has Anu been the ideal wife?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Let's take Anu after marraige. Has she been ideal wife. I would rate her only a 6 on a scale of 10 . Here are my reasons-

1. Just before they were to be married , when rajat asks her for her decision and devyani prompts her to answer , I would have normally thought she would Atleast said yes,but she waited for veer to tell her to ahead. I agree maybe she felt bad for veer but then veer was someone she knew for a few days only ,she should have for a second thought about the pain rajat went through for a month, the amount of love he had for her and must have first answered his question and then spoken to veer.

2. The wedding night where she gave the entire credit of her marraige with rajat to veer. She was just too annoying to me then

3. Then she abruptly cut short the honeymoon after hearing about veer accident instead of listening to rajat and checking on the phone first

4 then she decided to play matchmaker for veer , till she realised minty 's plan and when she did her first concern was that how much veer would be hurt if he knew this

5 when finally rajat tells her veer left , she gives him the ultimate compliment that he left to save her marraige.

Where was her love for rajat on all the above ocassions , if she had it she certainly did not exhibit it. These above instances left me with the thought that if she really felt so much for veer she should have gone ahead and married him.rajat had after all reconciled himself to losing her.

After veer, it was her family
With the veer problem solved, dev and her family took precedence, she was always comforting her father or dev and trying to clear dev' s name that she was indifferent to rajat or preoccupied with thoughts of dev and her family honour till the truth came out. After the truth came out, she was preoccupied about minty ' s plan . After stopping dev marraige she continues to be preoccupied with minty and kaajal

Tell me girls which husband would want a wife who is always preoccupied with her friend or family' s welfare and is running around with a Worried face all the time donning a detective's cap and has little quality time for him.

but then rajat sareen thinks the world of her . So be it. I think it will be only a matter of time before rajat's patience runs out and i will not blame rajat if that happens.

So Anu you are a long way off from being the ideal wife.the day you put your husband before your family and the day you show him how much you love him by action ,will be the day i will believe you have become one. And don't worry when you do that rajat sareen believe me will take care of your family too.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree in particular with points 3 &4.
However, in the serial, they may continue to show Anu this way, because the
makers probably think this is how she should behave! 😕
They may even show that Rajat agrees
with all this detective work and appreciates Anu for it!
Edited by LoneSoldier - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: LoneSoldier

I agree in particular with points 3 &4.

However, in the serial, they may continue to show Anu this way, because the
makers probably think this is how she should behave! 😕
They may even show that Rajat agrees
with all this detective work and appreciates Anu for it!

hi you are right. Cvs thinks this is how an ideal wife should behave. So we are going to get more of this idealism from Anu mata. Poor rajat!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you.
And she slept in her first night with Rajat..😲

Started hiding things from Rajat in her honeymoon itself.🤔

I'd rated her 5/10
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i dont know wen will anu retire from tis detective job poor rajju struggling with her 😭 always busy with others problems wen will she get time to spend with rajju then... 😕 even if she gets time she will get headache or else she will start chanting dev minty kajal dhoodwala sabjiwala 😡 I can only give her 4 r 5 out of 10
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: awida

Agree with you.

And she slept in her first night with Rajat..😲

Started hiding things from Rajat in her honeymoon itself.🤔

I'd rated her 5/10

you are so correct awida. How did I miss out these two points. Rajat so lovingly removing her jewellery and she wanting to sleep after that !! My god!! And yes she hiding things from rajat is also a minus point.. In fact she does it all the time and then expects him to trust her blindly.You are right 5 on 10 it is.
Edited by R95510 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshah143

i dont know wen will anu retire from tis detective job poor rajju struggling with her 😭 always busy with others problems wen will she get time to spend with rajju then... 😕 even if she gets time she will get headache or else she will start chanting dev minty kajal dhoodwala sabjiwala 😡 I can only give her 4 r 5 out of 10

you are so right eshah it should be only 5 or even less than that
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Radhika I have always felt that Anu's love never had the same depth as Rajat. For me her character Arc took a deep plunge right from the beginning of Devyani engagement to Rajat.And I don't know if it's me but lately her character evokes nothing but irritation in me.
Edited by RUQAIYA10 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Superb post...100% agree with u... anu s a good daughter n sister but she s not a good bahu n wife...

as for me o will give zero for anu as a wife bz she never give any concern for rajat... never tk cr of him... her only preference s her dad sis n all...n now detective work.. wen we got a perfect anuraj aftr marg... now anu s irritating me.. ufff.. 😔
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you a about Anu mata! 😆

tAlso I think Rajat hasn't been that much of an amazing husband either. I know Anu's detective work is slightly over the top but Rajat never seems to trust her... I think we all have the tendency to forget this guy's trust issues because we are overwhelmed by Rajat Sareen. I love Rajat too and he's a lovely guy but sometimes trusting your wife (especially when she has proven herself trustworthy several times) will go a long way in having a good married life.
Starting from the whole CD phenomenon. Like com'on Minty has proven herself to be a "WITCH" more than a million times, his dad even agrees with Anu yet Rajat trusts his so called mother more. Also, I found the whole doubting Anu-Veer thing a bit stupid. I know Anu was being overfriendly with Veer. But dudee! She's had a whole big fat love story with you and you two were like Rome-Juliet and she sacrificed her self-respect to get Kari off your back and all. She won't suddenly (not this quickly after marriage anyway) fall for another guy!

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