raman:a terrible father.

his blind love for adi and the absolute lack thereof for ruhi infuriates me. im sorry, but as a sibling, that is just wrong. ruhi gets ishita's complete and absolute attention and love, and thats probably why she doesnt mind too much... i feel so bad for ruhi. it seems like the only reason he even wants her back is so he can please ishita...its kinda painful to watch. as heartwarming as the relationship between ruhi and her ishima is, its equally painful to see a child being neglected by her father and having her brother constantly picked over her. i mean seriously? your son is suicidal, so your solution is to abandon your daughter to PLEASE him? to make him feel "important"? WHATEVER HAPPENED TO TALKING SENSE INTO YOUR CHILD?! yes, hes depressed. yes, he thinks hes the reason for all the problems. NO THE SOLUTION IS NOT TO AGGRAVATE THE PROBLEM HE BLAMES HIMSELF FOR. raman should show his love for adi, NOT DEPRIVE RUHI OF LOVE! what the fish is wrong with him?! what if your daughter becomes suicidal because you are so desperate to bow down to every whim of your childish,insolent son?! he KNOWS shagun is a poo mother, he KNOWS ruhi is absolutely miserable with her. he KNOWS adi has his whole god damn family with him. and yet, YET, he decides to condemn that little innocent soul to a life of absolute HELL because his SON IS NOT THINKING STRAIGHT? ARE YOU EFFING KIDDING ME?! raman you are a terrible, terrible TERRIBLE father.

Agreed. This show is going south.

Originally posted by: AnkitaKaran

Your whole ranting is beating around the bush for venting out your anger on Raman. What was the solution he had? What better choice could you propose given the same circumstances?

Raman is doing nothing to get Ruhi but just behaving like a chamcha to Shagun and Ashok... Why cant he even look for a new job?

Raman is not at all being a good father to Ruhi. He only plays good father to Adi. He has hardly ever done anything good for Ruhi. He only has his love for Adi. Sometimes we almost feel that Ruhi is not his daughter.

Why is Ruhi not pissed off with Raman? Does she also not treat him as her father. This also shows that Raman and Ruhi do not have feelings for each other.

When she is still friendly with Raman, how difficult is it for Raman to talk to her and explain to her that she is with Shagun all because of him...
Ishita did this all for the family thinking that Ruhi is a strong girl and understand. He can even tell Ruhi that this is a temporary arrangement to teach Shagun a lesson and that she needs to be patient and play games with Shagun until this is resolved. Ruhi is not Adi who has a half brain. She has been so understanding so far that she will be able to really adjust to the situation positively. No one is being positive with her. She is left all alone.

On top of all this he is hiding everything from Ishita... the list is increasing. The bubble will burst anytime now and it might not work well for Ishra I am afraid.

CVs cannot think positive so forget it. They are making Raman and Ishita look so stupid. A woman whose whole life revolves around her daughter is doing nothing but glorifying others life( Adi, Shravan, Mihika etc ...) Raman opens his mouth with Shagun only in private not in front of Ruhi. He is just dumb when Ruhi is around. Why cant he open the truth in front of Ruhi?????

seems like Raman forced ishu For God's sake the whole family THE IYERS too agreed to it so must be a real reason its not a joke all kids don't have suicidal nature Adi has seen and been through lot more than Ruhi Forum is obsessed with isru got it but its freaking hell to see only Raman bashing post as if he didn't return the paper and asked ishuu to take a decision He did try to pressurise Shagun about monetary factor (because he knows shagun doesn't love ruhi) during adi he couldn't have do that because somewhere shagun loved adi. Anyway I m honestly done with this forum and some person who can't see any efforts of Raman May I ask what is Ishita doing now?? Raman ensured ruhi's safety through mihir Did Ishita try to go and meet ruhi once? No. Raman Is a terrible father than what is Ishita? she too Is sitting and crying only with some dose of lecture The fact is BOTH R TRYING BUT SOME PEOPLE JUST NEED A REASON TO BASH RAMAN ONCE AGAIN IT WAS FREAKING ISHITA'S DECISION ON COURT TO GIVE UP RUHI (FOR THE SAME SUICIDAL MATTER ONLY) SO MUST BE A BIG REASON NOW ISN'T IT?? any way its just a show people needs to chill parents always supports the one who is a little weak cuz they know the other one will b in a control. Tell me other than crying ruhi did anyone see her broken or trying to suicide ?? No nah?? because all KIDS MENTAL STATE R NOT SAME ND RUHI IS STRONG

seems like Raman forced ishu
For God's sake the whole family
THE IYERS too agreed to it so must be a real reason
its not a joke
all kids don't have suicidal nature
Adi has seen and been through lot more than Ruhi
Forum is obsessed with isru got it
but its freaking hell to see only Raman bashing post as if he didn't return the paper and asked ishuu to take a decision
He did try to pressurise Shagun about monetary factor (because he knows shagun doesn't love ruhi) during adi he couldn't have do that because somewhere shagun loved adi.

Anyway I m honestly done with this forum and some person who can't see any efforts of Raman
May I ask what is Ishita doing now??
Raman ensured ruhi's safety through mihir
Did Ishita try to go and meet ruhi once? No.
Raman Is a terrible father
than what is Ishita?
she too Is sitting and crying only with some dose of lecture


The fact is BOTH R TRYING BUT SOME PEOPLE JUST NEED A REASON TO BASH RAMAN
ONCE AGAIN IT WAS FREAKING ISHITA'S DECISION ON COURT TO GIVE UP RUHI (FOR THE SAME SUICIDAL MATTER ONLY) SO MUST BE A BIG REASON NOW ISN'T IT??

any way its just a show people needs to chill
parents always supports the one who is a little weak cuz they know the other one will b in a control.

Tell me other than crying ruhi did anyone see her broken or trying to suicide ?? No nah?? because all KIDS MENTAL STATE R NOT SAME ND RUHI IS STRONG

seems like Raman forced ishu For God's sake the whole family THE IYERS too agreed to it so must be a real reason its not a joke all kids don't have suicidal nature Adi has seen and been through lot more than Ruhi Forum is obsessed with isru got it but its freaking hell to see only Raman bashing post as if he didn't return the paper and asked ishuu to take a decision He did try to pressurise Shagun about monetary factor (because he knows shagun doesn't love ruhi) during adi he couldn't have do that because somewhere shagun loved adi. Anyway I m honestly done with this forum and some person who can't see any efforts of Raman May I ask what is Ishita doing now?? Raman ensured ruhi's safety through mihir Did Ishita try to go and meet ruhi once? No. Raman Is a terrible father than what is Ishita? she too Is sitting and crying only with some dose of lecture The fact is BOTH R TRYING BUT SOME PEOPLE JUST NEED A REASON TO BASH RAMAN ONCE AGAIN IT WAS FREAKING ISHITA'S DECISION ON COURT TO GIVE UP RUHI (FOR THE SAME SUICIDAL MATTER ONLY) SO MUST BE A BIG REASON NOW ISN'T IT?? any way its just a show people needs to chill parents always supports the one who is a little weak cuz they know the other one will b in a control. Tell me other than crying ruhi did anyone see her broken or trying to suicide ?? No nah?? because all KIDS MENTAL STATE R NOT SAME ND RUHI IS STRONG

Since the first time I saw crying (exaggerating) for what Adi is and what Adi has been saying about him, I knew he will always side his son no matter what, wrong or right.. The best thing is that why does he get irritated when you explain him the reality of things or when he knows he is wrong? Dude! The character Raman is the perfect example of a totally ignorant human human who cares just about his desires! (can't even justify those as needs!) Go now have your son and enjoy your miserable life!