they will do better next time and she will get him a prize too His mother has done her part now people here probably expect Abhi's parents to teach him you are shivam's charity case let him cute sweet energetic boy make fun of as much as he can and put you down because its his birth right i guess because thats what his problem that shivam always makes fun of him and put him and his choices down or plays rude pranks on him and get away even without apology

Whats the big deal if Anandi lectures shivam ? All parents around the world even scold their children for their mistakes , lectures them on what is right and what is wrong instantly when they commit mistakes or misbehave to let them this is incorrect Those parents are not wrong because children instantly get it but Anandi is not doing this She keeps leniency to shivam and he is going over board in it so is it Abhi's parents fault or great mother Anandi's Its Anandi's fault

and he will behave like this with others too because he is getting habituated in it because mother is not doing anything to teach him a lesson